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Sexual humiliation with your partner...a question?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Ok, if you've read any of my previous forum questions, you will know I'm an avid reader and fan of erotica. There are quite a few stories out there, either lesbian or those about a hetero couple with a dominant wife where either the dominant lesbian or the husbands wife will use humiliation in their sex life. Usually it involves the submissive partner being verbally humiliated in a sexual context or the more hardcore humiliation of the submissive one being humiliated by there partner publicly thru verbal taunts or nudity. Either way, there are many stories where sexual humiliation plays a large role in the story.

My question revolves around verbal sexual humiliation in private between two partners...

Do you enjoy making sexual humiliation apart of your sex life either thru roleplay or domination?

If yes, are you the one humiliating your partner or are you the one being humiliated?


If I've confused you, an example would be the wife teasing her hubby about how small his cock is while she masturbates him or a husband calling his wife a filthy whore as he fucks her ass.
02/10/2013
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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
We currently do not do this, but I think it could be erotic in its own way as long as it was done privately, we had a safe word and it was done right. I'd love to see my wife be more dominant in the bedroom and this might be a fun form of roleplay as long as when playtime was over so was the humiliation.
02/10/2013
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I like some sexual humiliation. I prefer to be the one humiliated.
02/10/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Filthy whore, I wouldn't mind. Calling his penis small, absolutely not. I know I'm not a whore, and he knows that too.

I feel that even though it's teasing though, a guy could secretly take it to heart.
02/10/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
Filthy whore, I wouldn't mind. Calling his penis small, absolutely not. I know I'm not a whore, and he knows that too.

I feel that even though it's teasing though, a guy could secretly take it to heart.
agree
02/10/2013
Contributor: AngelKittenDolly AngelKittenDolly
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Ok, if you've read any of my previous forum questions, you will know I'm an avid reader and fan of erotica. There are quite a few stories out there, either lesbian or those about a hetero couple with a dominant wife where either the dominant ... more
I am submissive and my partner uses humilation regularly and I enjoy it..alot.
02/11/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
For some reason I love when he calls me names, I get so turned on. My favorite name he calls me is his "dirty little cum slut"
02/11/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
It doesn't do much for me. My last boyfriend loved humiliating me, though. We talked about it a lot in advance, about which phrases I would be okay with him using so he wouldn't spring one on me during and accidentally insult me. Obviously trust and communication is important.
02/22/2013
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
I only do it if its my partners thing, I prefer different sorts of games generally.
03/14/2013
Contributor: elli elli
I like sexual humiliation, both as the giver and the receiver. We use it pretty frequently in our scenes.
03/14/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
We're into humiliation. I'm more of the dominant one. We're into cuckolding, so he likes me to call his penis small in comparison to the other guys I am with. I had a hard time doing it at first because I love his size and he never fails to please me, but once I knew how into it he was, it was easier.

When I'm submissive, I like being called a whore and whatnot. I'm not submissive very often though.
03/14/2013
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Ok, if you've read any of my previous forum questions, you will know I'm an avid reader and fan of erotica. There are quite a few stories out there, either lesbian or those about a hetero couple with a dominant wife where either the dominant ... more
not really for me
03/15/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I could see him calling me his filthy little whore, or something of the likes. I don't ever see myself calling his dick small. There are some guys that can take a verbal lashing like that, my SO isn't one of them. He'd take it to heart, and I would never want to hurt him like that.
03/23/2013
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
There are times that we both get into humiliation and we enjoy it. There are times that it pushes her over the edge on a great orgasm if timed and used properly.
03/24/2013
Contributor: kaylajoy89 kaylajoy89
i don't think that would ever happen in my sex life. i do enjoy some BDSM, but humiliation doesn't turn us on.
03/29/2013