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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
Do you prefer to be on top or on the bottom when it comes to sex?
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Top
Sir , kcordie , Lady Venus , ScottA , pinkzombie , Lurr , PropertyOfPotter , jdloelo , Rckt56 , Kindred , fghjkl , Lummox , onehotmomma , Lady Neshamah , moonch1ld , Hot'n'Bothered , V.T.T , Beaners , CuteDee , Smitty , DexterStratton , skunked , lovemuscle n cookie , slynch , EnMH , Lady Marmelade , Eva Schwaltz , js250 , kjkitty , Lucky21 , angel142stx , kinksters , Ryuson , CreamySweet , The Mother of a SiNner , jeangel246 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast
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bottom
sugarOne , Lime , Persephone's Addiction , SydVicious , RadRach , Pleasured n Aroused , Lavender*Moon , Persephone Nightmare , DeliciousSurprise , ZenaidaMacroura , paralax , ScottA , Envy , Jenniae09 , KinkyShay , JPito , PurpleBerry , SexyySarah , Anne Ardeur , Taylor , Coralbell , Kindred , fghjkl , Selective Sensualist , Lummox , onehotmomma , Lady Neshamah , rdytogo , sbon , darthkitt3n , RubenesqueAna , Waterfall , RemusHalifax , Intertwining , Darling Jen , C4ss , Jimmy.P , V.T.T , nyc cpl , DixieDoo , Beaners , joja , The Awesome Penguin , Blakiepoo , removedacnt , padmeamidala , MaryExy , Smitty , ss143 , Bunnycups , Shellz31 , slynch , okami , Ratito , Mika R. , sarki , RedGoddess , redstarr681 , Miss Anonymous , tickle me pink , Beck , Shorty32 , Pinkhare , MJ1337 , Bignuf , AngelvMaynard , Lilith's Girl Friday , BeautifulDarkness , angel142stx , kinksters , Sex'и'Violence , zracer , ThoughtsAblaze , Sinfully , The Mother of a SiNner , Valentinka , potstickers , jeangel246 , ButterflyKisses92 , aliceinthehole , bdvnt , Thumper Logic , tami , Do-Re-Mi , Neotigress , pyratess , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Stinkytofu10 , meitman , Molly Carter , joelb42 , SMichelle , solitudinarian , pfoof
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Total votes: 131 (116 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: sugarOne sugarOne
I prefer to be on the bottom.
08/30/2010
Contributor: DELETED DELETED
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
I prefer to be on the bottom.
Top with a guy..bottom with a woman
08/31/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Depends on how I feel that day...
08/31/2010
Contributor: kcordie kcordie
bottom is less work, top is more pleasureable
09/04/2010
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
I prefer to be on the bottom.
I'm with you on this one. For one, being on top just isn't as pleasurable - the angles are all wrong. It does nothing for me. Also, I like being a passenger on the sex train. LOL
I've always been the dominant partner in all of my previous relationships and I realized at some point that was why I got bored and was sexually unfulfilled - I need a man that's dominant enough to put me in my place.
09/05/2010
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
I prefer the bottom only because I get so caught up in his pleasure when I'm on top, that I forget to enjoy it myself. I almost never orgasm when I'm on top.
09/06/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
We flip back and forth.
09/10/2010
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Do you prefer to be on top or on the bottom when it comes to sex?
deff bottom. not the top, but there are others that are good too.
09/10/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Having the woman on top is great because she can move around easily and hit all of her buttons. I don't lay back and let her do all the work, either - I'm strong enough to thrust even when she's on top.

I'd recommend guys let her ride at least a couple of times so you can pay attention to how she likes things to move. You do need to make sure that she isn't worried too much about you and can really explore what feels best for her (come on, women - we're men, it all feels good).
09/10/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Bottom, but my bf loves to be bottom too, so i guess we kinda scuffle who goes where, lol.
09/10/2010
Contributor: Tisbury Tisbury
We switch around once in awhile but she's usually the one lying down. hahah
09/10/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
where is both?
09/11/2010
Contributor: PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
Both depending on my mood.
09/11/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by softkkisses
where is both?
The poster is/was new. Give her time and hopefully she'll start remembering "all of the above" and "other"
09/11/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I prefer the bottom, cause my hubby can move it way better than I can! lol
09/11/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
I prefer to be on the bottom.
the top...im in control
11/21/2010
Contributor: Lurr Lurr
I can't remember the last time we went a whole session without trading off at least once. Variety is the spice of life.
12/11/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
top is easier right now
12/12/2010
Contributor: jdloelo jdloelo
Love both, but top works for me when I am with a new partner who may not be sure what I like. Still do love bottom, puts a man in charge mmmm.......
12/12/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
I'm a switch. It changes
12/13/2010
Contributor: Lummox Lummox
Choosing both.
12/13/2010
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
I picked both . After about 5 minutes of sitting here trying to decide what i like better lol
12/13/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
both
12/13/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Def. bottom. Then I don't have to do as much work
12/13/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
definitely bottom
12/14/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
I like the submissiveness of being on the bottom much more. Plus, I'm never really able to move right to make top feel good. All these women who say being on top makes it easier to get what makes you feel good - I beg you to explain. I don't get it!
12/14/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I love being a bottom, but sometimes I love to be on top to ravish my man.
12/19/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyySarah
I prefer the bottom, cause my hubby can move it way better than I can! lol
You need to practice!
12/21/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I like bottom because I really get a chance to see her and my hands are free. Plus it IS less work!

I'm usually on top, though, and that's good too!
12/21/2010