Scheduled Sex - Hot or Not?

Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a vibe and having a quick fun “on the go”(especially in the morning before work). And, although we don’t make a precise schedule (like ‘let’s do it after the Netflix series’, hehe), we really love doing it on Saturday mornings, as there’s no fuss and no one can disturb us.

Do you also have trouble finding the time for sex every time you want it? Are you also the ones who like teasing each other with a remote vibe or going outside with a butt plug?


Guys, if you can manage to keep it spontaneous how do you actually do it?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Gunsmoke , Jexca17 , Mistress Lizzie , Mr.Pitt , hiseden2253 , Soundside46 , Trysexual , madame macbeth , VanillaFreeSex , Perspicace mais érotique
10  (62%)
Luna Reign , Lena Eden , Orgasms & Pearls , SoloRebel , FleurDevereux , frisky069
6  (38%)
Total votes: 16
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's been a process for us. "Waiting for the right moment" wasn't working well - but when the kids were at home, that's how it was.

Then it got to be weekends were 'prime time' - but again that was not enough for me. So now I use sexting to tease her and try to set up 1 or 2 midweek encounters. No set days - but there is an expectation of something happening mid-week.

It's not like making a doctor's appointment - but it's not left to chance either...
03/06/2018
Contributor: Luna Reign Luna Reign
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a ... more
I can handle a planned day and be spontaneous from there. But to plan it down to time is not for me. It totally ruins the mood in my opinion. Its hard having kiddos not to plan so I understand and have been planning for a number of years now, but it's a loose plan rather than a definite plan.
03/08/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Our " planned " days. Are Thur, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Takes a lot to satisfy her. Although we don't always get to it, better to have a good range of days. I work late into the evenings and sometimes too tired and had dinner too late.

Unplanned also happens. I have permission to enter her if have a boner in the middle of the night ( actually early mornings ) . She knows I'll be harder, bigger and last a lot longer
Like this morning at 2:30 am. Boy, did I ever ... let's just say Miss Insatiable was satisfied

Out with remote vibe and anal plugs in public? I wonder which of the community you were thinking of when you wrote that

Lena, spill the beans. Do the two of you do this often
03/09/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Our " planned " days. Are Thur, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Takes a lot to satisfy her. Although we don't always get to it, better to have a good range of days. I work late into the evenings and sometimes too tired and had dinner too ... more
Yes, we do

I've started wearing my remote vibrating panty quite often these days. I hope none of my friends read this thread as I usually have the panties on when we're all hanging out in a restaurant or a bar. it's quite exciting to have a small secret only for two of us.

P.S. No plugs yet. Maybe in the nearest future
03/14/2018
Contributor: Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
I guess my husband & I would kinda be both. We have three kids & two of them sleep in our room, plus he works out of town so he’s only home one or two weekends out of the month.

Sometimes it’s okay we’re gonna do it when you get home after the kids are asleep, other times it’s okay we have a minute to ourself, let’s do it.
03/14/2018
Contributor: hiseden2253 hiseden2253
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a ... more
There should be a "both" option. Spontaneity is nice, but sometimes you have to cater to your busy schedule in order to squeeze in an orgasm or two
03/22/2018
Contributor: madame macbeth madame macbeth
if you schedule you can totally build up the anticipation and really get your sexting game on.
10/31/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
I'm not always up for sex. I find that if we plan to spend time together it helps to put me in the mindset for sex. We don't necessarily say we are going to have sex, but it's a given if we've made plans to "hang out"
11/01/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a ... more
We have to plan. Life is too busy!!! But it's still good!!
11/01/2019
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a ... more
I prefer to have sex daily, but my husband has a lower sex drive and he'll turn me down, it seems to work better when I ask a few times in a day if we could have sex later that night. Sometimes I'll get a straight no, others he says maybe which then I know I can work on him from there! Yes I have a very high sex drive and it drives me wild
11/01/2019
Contributor: C and J C and J
Absolutely not
11/24/2019