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Piercings-to tell or not to tell?

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Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
I have a few piercings on my body that are not visible prior to sex. When I'm with a new partner, I usually give them a "heads up" before going there. Do other people do this too?

How about being with someone whose pierced? Would you prefer they mention it beforehand or just surprise you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I am pierced and mention it beforehand
MsCinnamonSpice
1
I am pierced and just let it be a surprise
I am pierced and sometimes mention it, sometime suprise them
LittleA , Kittybit , GirlOnGirl , amazon , KinkyNicki92
5
If I had sex with a pierced partner, I would prefer it mentioned beforehand
jr2012 , AliMc , MissCandyland , Terri69 , K101 , Mihoshi4301 , Geography , MsCinnamonSpice
8
If I had sex with a pierced partner, I would prefer it to be a surprise
travelnurse , *Camoprincess* , KinkyNicki92 , Martiniman
4
If I had sex with a pierced partner, I wouldn't care either way
Kittybit , GirlOnGirl , solitudinarian , SiNn , donatello6789 , hhh , 783883877299373783 , tortilla
8
Total votes: 26 (22 voters)
Poll is closed
12/05/2012
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Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
as a person who does not have any piercings....I think a heads up would be nice! Not that I would squeal in fear upon seeing it without warning (because I would probably think it's pretty hot), but knowledge is good (especially if the person in question does not have many visible piercings!).
12/05/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I do not have any piercings. Not even my ears! I would definitely want to know if my partner had piercings. Just a common courtesy.
12/06/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
I have a few piercings on my body that are not visible prior to sex. When I'm with a new partner, I usually give them a "heads up" before going there. Do other people do this too?

How about being with someone whose pierced? ... more
Genital piercings or what? I'm assuming genital piercings, which I have none of. However, I would definitely want to know if my partner had a penis piercing before he stuck it inside of me! On the other hand though, it'd be highly unlikely that I'd ever be in bed with someone that I didn't know so well enough that I knew if he had piercings or not before the "final moment."

Anyhow. My partner and I are both genital-piercing-free. I have other piercings though. They aren't a big enough deal to matter during sex I wouldn't think.
12/06/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I would like the surprise, so what piercings do you have??
12/06/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
tell!
12/06/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
I have a few piercings on my body that are not visible prior to sex. When I'm with a new partner, I usually give them a "heads up" before going there. Do other people do this too?

How about being with someone whose pierced? ... more
I wouldnt care one way or the other honestly and if i had a peircing id tell everyone
12/06/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
I like to be surprised
12/06/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I only have visible piercings. I'm not sure if I'd mention it or not if I were in that situation.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
I have nipple piercings and a pierced clitoral hood. I usually give a heads up...but sometimes I enjoy shocking a new partner LOL is that bad of me? It's just so fun... First, they're surprised by the nipple piercings, then just when they recover...woah! Yep, pierced down there too. I've never been with a partner who didn't like them though.
12/21/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I love being surprised and being the one to surprise my lover. My guy used to always say how much he loved my breasts and it would be hot if i got my nipples pierced. I wanted them too but I was scared of the pain. I finally gave in and got them done for his birthday and now he can't keep his hands off of them
12/21/2012
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I would probably prefer for it to be mentioned ahead of time, but it wouldn't bother me too much either way
12/21/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
You can see all my piercings
02/08/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I'd enjoy the surprise.
02/08/2013
Contributor: 783883877299373783 783883877299373783
My piercings are visible but it wouldn't both me either way.
02/09/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
either way is fine
02/09/2013