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Contributor: jennydanger jennydanger
ok. so while conversing with my guy about our sex life he revealed that he would like me to talk dirty more [really he meant AT ALL] during sex. the most i manage is to say 'oooh that feels sooo good' or 'fuck me hard, i love it when you fuck me hard!' and stuff like that.

i really want to be able to do this, but i feel silly saying anything more elaborate than that. mostly because im a little bit shy about having the focus on me in that way. i prefer to be dominated.

sooo, any advice or tips for me? i dont want to just shout out stuff for the hell of it, i want to be genuine about it, yak now?
08/17/2010
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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I think the best way to start would just be to elaborate and be more specific. Like if he's into nipple play start at it then ask him 'do you like it when I play with your nipples?' 'pinch, them, squeeze them, bite them' etc. You can always substitute whichever body part in for nipples, but it's a start
08/17/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
You don't really have to give up your love of domination to take dirty. Just change your "talking dirty" into begging if that makes sense. Like "Please take me", or "Please let me touch your nipples", or "I need be fucked right now", or "You make me so wet" or something like that. By focusing on what he's doing to you/begging for me, you can stay comfortably submissive while still giving some dirty talk. And once you get past the initial fear of it, you'll probably find that it turns you both on.

Lemme know if I can help anymore.
08/17/2010
Contributor: jennydanger jennydanger
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Originally posted by Kayla
You don't really have to give up your love of domination to take dirty. Just change your "talking dirty" into begging if that makes sense. Like "Please take me", or "Please let me touch your nipples", or "I ... more
good point. he likes to hear me beg, sometimes telling me to. i will definitely do that!
08/17/2010
Contributor: PolyGirl PolyGirl
Yeah, little anime girl character noises (well that's how I think of them) with things like "are you gonna....." "please don't.... me" "I can't, it's too [big/hard]" stuff like that.

I really prefer they talk to me in a dominant way, too. I find that if I can whisper in his ear, that can help me get started. Once I get started, I'm ok.
08/17/2010
Contributor: missmandy27 missmandy27
Take a look at some Gianna Michaels videos. My boyfriend told me he'd like me to get better at dirty talk as well. Gianna is one of his favorites and I've done some research on her. One of her many talents is dirty talk and she can let it fly like no other. Hope this helps some and good luck
08/20/2010