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Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Do you prefer to be on top and in control or on bottom?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Top
married with children , PiratePrincess , eggiweg , SexyStuff , dhig , barrettbn2 , Kayla , rdytogo , mama2007 , darthkitt3n , Miss T , Willis2011 , tkdchick90 , sarah2 , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , reknit , lcl169 , hawaiian chick
18  (27%)
Bottom
MaryExy , Lio , Rossie , Red Vinyl Kitty , wildcat , ToyingCouple , *Ashley* , jakjak , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Waterfall , P'Gell , *HisMrs* , Shellz31 , padmeamidala , Joie de Cherresse , wetone123 , sixfootsex , horngry , froggiemoma , potstickers , DreamWolf , Stephanie Majors , NarcissisticLust , Indigo Morada , SMichelle , shySEXXaddict , Princess-Kayla ♥ , BobbiJay , Secret Pleasure , cburger , prettynpink , Stinkytofu10 , joelb42 , damnbul12
34  (52%)
Other (explain)
newlady , Gallowraven , removedacnt , joja , indiglo , Lady Venus , link82 , newfoundlust , Kaltir , The Curious Couple , Greenleaf , Lizzy , catsin , Noelle
14  (21%)
Total votes: 66
Poll is closed
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Contributor: married with children married with children
its nice to see her on top every now and then.
04/07/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Strict bottom here. I am nooooooot the dominating type.
04/07/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
I voted other because it's always bottom now (weight gain on partner's part and virtually impossible! ). If I had my choice, it'd be me on top most of the time! *sigh* miss those days
04/07/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I love to be on top, and it's my favorite position. He enjoys it a lot too
04/07/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I prefer bottom, but my husband likes me riding him first before switching around.
04/07/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Bottom, and I do not switch.
04/07/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I like it when he starts on top and then we switch. I can only orgasm on top so it is the way to go.
04/07/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
Most of the time I HAVE to be on top, but if I had it my way, I would have it EVERY way.
04/07/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Both, but of course at different times. I prefer to finish on the bottom though.
04/07/2011
Contributor: joja joja
I like being on bottom AND in control. At the same time.
04/07/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I like being on top
04/08/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I like both!
04/08/2011
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
I like both, but top is better
04/08/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Mommy2
Do you prefer to be on top and in control or on bottom?
i enjoy being on top but sometimes im exhausted from giving oral to my hubby and my legs hurt lol its sad... seriously sometimes legs feel like they are gonna give out cuz im so tired even tho oral lasts about 25 mins on a good night =]
04/09/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
On the bottom. We don't switch either. Once in a while, he likes me to sit on his face, but it's more a command than my being "in control."
04/09/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm a bottom - slave
04/09/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
both.
04/09/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Mommy2
Do you prefer to be on top and in control or on bottom?
I am almost always on the bottom. I do like to sometimes play with women though and be on Top. It's a nice change from the usual. But I never like to be on Top with men, only women.
04/09/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
Top
04/09/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
As much as I LOVE riding on top, I LOVE him being in control more....
04/09/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
It depends on what kind of mood I'm in.
04/09/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Top always.
04/28/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Mommy2
Do you prefer to be on top and in control or on bottom?
I enjoy both. Diversity and variety are everything.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I am definitely a bottom. But I service top because I have learned a lot of different abilities and my Mistress asks me to do a service to the community by topping in rope, fire play and fire cupping, and many other things.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I prefer bottom, but enjoy switching it up occasionally.
04/28/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I picked "other" because I can't choose!
04/28/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Bottom, as long as it is satisfying for me too, though even the feeling of being under His Thumb without getting anything in return is most pleasing, at least as long as am not neglected too long!
12/15/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I don't really care its fun to mix it up
12/15/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
We usually start with me on bottom but by the end of it, I'm almost always on top. I usually can only get off when I'm on top. My boyfriend is a bigger guy so he can't last on top for too long. He gets too tired. Lol.
12/15/2011