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Have your past sexual partners satisfied you?

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Contributor: jazz4me jazz4me
Whether man or woman I am wondering if your past partners satisfied you in bed? most of mine did not, it was always about them. I am wondering if the world is really full of these men who can be so selfish or if it was just me picking really bad guys.
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I have been satisfied by most of my past partners.
cathy23
1
most of my past partners did NOT satisfy me at all.
jazz4me , Coralbell , Darling Jen , Lucidity , Illusional , jaimijacklin , PropertyOfPotter
7
Its been a mixed bag, some partners yes and some no
AYoungMan , toxie m , Lio , gladiola , DeliciousSurprise , darthkitt3n , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
7
Total votes: 15 (15 voters)
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03/13/2011
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Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
That's a nay for me, but I'm much more empowered now for my future partner(s)!
03/13/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
In my case, it's fairly mixed but I know why. I became sexually active pretty young, and back then sex wasn't so much about actually enjoying it as just being "grown-up" and scandalous because we were doing it at all. Also, I really didn't know anything - I honestly thought the sex was great. I didn't know how to please myself and so of course I didn't know how to show my boyfriend how to please me.

As I got older, things got sexier. I learned my body and so did my next few boyfriends; things were good.

Then there was a spell of mostly singleness and one-night stands. These times were never good because I'm kind of a complicated lady to please and one night isn't nearly enough time to figure my body out (or so I've found). So, those times all sucked.

Now, with my current boyfriend, things are the best ever. For me it's really just been a matter of me figuring myself out and taking the time to pass on that knowledge to the men I'm with. Without those factors things are pretty mediocre but I can't really blame my partners for my not being satisfied.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Sex was terrible. I had no idea what turned me on and guys didn't even care. It was awful.
03/13/2011
Contributor: jaimijacklin jaimijacklin
In their defense... I'm pretty hard to please!
03/13/2011
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by jazz4me
Whether man or woman I am wondering if your past partners satisfied you in bed? most of mine did not, it was always about them. I am wondering if the world is really full of these men who can be so selfish or if it was just me picking really bad ... more
yes
02/10/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I only have one past partner and I was not satisfied with him in any way.
02/10/2013