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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Just curious...What type of sex do you have most often, planned or spontaneous?

I love spontaneous sex, but as parents with careers and a busy schedule, there are lots of times we have to schedule sex.
02/04/2013
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Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
I would say its about 50/50 here. Even with planned, our two year old can mess with that so ya never know!
02/04/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
It's sorta planned, because she likes it before bedtime, but not to say it's guaranteed either.
02/04/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious...What type of sex do you have most often, planned or spontaneous?

I love spontaneous sex, but as parents with careers and a busy schedule, there are lots of times we have to schedule sex.
planned, I call a boy over specifically for it since im single
02/04/2013
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Spontaneous, but we tend to utilize the same times every day, so kind of planned.
02/04/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
Spontaneous, but we tend to utilize the same times every day, so kind of planned.
This sounds about right.
02/04/2013
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious...What type of sex do you have most often, planned or spontaneous?

I love spontaneous sex, but as parents with careers and a busy schedule, there are lots of times we have to schedule sex.
spontaneous sex is the best but it is fun to plan some sex and then spend the day thinking about the moment you are going to be able to get some and what you want to do to your partner and what you want him/her to do to you and so on
02/04/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious...What type of sex do you have most often, planned or spontaneous?

I love spontaneous sex, but as parents with careers and a busy schedule, there are lots of times we have to schedule sex.
spontaneous right now. im going to try getting him to plan it though.
02/04/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by tami
spontaneous sex is the best but it is fun to plan some sex and then spend the day thinking about the moment you are going to be able to get some and what you want to do to your partner and what you want him/her to do to you and so on
Exactly! Anticipation is very arousing! Honestly, I just don't have the kind of lifestyle where unplanned can happen all that much.
02/04/2013
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
Unfortunately ours is probably 75% planned. I would love to have more spontaneity.
02/04/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Trysexual
It's sorta planned, because she likes it before bedtime, but not to say it's guaranteed either.
Sounds familiar - the times and nights are 'typical' but not routine.
02/05/2013
Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
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Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
Spontaneous, but we tend to utilize the same times every day, so kind of planned.
This exactly for my partner and I as well. I wish it was more planned and more often though.
02/15/2013