Pussy Lips?

Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
So I have what I would consider very large pussy lips that stick out. I am curious, Does anyone else have large lips? If so do they bother you or do you like them?

Guys, Do you prefer a girl have small or big pussy lips? Is it something you even pay attention to?
12/11/2010
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12/11/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I prefer pussy lips that are of medium length. I love to see lips that when open and excited resemble the shape of butterfly wings.
12/15/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Are you talking about inner labia that stick out past the larger labia?
12/15/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
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Almost identical...did I really just do that?

For some really weird reason that I cannot exactly pinpoint, he has this idea that long inner labia is somehow more pleasurable and softer. I think he's a lunatic personally, but hey, whatever. I see it as a good way to end up raw if there isn't enough lubrication.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I have larger lips too. My husband loves it say they offer him more stimulation. For the longest time I was self-conscience about them since you really don't see them too much in porn or playboy. I thought I was deformed. My husband always tells me there is just more for him to play with and he loves it. Makes me feel much better. Yes lube is my best friend though.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
I'm not sure if you're talking about inner or outer labia.
My inner labia are teeny tiny, barely there, but my outer labia are, I think, on the big side. I've sometimes said that I have a "chubby vulva." lol
12/15/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I have larger lips too. My husband loves it say they offer him more stimulation. For the longest time I was self-conscience about them since you really don't see them too much in porn or playboy. I thought I was deformed. My husband always ... more
My husband says the same thing and like you I did think I was deformed for a LONG time. But now I know not all pussies are the same, just like all penises are not the same, LOL
12/15/2010
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Ah, I was terribly self-conscious about my inner lips for the longest time. None of my partners ever said anything, but I've heard a fair amount of negative comments about the more voluptuous vulvas. Anyhow, when I mentioned this to my current guy, he was quite surprised. He says they're great for cushioning and that he genuinely enjoys them. Pleasant surprise for me! I know it sounds silly, but regardless of what they've said in the past, most men are just proud/honored/overjoye d to be in the position to be around your lady bits.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Funsize Funsize
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Originally posted by Persephone's Addiction
I'm not sure if you're talking about inner or outer labia.
My inner labia are teeny tiny, barely there, but my outer labia are, I think, on the big side. I've sometimes said that I have a "chubby vulva." lol
I do too. My outer labia is very large. Most guys who have seen my pussy are amazed at how big it is. I like my pussy because it's different from what you usually see making mine unique, and most guys says that it makes sex feel better, so that makes it more attractive I guess. I plan on referring to my lips as a "chubby vulva" because it just sounds so funny.
12/22/2010
Contributor: AU AU
Yay, others! I talk about labia a bit here. I have pretty large lips. That is, my inner labia. My face lips are pretty small!

These labia used to make me feel self-conscious, though most girls I had seen naked when I was younger had some length. It's apparently pretty common. If I had a girlfriend, I might like a little length to play with. I couldn't imagine not having it now. They don't bother me in the comfort area unless my panties are tight and they get caught--but that is pretty rare and it's not so bad. The most annoying thing is that penetration isn't always a simple matter. But that's OK. My significant other has only had me and for over a decade, so I think he likes them just fine!

I hate, hate, hate some of the unpleasant feelings expressed about the inner labia. To each their own, though. The problem is how people express their dislike. A lot of ladies are born this way and yet guys don't think much about how "pretty" they are. I don't care much for circumcised men, but I would never insult a common look that was decided for them. I think it's interesting that we don't all look alike, I'm glad we don't!

I draw a lot of women with larger labia, it's my way of promoting them!
12/22/2010
Contributor: Orion Orion
Love big inner labia but tbh it doesn't really matter im just a fan of pussy there all unique and lovely in there own way but prefer my wife's now lol and she is teeny tiny till she is aroused then they swell up nice and puffy sticking out past outer lips.
01/18/2011
Contributor: cherryblossom cherryblossom
I hadn't even thought about labia size until recently, when I saw a post commenting on how large inner labia are the "preferred" size. Then I got self-conscious, because I have small inner AND outer labia. At least I'm not at much risk for getting a camel toe or pinching my labia between underwear and jeans!
01/23/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I too have womanly lips. Both sets are big. One man referred to them as 'moisturizing blankets of love' - a wonderful description.
01/23/2011
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I too have womanly lips. Both sets are big. One man referred to them as 'moisturizing blankets of love' - a wonderful description.
Moisturizing blankets of love? That's incredible! The best I've heard is probably voluptuous, but I'm going to hold out until my guy thinks of something like that!
01/23/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I too have womanly lips. Both sets are big. One man referred to them as 'moisturizing blankets of love' - a wonderful description.
I think that is an awesome description lol!!!
01/25/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I too have womanly lips. Both sets are big. One man referred to them as 'moisturizing blankets of love' - a wonderful description.
How sweet
01/26/2011
Contributor: OliviaKink OliviaKink
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Originally posted by cherryblossom
I hadn't even thought about labia size until recently, when I saw a post commenting on how large inner labia are the "preferred" size. Then I got self-conscious, because I have small inner AND outer labia. At least I'm not at much ... more
"Preferred" depends on the person talking! I personally think the small inner-and-outer-labia combo is cute.

As for me, I have larger outer labia and tiny inner labia, like a couple people have posted here. I used to think it looks funny, but now I love it! And so does my partner. (After all, he's a HUGE fan of camel toe. lol) The only problem I've ever had with them is putting on a cleopatrta clit clip--it seems they require some larger inner labia to hold on to in order to work properly...Has anyone else with tiny labia ever had that problem?
01/26/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Mine embarrass me. They are asymmetrical, and one is folded over so it looks like I have 3 lips instead of two. My bf doesn't care, but it sure does bother me mentally.
01/26/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
Could not care less, tbh.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
I have always been self conscience about my lips. the inner ones hang down almost an inch past the outer ones. I used to think I too was deformed. since none of the girls in the porn magazines had big inner lips. on the bright side, none of my partners in the past ever complained, except that without extra lube they got in the way.
01/31/2011
Contributor: Partygurl04 Partygurl04
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03/12/2011
Contributor: RubberDuckie RubberDuckie
I perfer them to be like my partners,nice and tucked in
03/12/2011
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Don't really pay attention to it
03/18/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I think my outer lips are on the larger side. My inner lips tuck nicely inside and ever ever so little stick out. My husband finds it really hot. He says I have a nice "camel toe".
03/20/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
I have pretty big lips. They're not massive or anything, they just protrude from my labia majora. I pay attention to it on other girls, but I don't really think it's a big deal. I prefer smaller ones aesthetically, but I heard that having a larger labia helps stimulate the clitoris during sex, ultimately resulting in more orgasms.
03/20/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife's are fairly large - more so when aroused. I love giving her a sensual massage and watching them grow and turn from pink to red as they engorge - it's like an invitation - telling me when she's ready for more.
03/21/2011
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
It doesn't really matter to me.. I'll eat anything
06/22/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
I have these (the long inner labia) and they tangle and pinch, creating pain and all sorts of problems. I would rather do without, especially since all the sensation seems to be in my outer labia. The inner are almost sensation-less.
06/22/2011
Contributor: AU AU
I admit sometimes I wish mine were a little shorter because I do like everything else on my body to be simple, neat. But I'm not sure if I'd like the feeling after a trim and I really don't want to support a growth in the area of labiaplasty.

I have been kind of down seeing comments on the internet, even comments here regarding realistic toys. There is the assumption that longer lips mean old, used. I wish this mean stuff would go away. It really hurts. It's OK to have preferences, but no need to hurt anyone.

I should just ignore, I'm in a happy relationship with a guy who seems to like my body just fine. But we all have those weaker days.
11/03/2011