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My fiancee and I used to watch porn maybe twice a month. We've never watched it during sex.
I think most porn misrepresents sex. For instance, based upon what my fiancee has told me about anal sex, it does not work the way it's
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My fiancee and I used to watch porn maybe twice a month. We've never watched it during sex.
I think most porn misrepresents sex. For instance, based upon what my fiancee has told me about anal sex, it does not work the way it's portrayed in porn. I have no anal sex experience. My fiancee has had a lot of anal sex. She flat out told me that a man cannot penetrate a woman's but without a lot of prior prepping. Not one of her former boyfriends had ever tried to go anal to mouth. If one had, that would have been the last time he had sex with her.
If we do watch pron, my fiancee likes MFM, gang bangs (not brutal), and interracial. She does have a black men fantasy. In fact, her only fantasy of which I'm aware that involves abuse is held captive by black men who satisfy their sexual desires on her body, and she's unable to resist, and she must submit to their sexual desires, which means she wants them to violate her body.
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Porn does misrepresent sex - I find most of it weird.
But you know what else misrepresents sex? Romance movies. I'm 46 & "came of age" during the 80's. Every movie I watched had the woman just begging for intercourse, like us guys would just wow them everytime with thrusting alone.
And finishing together was a given.
*note: I know some women get off that way - but every poll overwhelmingly favors clitoral stimulation.
Porn is just an aggressive version of a Romance movie - a guy with a magic stick blessing the woman with his thrust.
I had to learn about massages, giving oral pleasure etc. (Thank you Nina Hartley!) to please my wife.
But yeah - Porn is weird.
