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Scream or Moan? How loud are you?

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Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
During sex, I get very loud. I really enjoy myself, and can't seem to keep my mouth shut. So, if you were int he room next to me, or down the hall, perhaps even down stairs, you'd probably be able to tell what was going on. But my ex would stop, and tell me to be quiet if I got into it. I'm very happy to say that my current boyfriend doesn't mind in the least if I scream my head off. He tends to be more quiet, though.

So while I was showering, I wondered. How loud do you get when you are having sex? Is your partner ok with, and are you ok with your partners noise level?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a man, and I breathe
19
I am a man, and I whimper
1
I am a man, and I moan
20
I am a man, and I scream/cry out
2
I am a woman, and I breathe
32
I am a woman, and I whimper
36
I am a woman, and I moan
68
I am a woman, and I scream/cry out
38
Softly
50
Loudly
47
All of the above/Other
4
Total votes: 317 (101 voters)
Poll is closed
09/19/2011
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Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I'm a women and I do just about all the above! lol hahaha I'm not very loud, and I try not to be. Sometimes you just can't help it.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I moan a lot and it can get pretty loud sometimes.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Bites
During sex, I get very loud. I really enjoy myself, and can't seem to keep my mouth shut. So, if you were int he room next to me, or down the hall, perhaps even down stairs, you'd probably be able to tell what was going on. But my ex would ... more
Most of the time I am a SOFT moaner. Once in a while...if having a "shake my world" "O", it gets louder. Hubby finds it cute. No issues there. We both are pretty quiet, overall, however. No screams from us. Never needed soundproof walls.
09/19/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Bites
During sex, I get very loud. I really enjoy myself, and can't seem to keep my mouth shut. So, if you were int he room next to me, or down the hall, perhaps even down stairs, you'd probably be able to tell what was going on. But my ex would ... more
Well... if your not at work and arent bothered by a woman (me) bent over a desk click the link... I guess you could say loud?

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09/19/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I am way too loud. It's handy that we do watch a lot of horror movies, though - it's not me, it's the TV
09/19/2011
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
As quite as I can be. The kids are light sleepers. And trust me quite is NOT all that easy..
09/19/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I whimper and moan, but try to be quiet about it (years of sharing a room with a sibling!). You probably wouldn't be able to hear me through walls or over music.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Papershotglass Papershotglass
Well, it depends on how good he is.
Most will get a whimper or a moan.
The good ones will know how good they are because there will be no giggles spliced in there but full blown cries of delight.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Pinkhare Pinkhare
I sometimes moan loudly to the point of almost being a screamer
09/19/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
For me it varies. In my natural state, I'm fairly loud, but if I need to I can keep the noise level down some.
09/19/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I moan loud and scream sometimes!
09/19/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
I feel like my volume reflects the intensity of the action going on. Sometimes it's soft, other times it's louder... but I don't think it's ever to the point of being a screamer though... maybe I just haven't had that mind-blowing experience yet.
09/19/2011
Contributor: duff duff
Depends on how hot the sex is
09/19/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I'm a moaner, but I am pretty quiet out of necessity. When we have the place to ourselves I get a bit louder, but never scream.
09/20/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I'm pretty vocal sometimes, but don't get very loud.
09/20/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Awww. I whimper and moan and breathe sometimes, but overall I'm very quiet. ^_^ I do it all softly.
09/20/2011
Contributor: bdvnt bdvnt
I'm pretty quiet. My lover is the screamer, but I'm okay with that. I really enjoy her getting into it like that.
09/20/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I moan softly - but I have always lived with others so had to watch the sounds.
09/20/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Bites
During sex, I get very loud. I really enjoy myself, and can't seem to keep my mouth shut. So, if you were int he room next to me, or down the hall, perhaps even down stairs, you'd probably be able to tell what was going on. But my ex would ... more
it really depends how good it is and how into it I am based on my noise level!
09/20/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Wow, I feel kind of silly! I really can't help it. I guess maybe if I had more experience, I'd have a wider variety. But I've only ever been in two relationships where sex is common. I can't help but get loud, but honestly, if I get to told to quiet down, it would ruin my mood or make it less enjoyable. I'd rather just be gagged or bite a pillow, both are sexual to me in that mood.

Thanks so much for all the feedback
09/20/2011
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
It just depends on the situation, sometimes loud others not so much especially with roomates or kids.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
I do it all lol. I try to be quiet when others are around, but when we're alone there is no holding back.
01/13/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
heavy breather/moaner here
01/14/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
pretty sure my wife has woken up our neighbors...i like it, gives me kind of an ego boost
01/22/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Heavy breather here.
01/22/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
it depends
01/22/2012
Contributor: Funtastic Funtastic
Moan for both of us.
01/23/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I breathe and whimper...except during orgasm, I cry out.
01/23/2012