How do you feel about sex during that time?
Sex all month?
10/23/2011
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all month? geesh!
Originally posted by
jenn g
How do you feel about sex during that time?
10/24/2011
It works best in the shower - no mess to really clean that way.
10/24/2011
It depends really. The first few days of "that time" I have crazy cramps, so I'd be uninterested, even if my partner was.
10/24/2011
My answer is a little complicated. I've not had much more than spotting (except a couple of times) in 7 years. But I've also suffered from endometriosis since early teen years so sex is the last thing on my mind during my first week of my period. After having surgery a year ago, I'm much better with it and experience much less pain so I'm able to after only the first 3-4 days.
The next thing, no, I've never met a man who minded menstrual sex. Never! With my past relationships, I never wanted to have sex during that time. For some strange reason, during that time it feels like I'm giving much more of myself and it feels far, far more intimate to me. ? Strange. Anyways, I refused with my other relationships because to be honest, they just didn't feel worthy and during that time I guess I'm more vulnerable. Don't get me wrong, sex is always, always, always somethign I view as a very intimate thing and it's always a bonding experience and each time (IMO) I'm giving a special part of myself to the person, no matter how many times it's happened. During that time it just feels like I'm giving more of myself. No idea why, but that's my reason for not ever doing it until my current partner and I got together. It took me a while to be comfortable, but after 5 years I'm OK with it and he has never thought badly of it. He says he doesn't think it's gross "it's YOUR blood. When you love someone sooo much, their blood is not a turn off." Those are his words although some men I guess do not feel that it's a clean thing. ?
The next thing, no, I've never met a man who minded menstrual sex. Never! With my past relationships, I never wanted to have sex during that time. For some strange reason, during that time it feels like I'm giving much more of myself and it feels far, far more intimate to me. ? Strange. Anyways, I refused with my other relationships because to be honest, they just didn't feel worthy and during that time I guess I'm more vulnerable. Don't get me wrong, sex is always, always, always somethign I view as a very intimate thing and it's always a bonding experience and each time (IMO) I'm giving a special part of myself to the person, no matter how many times it's happened. During that time it just feels like I'm giving more of myself. No idea why, but that's my reason for not ever doing it until my current partner and I got together. It took me a while to be comfortable, but after 5 years I'm OK with it and he has never thought badly of it. He says he doesn't think it's gross "it's YOUR blood. When you love someone sooo much, their blood is not a turn off." Those are his words although some men I guess do not feel that it's a clean thing. ?
10/24/2011
This needs more variety the poll assumes that no guy is okay with sex when your on your period and that's not true in every case. I'm not really too keen on the cleanup but my partner is big on encouraging sex anytime during the month blood or no blood.
10/24/2011
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I've never had sex during the time of the month. It makes me a bit uncomfortable thinking about it though.
Originally posted by
jenn g
How do you feel about sex during that time?
10/24/2011
Doesn't bother or stop us.
10/24/2011
I don't like it, so I won't put out when it's that time..
10/24/2011
It's not my favorite, but I will do it if I'm wearing a sea sponge tampon and the flow is not too heavy.
10/24/2011
I don't mind it, and my boyfriend doesn't care too much.
10/24/2011
I don't like it but my husband doesn't care.
10/24/2011
needs an other. I have not had a period in years due to Depo Provera so this is not an issue for me.
12/04/2011
That's my hang up about period sex. I don't mind, but I think guys think it's disgusting. It's my perception that keeps me from asking.
12/09/2011
None of the guys I've ever been with had a problem with sex during my period.
03/11/2012
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