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misslady
I highly prefer to be the little spoon because I'm more than a foot shorter than my partner. Which is also why I can't seem to understand why we're always bickering in bed about who has to be big spoon, since I thought it was clearly
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I highly prefer to be the little spoon because I'm more than a foot shorter than my partner. Which is also why I can't seem to understand why we're always bickering in bed about who has to be big spoon, since I thought it was clearly understood that it should be him! Then he likes to top it off with rubbish like he feels safe in my arms or some other crap like that...
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My Man says the same thing. He feels safe and taken care of when I hold him. I certainly enjoy being the Big Spoon at times. He needs love and affection, also. I think it's sweet when a big, bad, muscled, tattooed, hairy Dom like My Man wants to be held in my arms. Despite him being about 15 inches taller than me, having large shoulders and a wide back and arms, I LOVE holding him. I love it when he shows vulnerability.
Last night I was the Little Spoon and he was the Big Spoon. Fell asleep together without even washing the Wahl. (Rare for me, as I am a fanatic about cleaning my toys right after sex.) It got cleaned first thing this morning, before we got at it again. This morning I was the Big Spoon and he was the Little Spoon, as he wanted his back rubbed and scratched. Then, he rubbed my back and we ended up in a pile of some way. Just a jumble of bodies, arms, legs, heads and love.
Although I love lying in his arms, it's nice to hold him, as well.
Any intimate touching is fantastic for us.