Relationships

Contributor: Lioness730 Lioness730
Is it normal to get bored with your partner after years together, I no longer feel like my sexual needs are being met. Is it wrong to ask for an open relationship to fulfill my sexual needs and desires?
01/03/2024
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Contributor: MagneticDuke MagneticDuke
That's a tough call. I don't know if that's normal or not; I haven't been fortunate enough to find a long-term partner. Open or polyamorous relationships often bring extra challenges; any machine is more prone to breaking the more moving parts are added. Is it them specifically that you find boring, or is it what the two of you are doing that's not meeting your needs? If you're not switching things up with each other every now and again, I can see things getting boring that way.

From a pure logistics perspective, I'd suggest talking with your partner and seeing if you can work together to come up with ways to alleviate the boredom you have with the relationship before opening it up to others. They might be bored in the bedroom too. I'm not qualified to say what's wrong or right in your case, but an open relationship, that's a knife that can cut both ways.

There is the Swingers scene, you might be able to convince them to give that a try with you, but I've never experienced it and have no clue what's to be expected.

Whatever route you take, I hope you can solve this to your satisfaction. Please let us know how things go.
01/03/2024
Contributor: RayRay16 RayRay16
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Originally posted by Lioness730
Is it normal to get bored with your partner after years together, I no longer feel like my sexual needs are being met. Is it wrong to ask for an open relationship to fulfill my sexual needs and desires?
You arent alone thats for sure, I totally understand this feeling my last relationship was 5 years and I swear the sex was the same every time we engaged in it which also wasn't very often. But if you're good at communicating with each other just talk to them about it. Maybe your partner feels the same way but doesn't know how to bring it up. Hopefully that's sort of helpful.
Feb 25, 8:27 pm