When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
Do you ever get shot down?
02/10/2013
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my hubby is a teacher and works 2 coaching jobs, so he is always working.sometimes after a long week on fridays, he just wants to sleep. it sucks b/c im always in the mood but i understand.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
02/10/2013
It does not happen very often.
02/10/2013
I wouldnt say we fight about it, but it makes me really upset. Especially one night my guy was sending flirty texts so I put lingerie on under my clothes and as soon as he came over he said "can we just cuddle tonight im not really up for sex". He knew I was pissed the rest of the night since I had to sneakily go take off my lingerie and do the walk of shame back to the living room.
02/10/2013
It happens sometimes and I'm okay with it.
02/10/2013
It happens and I'm okay with it
02/10/2013
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It doesn't happen very often to me.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
02/10/2013
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Sometimes it irritates me.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
02/10/2013
When it happens it sometimes hurts my feelings and I get upset or sad, but other times I'm ok with it. And I'll occasionally take care of myself after they've gone to sleep.
02/10/2013
she makes up for it next time
02/10/2013
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that stinks
Originally posted by
hmb12
I wouldnt say we fight about it, but it makes me really upset. Especially one night my guy was sending flirty texts so I put lingerie on under my clothes and as soon as he came over he said "can we just cuddle tonight im not really up for
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I wouldnt say we fight about it, but it makes me really upset. Especially one night my guy was sending flirty texts so I put lingerie on under my clothes and as soon as he came over he said "can we just cuddle tonight im not really up for sex". He knew I was pissed the rest of the night since I had to sneakily go take off my lingerie and do the walk of shame back to the living room.
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02/10/2013
And that's what the toys are for, as long as he understands that I have no problem with satisfying myself and in many cases I know the stimulation I need and how to easily get it.
02/10/2013
I like to have my wishes respected so I would always do that for my partner.
02/10/2013
Sometimes it upsets me but most of the time I just please myself later on.
02/10/2013
that never happens shes always down for it
02/10/2013
sometimes she turns me down, but most of the time she does not. I am fine with her turning me down, unless she has been doing it for a few days; then I get alittle upset.
02/10/2013
It happens and I get frustrated or upset sometimes. It sucks that I have a higher sex drive. Lately I've been trying to take care of it myself more though.
02/11/2013
Sometimes. But I have two healthy hands.
02/11/2013
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i understand, cause i'm not always in the mood
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
02/11/2013
Gr8pumpkin
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I got turned down a lot, most times in fact in my first marriage,,made me bitter.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
Now, I am married again, I going on ten years, starting to get turned down more and more, feels the same, pretty soon I'll stop asking.
06/08/2013
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I do not believe in over 30 years, that has ever happened n this relationship...to either of us, by either of us.
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
06/10/2013
Rarely but it happens to both of us, neither one of us gets offended and take care of ourselves until the next time for play time.
07/30/2013
It happens to me quite often. Sex is a very important thing, but it isn't the only thing in a partnership so I live with it.
I have a rather high sex drive and have in my life only had two partners who really were matches in that regard. Unfortunately,one was bat shit crazy, and the other her parents did not approve of me. The later found me again after more than thirty years and hinted at reconnecting, but we were/are both partnered so that won't happen.
I have a rather high sex drive and have in my life only had two partners who really were matches in that regard. Unfortunately,one was bat shit crazy, and the other her parents did not approve of me. The later found me again after more than thirty years and hinted at reconnecting, but we were/are both partnered so that won't happen.
08/04/2013
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I do not get upset
Originally posted by
captainsgirl
When your in the mood, do you ever get turned down by your partner. (wether they are tired or just not in the mood). Do you accept and go on, help yourself or get upset?
08/05/2013
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