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How do YOU prefer to masturbate? Do you think you are weird?

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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
This might already be out there somewhere, so don't get on me if it is! I'm new to Eden so I'm not up-to-date. I was just really curious about how others masturbate. We went to a high school in the area for sexual education today, and students were offered the chance to sit down with me one-to-one and ask any questions they felt they couldn't ask anyone else. For the really embarrassed kids, we gave the option to e-mail.

This is an e-mail that I got with the name removed:

Hello,

My name is _________, and I am a female attending _________ high school. I am e-mailing to ask a question, because I was told I could get answers here. My favorite way to masturbate is by taking some towels or something soft, laying it over the edge of the tub, and sort of... riding it I guess???? I really don't even know if this is considered masturbation, or if it is normal, healthy, or safe. I feel really weird about it and I just wanted to know if others masturbate this way. Also, is this method of masturbation harmful or unhealthy? Can you give me any input? Thanks sooooooo much! <3

Sincerely,
____________

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So, by reading that, I was absolutely blown away since this is something I had done several times in my life. Not exactly the same - I never used the edge of the bathtub. But I often used the arm rest on the couch, or a chair. Now, of course, I have discovered other ways to masturbate through the use of sex toys, or just with my hands through clitoral stimulation. I was really hoping everyone could just post their favorite or most odd way to get off solo. I know of some interesting methods, but I thought this would be a great topic.

Also, do you ever feel weird? What are your feelings on your methods of self-pleasure?

Happy Masturbation!
04/29/2011
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Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
I used the shower head in the bathroom. Around 13-14 I found out how good it felt. I would lock the door and "read" for about four hours. I would masturbate so long the water would turn cold and then I would read until the water warmed up enough to actually take a shower. I never told anyone and I hid it from everyone. The only way I knew how to do this is from one of my brothers magazines where the girl had the shower head down pointed at her privates. I am so thankful one day I got the idea to look in his stuff because no one would have talked to me about the sexual frustration I felt and how to relieve it. I did not have sex until around 20 years old and that was a one sided experience (not Consensual). I believe with masturbation I could have waited for many years later before adding a guy into the mix.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
I used the shower head in the bathroom. Around 13-14 I found out how good it felt. I would lock the door and "read" for about four hours. I would masturbate so long the water would turn cold and then I would read until the water warmed up ... more
I too had my fun in the tub.

The first time I masturbated was when I was 8 years old, and it was with a very stiff throw pillow. It was mine, don't worry. lol
05/03/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
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Originally posted by Miss Zombie
I too had my fun in the tub.



The first time I masturbated was when I was 8 years old, and it was with a very stiff throw pillow. It was mine, don't worry. lol
I did think it was weird at first, but I had learned about sex way before I masturbated. As I got older it just seemed like a second nature to me. Masturbation is what kept me from sleeping around when I was younger. I kept myself satisfied so I wouldn't give in to my boyfriends. I first had sex at 18. Being 24 now, I am really happy that I had masturbation to keep my hormones under control.
05/03/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Most people I know have never really discussed female masturbation, and I never knew much about it. I tried to masturbate in my mid teens but I never knew exactly what I was doing and never got off. I thought I was doing it wrong and that it was weird that I did it. Finally when I was 17 or 18 I read about masturbation online and actually looked at my vagina really well for the first time in a long time and slowly started to figure it out
05/03/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
This is so awesome to hear all of your answers!
05/04/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
I was never really a water girl when it came to sex. I guess I was more of a "pressure" girl as a pre-teen, squeezing my legs together and such. Then I discovered my clit around age twelve. After my first gynecological visit, I realized that if the doctor put his finger inside of me and it didn't hurt, then my finger probably wouldn't hurt either. I didn't discover vibrators until my twenties. And then my standard practice became using a clitoral vibrator while having something solid inside to squeeze. It was all just part of the journey; I never really remember a time when I felt I was "weird" because of it.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I too had fun in the tub. My first time I just used my hands. I didn't know what it was, but it just felt good.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Otelia Otelia
first time....wearing really tight jeans, the seam was rubbing right on the center of my crotch, on my clit---did not know the term then---and cutting into my labia---also did not know the term---really irritating, felt a strong urge to pee. I was squeezing my thighs together and rubbing myself to keep done the urge to pee---sensations became so intense and muscles started twitching and shaking and then though I had peed myself sensations went off the chart....some days later just needed to rub myself again.....
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