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Contributor: sry sry
How do you feel about this stuff...? what do you dislike in porn?

I like to see confidence in what people doing, I've seen a lot of porno's that I think in my head... "You.. You want ME to touch it?!?!!!" they seem uncomfortable in what it is they are doing or something.. I can't watch these kinds because I stray from watching it to thinking about other stuff... I feel like its wrong to watch at that point!? maybe its not what they thought it would be like and are to embarrassed to stop?


WHY THE HELL DO THEY CONTINUE?? So like I'll be watching and the people involved are being real dicks about it... I see sometimes anal to vaginal transfers..
And deepthroat is cool and all but not when they are chocking them to death and they clearly made several gestures to say stop.. WTF? total turn off...

I kind of like the assertiveness when they say stop and make the others do something else.. I dunno its a turn on when a woman has the balls to say no...



anyone else feel similar?
01/29/2010
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Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Quote:
Originally posted by sry
How do you feel about this stuff...? what do you dislike in porn?

I like to see confidence in what people doing, I've seen a lot of porno's that I think in my head... "You.. You want ME to touch it?!?!!!" they seem ... more
My first thought here is that some of what you mention above is acting - especially with rough porn. Belladonna puts out the 'Fuck Face' series and there is a lot of choking, crying and gagging - but in bonus features and interviews, the women all say how they loved doing the scenes.

I suggest going with porn companies that you like, that are run by people who you have a sense of - from their interviews and overall image. You can probably feel more comfortable watching their releases if you feel assured that they treat their stars well.

And don't feel bad, LOTS of people get off on rough porn - and afterward are sometimes like "why the hell do I like that so much?" - that's not all that weird
01/29/2010
Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
i agree, sometimes i see thing and i say, "should i have just watched that?"

i just find trusted sites online, cause i know what they'll give me

one huge turn off for me anyways is condoms, i know i know, its just weird...
01/29/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
SPITTING!

It's a multi-gazillion dollar business with lube coming out of its ears...DON'T SPIT!
01/29/2010
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
SPITTING!

It's a multi-gazillion dollar business with lube coming out of its ears...DON'T SPIT!
Amen on the spitting! But the biggest turn-off for me is cum swaps. Unless it's a DVD that we're committed to writing a review on, I will literally turn it off and toss it in the trash when I see those.

Oddly enough, Alan gets turned off by boobs that are obviously silicone jobs. Not enough that he'll stop watching, but I always hear the "Why do women do that to themselves" thing... and yeah, that narrows down our "go to" porn choices quite a lot!
01/29/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Amen on the spitting! But the biggest turn-off for me is cum swaps. Unless it's a DVD that we're committed to writing a review on, I will literally turn it off and toss it in the trash when I see those.

Oddly enough, Alan gets turned ... more
me too! I HATE obviously fake boobs.
01/29/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Scenes with anal sex where the girl has a painful look in her face and tries to hide her moans of pain into moans of pleasure. But then again, could be acting, but not the type of acting I like.

And condoms turn me off as well, but mostly because semen turns me on.
01/29/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
FEET.

Seriously. Any foot shots. All those rear-entry, feet in the air positions. Foot worship. Toe sucking. Makes me want to puke.

I also really dislike the porn where actors look at the screen. I would rather it didn't come off that they 'know' they're doing porn.

And any porn where oral and manual sex on a woman is just done to "look good." I want to know people are actually enjoying themselves.

Overmoaning/overacting .
01/29/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
SPITTING!

It's a multi-gazillion dollar business with lube coming out of its ears...DON'T SPIT!
We're porno hate twins. :p
01/29/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
FEET.

Seriously. Any foot shots. All those rear-entry, feet in the air positions. Foot worship. Toe sucking. Makes me want to puke.

I also really dislike the porn where actors look at the screen. I would rather it didn't come off ... more
Loud moaning is a huge turnoff for me. I so often watch movies with the sound off for that reason.

And spitting into someone else's mouth I wish I had never seen.
01/29/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
Moaning, enemas, force feeding, human degredation, feces, body fluids.
01/29/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
me too! I HATE obviously fake boobs.
I second that!
01/30/2010
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
An instant turn-off for me is not being able to hear the actors. I can get off on an audio track of people having sex (and enjoying it), but just visual is much harder for me. I've tossed otherwise fantastic porn because they replaced the noises the actors made with random porn music. I need to hear them moan and pant and hear the bodies moving against each other, damn it!

Also, faked moans. If you don't spontaneously make noises during sex, don't fake it. Fake moaning sounds kind of creepy, and it makes the whole scene feel fake.

Spitting. Ew.

Very fake boobs. Degradation. Blood. Excretory functions of any kind.
01/31/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by sry
How do you feel about this stuff...? what do you dislike in porn?

I like to see confidence in what people doing, I've seen a lot of porno's that I think in my head... "You.. You want ME to touch it?!?!!!" they seem ... more
I get turned off very easily...if the people are not attractive to me, or if it looks dirty...Not kinky but just to hairy or unclean. I prefer to watch women because although I Love men..the men typically cast in porno's do nothing for me.
11/23/2010