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Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read that supposedly at age 27, that is the age where most men stop spilling their sex stories.

Do you tell your friends about your sexual encounters?

Does it matter if you are single or are in a committed relationship?

What ... more
My sex life is a private thing. I don't share my experiences with my friends. With here it's different, because on here there are only strangers.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I used to work in a call center. Rumors got around quickly and they were often not true and people assumed they were true.

Anyways, I used to talk with friends about things but I didn't go into details and I spoke only to my friends.

My sister started working with people I worked with and apparantly I talked to everyone in detail about my sex life! My sister was so shocked she talked to me about it. I reaussured her I had some humbleness when it came to what and with whom I shared.
10/14/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read that supposedly at age 27, that is the age where most men stop spilling their sex stories.

Do you tell your friends about your sexual encounters?

Does it matter if you are single or are in a committed relationship?

What ... more
I don't tell my friends anything
10/14/2010
Contributor: Yiggi Yiggi
I have one friend that I blab everything to, the others get sort of a general smattering.
10/14/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I think maturity and personality has more to do with it than age level, not that those two contribute the same factors whatsoever. I'm a verbal slut. I'm the Karen Owen of California!
10/14/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I talk about sex all the time. But sex in general not, "Hey listen to what we tried out last night." I really only have a few (3) close friends (more like sisters) that I would even consider talking about sex to and I only confide in one of them in these matters and usually only when she asks, "Have you ever tried..." or "How did you get him to ...".
01/17/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
I'm not one to share too much. I only talk about my experiences if directly asked or if it comes up naturally in conversation. I don't go out looking to tell anyone anything, though.
01/18/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Wow, what a lot of options.
I tell my closest friends scattered things about my relationships.
04/14/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
Interesting find!
04/14/2011
Contributor: firekitten firekitten
If it's an amusing story I will share. If it's something deeply intimate I won't even journal about it.
04/14/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I do not talk about what goes on in my bedroom with my friends. That is between my wife and I.
04/15/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
I don't talk to my friends about any of it. They are all goody goodies!
04/16/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I don't tell EVERY thing to every one, but my husband does tend to blab his big mouth to all of his friends. I think he does it to brag honestly.
04/17/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
No. I don't want to accidentally say something that my boyfriend might not want others to know.

I do talk about how I masturbate and things like that. I just don't get into the specifics of things that I do with my boyfriend.
04/17/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I might tell a friend one or two things but not everything.
04/17/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: If somebody asks something, we're pretty unperturbed about answering it, but we don't waltz in and volunteer information.

He: I'm imperturbable! Seriously.

She: Yeah... Nobody can get a reaction out of him for anything. It's great to watch people try.
04/17/2011
Contributor: AMGuidroz AMGuidroz
I only share everything with my partner!
05/19/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
If I'm asked and I know she will not be upset by the info, which is usually the case, I will answer (mostly fully). We belong to a couple of different forums and some know us better than others so we have annonymity in some, but not others, which is more of a consideration than committed relationship or not.
05/20/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Interesting poll.
05/20/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I only really talk about my sex life with friends when I'm drunk. Then I say some things I probably shouldn't.
05/20/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read that supposedly at age 27, that is the age where most men stop spilling their sex stories.

Do you tell your friends about your sexual encounters?

Does it matter if you are single or are in a committed relationship?

What ... more
After 23 years of marriage, as a man I don't talk about my sex life in any detail.
05/20/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I don't really share anything with friends. If I find out something has been said about me then I end the friendship.
07/14/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read that supposedly at age 27, that is the age where most men stop spilling their sex stories.

Do you tell your friends about your sexual encounters?

Does it matter if you are single or are in a committed relationship?

What ... more
We have a small group of friends that get together every Friday for dinner at some different restaurant in town. Fun group. We talk about everything and ALL matters of sex too, come up. All in our group are OLDER (40's to early 60's) and still very happily married to their spouses, and monogamous. Sharing gives us great discussion AND great ideas. I can tell you without a doubt we are MORE sexually adventuresome now then when we were 20 or 30!!!

When we say "WE" and cannot answer "I am male or female" in this kind of poll, it is because, as usual, we are BOTH sitting right here..answering those polls and questions we BOTH want to answer. We shop for toys that way too..first, years ago, from catalogs, now online..together!! Makes waiting for them to come MORE fun.
07/14/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Yoda
I'm married, so I think it's always best to protect my wife's dignity. I mean, I'd be pretty embarrassed if she started telling her friends about me.
When we tell stories it is only to select friends and it is stories we BOTH "share". NO dignity lost in our close group. I admire you worrying about your wife, however. Very noble. Not a lot of that around these days...sadly. Of course..ha, ha...I would expect no less from Master YODA!!!!
07/14/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read that supposedly at age 27, that is the age where most men stop spilling their sex stories.

Do you tell your friends about your sexual encounters?

Does it matter if you are single or are in a committed relationship?

What ... more
No, we do not "share" details with our friends, period.
08/01/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't share any intimate details and neither does he. He'll just tell people general things, like how happy he is, and how great things are, but we really prefer to keep our sex life just between us.
08/01/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I have a couple of friends that I will share some information with.
08/01/2011
Contributor: kjkitty kjkitty
My friends and I actually have one restaurant we all meet at and tell sex stories. It is a lot of fun. Obviously if something was serious or just between me and my boyfriend I wouldn't share it, but everything else is fair game. My boyfriend knows we do this.
08/01/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Genderqueer. I talk to one friend about our slow move into more of a BDSM dynamic, because I need someone who understands.
08/01/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
don't share anything
08/01/2011