I'm sure this has been asked before, but I'm pretty upset about this situation.
I just spent a week with someone I love and only had about 2 minutes of sex total. Well, intercourse. There was a lot of oral, which I love.
He can't seem to find my hole, and if he does, it won't stay in. He usually rubs up and down til he finds my entrance then starts trying to have sex, but it usually slips up and rubs against my clit or labia. I have to tell him it's not my hole. Happens even if I guide him in.
This kind of hurts my feelings because...well, I think I'm tight. I can squeeze on finger inside me. I do kegels. I haven't had children yet. Why does humping my vulva feel like actually being in the hole?
Every position, if he manages to get it in, it takes one or two thrusts before it falls back out.
Like I said, every position. Every speed, depth. Lube, without lube. Condom, no condom.
The only thing I can think of is that I'm overweight and have fat labia. Maybe I'm too fat to penetrate. He can with fingers and toys but maybe his penis is different, even though its 8 inches and long.
I'm at a loss. It's frustrating and he gets offended when I mention it to him.
I just spent a week with someone I love and only had about 2 minutes of sex total. Well, intercourse. There was a lot of oral, which I love.
He can't seem to find my hole, and if he does, it won't stay in. He usually rubs up and down til he finds my entrance then starts trying to have sex, but it usually slips up and rubs against my clit or labia. I have to tell him it's not my hole. Happens even if I guide him in.
This kind of hurts my feelings because...well, I think I'm tight. I can squeeze on finger inside me. I do kegels. I haven't had children yet. Why does humping my vulva feel like actually being in the hole?
Every position, if he manages to get it in, it takes one or two thrusts before it falls back out.
Like I said, every position. Every speed, depth. Lube, without lube. Condom, no condom.
The only thing I can think of is that I'm overweight and have fat labia. Maybe I'm too fat to penetrate. He can with fingers and toys but maybe his penis is different, even though its 8 inches and long.
I'm at a loss. It's frustrating and he gets offended when I mention it to him.