I learned about squirting through clit stimulation. I have not yet mastered g-spotting. Make sure that your bladder is empty before sex. I am able to squirt easier if I am on bottom and he is using deep penetration. I will rub or use a pocket rocket or any vibrator to arouse my clit. Once my legs start to jerk and I want to yank the vibrator off, I add more pressure and BAM! If you like you can try solo to see what works best for you.