I realize that what we do (we are a very "sexual" couple) may actually be rare or odd to most. If I happen to be on the toilet, just peeing, or hubby is standing at the toilet peeing and the other walks by, the other will often just step in and "take a moment" to be "sexual". For instance, I might grab his wonderful "tool" and just hold it while he finishes peeing. I might even (sorry if this offends anyone), bend down and kiss the knob or give him a little lick on top, as he finishes. I will then look up into his eyes, smile and just leave (after washing my hands, of course). Likewise, if I am urinating, he might come in and stroke my breast for a second or open his zipper and aim his "toy" in my face (our toilet is the perfect hight for oral). He does not expect a BJ...just a kiss. He will then lean down, kiss me HARD on the lips, say "I am SO in love with you"..smile and leave on his way to where he was going. Some rare times it might turn into sex...but that is one in a thousand. Most times it's like the "pat on the butt, when passing in the hallway". Anyone else show affection this way...or once again, are we so darn odd???