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Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ellejay
Not to single you out, but your post reminded me of something. It always grinds my gears when people who try to make women feel better about large inner lips say that vulvas with small inner lips looks childlike or unnatural. I don't understand ... more
I'm not offended. I agree. The thing with vaginas is that they're all different and they are there for several purposes: sex, urination, childbirth. They're all going to look different and they're all beautiful in their own right because of the functions they serve. Just because someone has labia that are different than someone else doesn't mean their pussy gives you any less pleasure. Or gives THEM any less pleasure. Just because I have no inner lips (or so small they're nonexistent.. yes I've looked in a mirror and I've never seen any inner lips) doesn't mean I look like a child. I've babysat (and thus changed the diapers of) children who had large labia minora. It's genetic. It's just how that person's body was created based on the DNA they carry.

It's not like women who have small or no labia minora are having plastic surgery to CREATE them. (at least I don't think they are)
03/09/2011
Contributor: PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
You may not like it but I bet if you put a pic of your pussy to vote you would be very please with the amount of men and women that find your pussy attractive.
03/30/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
If a man thinks your pussy is ugly, he isn't worth fucking. No pussy is ugly. That's ridiculous.
04/01/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Male genitalia is definitely more attractive.
That kinda depends on your orientation Genitalia is attractive as far as I am concerned....but then again I have a husband who would love to be able to use a picture of my crotch as his background on his computer...or hung on the wall as fine art. My point is I have received very positive feedback about my concerns about the arrtactiveness of my genitals and I kinda think he knows better than I do what is attractive in a pussy! He's the one who would happily suffocate in one.
I am wondering what your partner thinks of your pussy Eden C. If your partner loves your cunt then you can be reasonably certain your labia is fine...unless you truly believe your partner is an idiot and wouldn't know a beautiful cunt if he/she saw it! Sometimes we can see the world in a different way simply by looking through our lover's eyes.
...and like was mentioned earlier labiaplasty looks just plain awful painful!
04/23/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
I think this is an ugly pussy.
Awwww see? even though that IS an ugly pussy....it is still something to snuggle up with!
04/23/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I'm sure that there are people who think that a large clit, large labia, and natural hair growth on a pussy is all very beautiful. So I think that would be a matter of personal preference.
In fact Arch prefers natural hairgrowth on a woman. I know many men who prefer a woman with a large clitoris because they feel it is easier to stimulate and some men are VERY attracted to large labia.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I have never met a vagina I didn't think was beautiful, but I have found it rare to find a woman who thought her pussy was perfect the way it was. I think it is always about human nature to find flaws with ourselves.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by cobiffle
Some can be bad, usually with girls really over weight or been around the block to much
I, too, am overweight and my labia are small....I dare say I also have LOTS of sex both solo and partnered AND I've had 3 kids. My pink taco is still high and tight. In fact my doctor pointed out one day during a conversation that most women who are overweight have fat deposits in that area that cause their labia to appear plump and fully closed as opposed to lengthened and 'droopy'.

Labia size and shape is genetic not caused by actions, unless you have an accident or some sort of disfiguring disease.
04/23/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
I happen to think all women are beautiful creatures.We are all unique in our own way.
I personally love all parts of my own body.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by ellejay
Not to single you out, but your post reminded me of something. It always grinds my gears when people who try to make women feel better about large inner lips say that vulvas with small inner lips looks childlike or unnatural. I don't understand ... more
Yeah, I will never understand why some people believe that insulting a human being on one end of the spectrum is affirming to a human being on the opposite end of the spectrum, as when someone denigrates a slender or fair-skinned person in order to flatter a voluptuous or dark-skinned person (both examples that I've witnessed a time or two). It's ridiculous.

There are beautiful people in all shapes, colors, and sizes. Is it really necessary to put one group of people down to exalt another? To me, if the flatterer feels the need to put someone else down, their compliment is insincere.

Variety is the spice of life; enjoying one particular flavor doesn't diminish our appreciation of another, though we all, of course, have our favorites.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
Quote:
Originally posted by Cedarlooman
I have never met a vagina I didn't think was beautiful, but I have found it rare to find a woman who thought her pussy was perfect the way it was. I think it is always about human nature to find flaws with ourselves.
While I have met a few that weren't to my tastes (pun unintended), I've never seen a healthy vulva that I would consider to be "ugly".

And yes, those of us with labia, etc are often far too hard on ourselves when it comes to body image. It's all about societal expectations.
04/25/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Is there such a thing as an ugly pussy? I personally think my vulva is hideous, but then I thought about it and realized that most genitals are sexually arousing, but not aesthetically pleasing. I am attracted to women, but I hate looking at my own ... more
I have never seen a vulva that was not beautiful. I have been married now for almost 25 years, but before that I was a bit of a hound. As long as its healthy its beautiful. PS, my wife's MD told her once that her labial lips were a bit on the large size. She asked me what I thought and I said, and meant it, that I love large lips, more to kiss, suckle, play with and love. Hers are perfect. I don't understand the concept of vulva surgery.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I just had a look at some labiaplasty before and after photos, and while a few of the before photos looked like they needed the surgery, most of them looked perfectly normal to me. The after photos were the ones were the ones I thought looked the most unnatural.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
Most pussies can be made beautiful with a bit of good ol' shaving or sugaring I don't think it's the shape, it's the excessive hair that makes one nice or ugly. Maybe so I haven't seen a really ugly yet maybe they are only a very few.
05/02/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
I am actually very comfortable and content with the appearance of my own, which seems surprising when reading how many of you women out there are displeased and.or disgusted with your own! :O Though, I have been with and seen some women out there who, sadly, were less than appealing to the eyes 'down there'...
05/05/2011
Contributor: Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Is there such a thing as an ugly pussy? I personally think my vulva is hideous, but then I thought about it and realized that most genitals are sexually arousing, but not aesthetically pleasing. I am attracted to women, but I hate looking at my own ... more
No such thing
05/05/2011
Contributor: Rachel Nunez Rachel Nunez
Im not into vaj jay's.. but some are prettier then others
05/06/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
Some may look a little weird.. but I dont think a healthy pussy can be ugly
05/06/2011
Contributor: mikebooks mikebooks
Quote:
Originally posted by PersonalAngel
You may not like it but I bet if you put a pic of your pussy to vote you would be very please with the amount of men and women that find your pussy attractive.
I agree.
05/11/2011
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
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Originally posted by Linga
All I have to say is Blue Waffle.
yeah thats ewww!! lol..
05/26/2011
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
i don't like my pussy either I feel as if my lips are too big!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I've never seen a ugly vagina. I dont want to either lol hahaha
06/08/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
Is there such a thing as an ugly pussy? I personally think my vulva is hideous, but then I thought about it and realized that most genitals are sexually arousing, but not aesthetically pleasing. I am attracted to women, but I hate looking at my own ... more
Brought your question up at our little "honest dinner" and all six of the woman there said they KNOW all guys love ALL woman's shapes and all six guys said that they had never, in their collective lives, seen a woman whose "lady parts" were not delightful...regardles s of size, shape..etc. You are worried for nothing. They DO surgery to alter labial size (get a REAL, honest, good surgeon if you are going to even think about such things), but it would be for YOU...not any guy. I am sure...sorry to be crude...any guy would consider your "Taco", as you just put it...a FIVE STAR GOURMET DELIGHT.
06/09/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Tuesday
You should watch this documentary on women's labia. The Perfect Vagina

Having your labia altered looks like a super painful procedure. The documentary shows a class that's given that helps women appreciate their labia no matter what ... more
From a guys perspective..."The Perfect Vagina" is one that want's you. They are ALL works of art and BEAUTIFUL to me!!!!
06/09/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Male genitalia is definitely more attractive.
Funny...guys think OUR "junk" is more cumbersome and ladies genitalia is pretty and neat. Of course, isn't it nice that we tend to find the anatomy of the other gender attractive. Make most dating/marriage work better. There are exception, I know..but in general...
06/09/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
You should watch this documentary on women's labia. The Perfect Vagina

Having your labia altered looks like a super painful procedure. The documentary shows a class that's given that helps women appreciate their labia no matter what ... more
I can't get the stupid ad that pops up over the video to go away.
06/23/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I know my wife hates the way she looks down there, but I think she's beautiful. No such thing as an ugly vagina!
06/23/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I'm not a huge fan of large labia, but there are plenty of people out there attracted to all different types. I don't think people should feel so insecure. Guarenteed theres someone out there that will be attracted to it.
06/23/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Nope, pussies are hot. I love seeing all the variations, even the stranger ones!
07/25/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
You should watch this documentary on women's labia. The Perfect Vagina

Having your labia altered looks like a super painful procedure. The documentary shows a class that's given that helps women appreciate their labia no matter what ... more
Tuesday! Thank you for posting the link to the documentary. I really think this is a must for ALL people to see, and I feel great to know that it is out there for when my daughter is the right age, I can show it to her.
07/25/2011