The Penis Size and Satisfaction Survey

Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere 05/21/2009

Here are a series of surveys regarding penis size and satisfaction. Some are more directed at males, and some are more directed to those attracted to males. Please only answer the ones that "apply" to you. :)

Invited: All users.
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Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
  •   (1)
    I am personally offended by this
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
20  (5%)
205  (48%)
123  (29%)
29  (7%)
14  (3%)
5  (1%)
28  (7%)
Total votes: 424
Poll is open
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Contributor: bodymodboy bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
05/21/2009
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
Oh, I just assumed most women can't discriminate penis size with that kind of accuracy lol. Do you ask them a lot, or they tell you, or you measure?
05/21/2009
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
Oh crap. I guess there are also toys that girls use huh, and most probably know those sizes. And this is a toy site lol

Yeah my bad, sorry!
05/21/2009
Contributor: bodymodboy bodymodboy
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Oh, I just assumed most women can't discriminate penis size with that kind of accuracy lol. Do you ask them a lot, or they tell you, or you measure?
I'm a dude.
05/22/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
My golden number has been around 5". Anything longer and I tend to feel like I'm getting skewered.
05/22/2009
Contributor: ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~
Quote:
Originally posted by bodymodboy
I'm a dude.
Hehe I find your bluntness very endearing. ;D
Ah, the intricacies of "gender" and sexual orientation. While I don't want to speak for other people, I'm sure no offense was intended by the poster... o_O;

Reading profiles is always a good idea... and screennames for that matter, hahaha. But, alas, this is one way to get to know one another, eh? Afterall, knowledge is a good thing!
06/13/2009
Contributor: ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~
I have to agree with the majority on this one, 5 inches is my minimum for an "enjoyable" experience.
06/13/2009
Contributor: ~miss.heather~ ~miss.heather~
I have to say I really have no choice I have a short vaginal canal so anything longer would just be a waste and poking my cervix.
11/21/2009
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I have changed my opinion of this in the last year ( to be bigger). I had no idea what I was missing!
08/21/2010
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
i was surprised with all the 5 inch responses.
09/10/2010
Contributor: PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
Bigger can be better if you know what to do with it.
09/12/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
6 for min
11/08/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
Five inches for me. I've had bigger and it just didn't cut it for me. The sex positions became somewhat limited because any with deep penetration angles would hurt.
11/08/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
My golden number has been around 5". Anything longer and I tend to feel like I'm getting skewered.
I kinda like feeling skewered.
11/14/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I'm not really sure. I don't think I've had enough experience to be able to choose. It also depends on the activity, position, etc.
11/16/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
5" is a minimum for enjoyment for real penis, although i do have a tiny glass toy that is maybe 3 or 4 in. and maybe an inch girth that is aahmazing!
11/17/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
Sort of between 5-6 inches is fine
12/07/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
5" for me.
12/08/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Nothing under 6", 8" in best though!
12/11/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
It really does, in the end, depend on how well the male partner knows how to use his penis. =)
12/12/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
It's not the size, it's what you do with it. If it's too big, it can hurt!
12/13/2010
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Wow! I'm with the majority!
01/27/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
5-6 Im very small
01/28/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Over six hits my cervix and becomes sad times pretty quickly.
01/29/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
4.5 is perfect for me but bigger is welcome My partner is well beyond that lol
01/31/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
all that is needed is bout 3 to 4 inches to reach the gspot so every inch a guy over that is, then its just extra pleasure.
03/12/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
at least 9 inches
03/12/2011
Contributor: ajm4u ajm4u
Quote:
Originally posted by bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
Guys, size is moot if you have the technique down, bottom line!
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03/13/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I would just like to say I love the polls/discussions I've seen from you. They're so well-structured!
04/04/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
You guys/girls should check out thevisualiser.net. I found it to be really amusing, and you get to see a bunch of different averages/stats regarding penis size in comparison to your own/your partners.
04/07/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I like about 5 to 5 1/2
04/08/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
Somewhere between 5-6 in. I once had a bf who was 8 inches, for me it's not as enjoyable.
04/28/2011
Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
7" or 8" make it easier for different positions but the girth is what matters to me.
05/07/2011
Contributor: starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
the best sex I've ever had was with the smallest I've ever been with. I've been with really hung guys and honestly I hated it because they think that their big schlong is the only factor in getting me off....the smaller guys actually try to please me
05/07/2011
Contributor: Lil Beauty Lil Beauty
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
im gonna have to say i like it big but nothing over 8 and a half and nothing under 7
05/13/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
5" is the winner by a landslide !?!?


Woo Hoo! I'm the perfect size then!!!!!!
08/08/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Unbelievable results! But for me 7 is best. Any bigger is uncomfy
10/04/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
When being pegged, 6 inches is very good.
11/10/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
Really anything. I mean the fact thats it is a penis and it is doing something to you is part of the whole equation.
11/18/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Nothing under 6", 8" in best though!
Agreed
12/10/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
When being pegged, 6 inches is very good.
With 6 inches, you get eggrolls!
02/10/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
5 is plenty to hit my g-spot, and that's all I really want. :]
02/10/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
I think length depends on how its used........or if they make up for it with enthusiasm!
02/19/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
5 inches
02/19/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
I almost went with 5" long because that's average and indeed enough, but since I get such pleasure from cervical orgasms (aka the X-orgasm) my partner's extra couple of inches in length make things intensely amazing for me! I guess you could say his was truly meant to fit mine! Lol. He has a curve there (I forget what that's called) but it makes it to where it hits my g-spot during just regular sex! That and the perfect length is great for me. I wouldn't want it any different. Any longer and part of his penis would be left out since it would be too long to fit! Lol. On some days, it won't fit all the way in.

Average is usually enough for most women and somewhere between average and a little over average can be absolutely perfect.
02/19/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
5-6
02/23/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
5-7 is good for me. I have a toy that is 8 but I don't use the entire length.
02/23/2012
Contributor: hey steady hey steady
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
I've found that larger gents tend to think their size excuses them for using it to any effect...boring boys...size definately isn't everthing!
02/24/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
I dated a few different sized guys before being married and I can tell you, SKILL trumps size, ANY day. Period.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
As long as the dick is thick, 6"
03/01/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I am not a size queen at all I have been with guys who were 6 inches that fucked better then guys that were 9. But with that said i think the perfect size is between 7 and 8 at least for me it is.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Leopard Kittie Leopard Kittie
it all depends i think. i have really only been with guys with bigger sizes (7-9) so i think maybe thats all i know, but i enjoy that. mycurrent boyfriend is in the 8 - 8 1/2 range, and it wors perfectly well for me. also i do beleive its not size that matters (to a point) its how you use it.
04/27/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
6, but ill go bigger as long as the girth isn't beyond 5
04/27/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
6 to 8 is doable.
04/29/2012
Contributor: ginas ginas
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
5 inches is about the prefect length for me.
04/29/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
It's always nice to be part of the majority if not a little more.
04/29/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
6 to 8, is ideal for my satisfaction.
04/29/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
3.5" is the smallest I can get any satisfaction from. And yes I have been with men that are less than that erect....not trying to be judgmental, but it was unfortunate for me because they were great people otherwise. Ideal is 5-5.5". My ex-fiance was almost 7 and that was a bit much for me, like it worked but never as well as my current partner. Once you've past the 4 inch mark girth is all that matters. I like to use the muscles that god gave me and if he isn't big enough to push on them to begin with then pushing back is useless.

This is a cool discussion hope you find what you are looking for
04/30/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
5-6 in vag, 6-9in up the backdoor.
04/30/2012
Contributor: CandE CandE
My cervix only hits 6 inches, but I like the fullness feeling. I voted 7 inches and am lucky enough that my husband matches my ideal. I think anything beyond 7.5 would really hurt when thrusting really hard. It still hurts when being taken anally, but after having that fullness feeling its pretty difficult to go back to anything less
05/10/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
Honestly I think 5 inches is enough.
05/10/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
my boyfriend tops at 6 inches when he's really horny, and that is more than enough for me
05/19/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Any length is fine. But, 7-8 inches is amazing.
07/11/2012
Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
My wife is rather petite, so she prefers shorter toys with a thick girth. I'm not sure how long most of her stuff is, it's all different sizes.
07/12/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
It's not really about the size for me it's about if the guy knows what to do with what he's got.
07/19/2012
Contributor: Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
6 in.
07/26/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
quality, not quantity ;o)
07/30/2012
Contributor: Mascara Mascara
5 in
08/02/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
5-6
08/12/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
up to 5 is perfect, ive noticed over the yrs that 6 and up wou;d hurt all the time, and never pleased me at all
08/14/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
this makes me feel good about myself lol
08/25/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
o i had to put 6 for good reasions
08/25/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I enjoy 6-8 so I chose 7. Though, I've had good sizes who don't know how to use it and iffy sizes that used it well. Haha
08/25/2012
Contributor: glasskitten glasskitten
Quote:
Originally posted by Airekah
It really does, in the end, depend on how well the male partner knows how to use his penis. =)
This!
08/31/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
7 is good for me
01/13/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
You guys/girls should check out thevisualiser.net. I found it to be really amusing, and you get to see a bunch of different averages/stats regarding penis size in comparison to your own/your partners.
just checked out the stats; interesting showing the countries.Thanks for the link!
01/13/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
I dont think it matters as long as they know what they are doing
01/18/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
GOing on size alone, 5 is adequate and precisely that, no more, no less.
01/25/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
6 is nice.
01/26/2013
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
5 inches
01/27/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
five inches
02/02/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
Somewhere between 5 and 6
02/18/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
6 i think?
03/08/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
I've never actually measured any of my partners. I don't use a lot of toys, so I haven't really got a good eye for length. I can look at something and say if it's big enough to satisfy me, too big for my tastes or juuuuust right, but I really couldn't give an exact measurement.
03/14/2013
Contributor: Sarebear&Del Sarebear&Del
I am too small. Girth and length on my partner are too big. Anything bigger than a couple of fingers and it is like holy cow
02/14/2015
Contributor: Svenson Svenson
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
You guys/girls should check out thevisualiser.net. I found it to be really amusing, and you get to see a bunch of different averages/stats regarding penis size in comparison to your own/your partners.
Eh, I would take that website with a grain of salt.

It looks like a lot of the "average" stats are from self-selected or self-reported, which will tend to have a larger average due to exaggeration or because larger people will be more likely to participate.

Still neat though.
03/16/2015
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
5  (2%)
27  (10%)
132  (47%)
93  (33%)
11  (4%)
5  (2%)
8  (3%)
Total votes: 281
Poll is open
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Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I checked 6 inches as the ideal. When I still had a cervix I might have preferred bigger, but now I prefer a guy to be a size where we can be rough without worrying about causing pain.
05/21/2009
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I checked 6, too. I have only been with my husband, but even his 6 inches (I think, never actually measured) hurts sometimes like it's too big.
05/21/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I checked 5", since that's just about right, but honestly, I'm small enough that a man with a smaller penis is often more appealing.
05/22/2009
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I checked 6 inches as the ideal. When I still had a cervix I might have preferred bigger, but now I prefer a guy to be a size where we can be rough without worrying about causing pain.
I always figured not having a cervix would make for less pain! I hate when mine gets poked too hard, damn it.
05/27/2009
Contributor: ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I always figured not having a cervix would make for less pain! I hate when mine gets poked too hard, damn it.
Indeed, nothing like a hard cock straight to the cervix! *wince*

For me anything between 6 and 7 inches is ideal. My current boyfriend is closer to 7 for sure, though I've never "officially" measured him. There are definitely some positions that I just can't handle when he's super erect, due to him excitedly pummelling into my unappreciative cervix. Although, I have to admit when not caught in the moment of cervical discomfort, the whole situation is pretty funny. He gets so excited when he goes that deep that I kind of try to put up with it for a few moments, hahaha. I just hate the painful sensation ever so slightly more than I love the erotically endearing expression on his sexy face.

It's his fabulous girth that really rocks my socks off, (though the length is nothing to complain about either, even if my cervix sometimes thinks so). But I must admit, I'm happy enough with 5 inches, if the thickness is there.
06/13/2009
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
i think too long is wastefull
09/10/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
seven
11/08/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
About 6 inches is my preference...anything larger hurts for me and leaves him in the cold!
12/08/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
anywhere between 6-7 is good.
12/08/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
My husband is between 6.5 and 7.5 inches depending whether or not I talk to him about butt sex or not. And that is perfect size for me, long enough to fill me to the brim and sometimes more!
01/03/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I chose 6, but 6 to 7 is ideal. My boyfriend and I recently measured, and I think he was closer to 7. But it also depends on the day and how hard he is
With a size between 6 and 7, I don't worry too much about hitting my cervix and causing that awful pain. I just have to deal with girth hurting/irritating my labia if I'm not revved up physically for quick-sex. super annoying.
01/23/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I put 5". I don't like really big ones - too uncomfortable for me. By the way, which is why I prefer smaller toys for penetration.
01/27/2011
Contributor: SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
I guess I'm just too used to my 9 inch man now, we have broke up a year ago for awhile, and nothing could compare
01/28/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Right at six, maybe a touch less is best for me. Filling without a fear of being bumped!
01/29/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
About 6 inches is my preference...anything larger hurts for me and leaves him in the cold!
Oh I would agree.
02/03/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
5.5 -6 inches is best for me.
05/04/2011
Contributor: socceras socceras
somewhere between 6 and 7
05/05/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
i enjoy bigger
10/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
9 or more for sure
10/04/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
My guy (the only guy I've been with) is about 5 inches and it's plenty for me
10/04/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
7 to 8
12/10/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
I figure that 6 is real, while 7 is ideal!
02/10/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
Around six is awesome. I really don't care about, unless it's just painfully big. My current guy is maybe five inches if I had to guess, and quite thick. He still fills me up perfectly without hitting my cervix.
04/27/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
6 is good :3
04/27/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
6 to 7
04/29/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
7 to 8 is best, but 6 can work too.
04/29/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
5 inches is great. 5 - 6 inches is a good range for my body. And slender. Girth is FAR more important for me than length, and by that I mean I really can't (and don't want to) take something too thick.

I actually prefer being penetrated shallowly; my g-spot is pretty shallow and the entrance to my vagina is far more important to stimulate than deep inside. Also, I don't usually like being hit in the cervix. XD Usually.
04/30/2012
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
I'd probably take the larger one, lol.
07/19/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
6 inches is good, 6.5 would be ideal, 7 is too much.
08/02/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
6-7
08/12/2012
Contributor: solita solita
So once upon a time, I probably would've chosen 6 inches. Then I started having regular sex with a guy around 7.5-8, and when I had sex with a guy around 7, I really goddamn missed that extra inch! Mark me down as a reluctant size queen.
08/14/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
6.5" is good for me
12/16/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
6 or 7 is good for me
01/13/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
Exactly 7 is great for me.
01/25/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
7 is the best for me.
01/26/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.

The question is like this.

Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ... more
i win!
01/27/2013
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
6 inches
02/02/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
I WOULD SAY APPROXIMATELY 6.5
02/18/2013
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Try and be honest lol
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Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Oops I didn't mean to put the last option there
05/21/2009
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Seems like most the people on here are all above average, intersting.
03/12/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I'm still convincing my guy to measure for me. Would be nice to have a toy his size...
04/04/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
We measured it 8 years ago when we first met I think with in the first month of dating lol.
04/07/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
As of valentines day he is:
134mm (5.27") length
114mm (4.48") girth

-C
04/07/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
I used to be so worried about this that I didn't even want to know how less than average I was so never measured. Then I got really confident in my skills in bed and a girlfriend convinced me to let her measure me. Imagine my surprise when I found out I was bigger than average! But like I said, I'm not really concerned with that anymore.
08/07/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Try and be honest lol
bigger the better really
10/04/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Between 7 and 7.5 inches depending on excitement level, day of the week, whatever...yeah, it changes.
11/10/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
my bf is 6.5
11/10/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Try and be honest lol
Also, depends on the horniness too.... some days it goes above and beyond.
11/18/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Is there such a thing as being exactly between 6.525 and 7.125? It depends on....
02/10/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
he's 6 1/2 but he doesn't drive the whole thing in me o_o;
04/27/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Try and be honest lol
hubby is 5.5
05/22/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
6 inches.
08/12/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
he is a smidge under 7.5
01/13/2013
Contributor: 7Up 7Up
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Try and be honest lol
Study just published. the average penis is 5.16" long with a girth of 4.6". Everyone relieved now. Trying to gauge real penis size on the internet is like trying to judge the average height of men by only observing the NBA players.
03/04/2015
Contributor: Svenson Svenson
Depends how turned on I am. It usually measured it to be a bit over 6.75"

I feel like if I had a girl measure after she got me really horny it'd be an easy 7", but that's just suspicion. A cock ring could probably put me over, though.
03/09/2015
Contributor: NJ casanova NJ casanova
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Between 7 and 7.5 inches depending on excitement level, day of the week, whatever...yeah, it changes.
Same here, with a girth 5.7-6.1" depending on what part of the shaft.
10/21/2015
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
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17  (7%)
16  (6%)
31  (12%)
42  (16%)
22  (9%)
25  (10%)
40  (16%)
5  (2%)
27  (11%)
17  (7%)
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Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I had a guy who was 7 inches, thick, and curved. He was great in bed, but lord, that penis was KILLER. >_<
05/22/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
The biggest was about 7 inches long, and that's a bit too much. For me, 5 inches is great!
07/02/2009
Contributor: Two2Tango Two2Tango
My husband would be my largest at a little over 7 inches, and in the wrong positions, its a bit much.
08/22/2009
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My Man is by far the biggest I've ever been with. Somewhere between 8.5 and 9 inches, depending on how turned on he is. He was also my first, (then we had an Open Relationship, and I was a little amazed at what other guys looked like) so I am used to a well endowed man. I can't get my little hand all the way around it, but I have small hands.

I was teasing him a few months ago, and told him I had measured him and his size and he said, "Is that all?" when I told him the average is about 6 in, he didn't believe me. He obviously hasn't seen a lot of other erect guys and doesn't believe he's that big.
08/21/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
about six and a half
11/08/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
Eight, and that was the day that I learned that bigger isn't always better and that this is one of those cases.
11/08/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
biggest was somewhere between 6-7
12/08/2010
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
My husband is the only man I've been with, and he's about 9 - 9.5 inches. Generally good, since he understands that he has to take it slow to prevent pain. He is fully aware that he is larger than average, and thankfully doesn't wish he was any bigger (if he was, he just might kill me someday).
12/10/2010
Contributor: cherryblossom cherryblossom
I knew a guy in college who had a frightening big penis, about 8.5-9 inches long and about as big around as a summer sausage!
01/23/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I was once with a man that was 8.5-9" and really rather thick. It wasn't the best of experiences, because he was so big it kinda just felt like pressure on the pelvic/pubic bones and then he said I was "too tight and that's why he couldn't last that long."
Which was just rude. -sigh- I felt like our positioning and everything was limited because it was too big and thick. :/
01/23/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
9". It was painful
01/28/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
About 9-9.5 inches, and THICK. I could get most of it in, but it really wasn't what I'd call fun.
01/28/2011
Contributor: SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
My current man is 9 inches.
01/28/2011
Contributor: clp clp
8+ inches baffles/scares me!
01/29/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I'm estimating coz I'm not completely sure, but I voted 9 inches. It was a one night stand and holy hell was he too big for me. Definitely more pain than pleasure
02/03/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
10 and it was painful!
04/07/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
my man at 7.5"
04/07/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
My husband, just under 8"
08/07/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
Only been with the one. But hubby is about 7 - 7.5. Some positions can be a bit painful, and the wedge certainly makes it intense.
10/04/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
i enjoy bigger then smaller
10/04/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
My husband. - Mrs. Peg.
11/10/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
My husband. - Mrs. Peg.
11/10/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
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11/10/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
joey garza the guy who took my vcard was huge almost 10 inches.
11/10/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
Yea, but you know how baet up your cervix was by the end of it.
11/18/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
8.25 inches
12/10/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
I was once with a guy I had to give a two handed handjob to.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
well, my ex SAID 7, but he sure as hell didn't look it.
04/27/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
It was 9
04/29/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
Over 10, one time and never again. There really is some out there that are way too much.
04/29/2012
Contributor: CandE CandE
My husband is about 7 and half inches. He is by far the biggest I've taken. I would like to try a dildo bigger than my husband, but I haven't yet.
05/10/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
My ex bf was 9-9.5 inches. He was a douchebag, but for 12 years I put up with him because that thing was so HUGE and the SEX WAS TO DIE FOR!!!!
07/11/2012
Contributor: Ashley B Ashley B
7.. anything more and no thank you, lol.
07/12/2012
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
the biggest is my present boyfriend, around 8 1/2 inches, or 21 cm.
07/19/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
7 inches.
08/12/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
8 but he didnt know how to use it. it might as well had been 2. smh
01/13/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Eight
01/26/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
seven...but that's my own...and i'm pretty comfortable with it.
01/27/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
8...I was honestly shocked
02/18/2013
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
8 and it hurt like hell
05/06/2014
Contributor: Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
10" he said, and I am sure it was close. Painful for sure at times, but gave me incredible orgasms/ squirting. Was nearly ten years ago. Several months ago hubby and I did threesome with him.

That's another story..........
08/31/2014
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
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Contributor: Wrecked-Czech Wrecked-Czech
For me having a few male partners in the past I have to say girth is the most important (at least 5.5" around). But, his cock has to be at least 5.5" long to fully stimulate my prostate.

The first guy I was with had an impressive 8.5" long by 6" round cock...it was beautiful and huge, but he always wanted to bury it in me and it by-passed my prostate and often went way too deep. The best male lover I was with had 6" and 6.25" around and had a good upwards curve to his cock. The girth filled me up and the length was perfect to pound my prostate...although he had the added benefit of being very flexible and could suck my dick as he fucked me while I was laying on my back
06/18/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
I had a guy once whose girth was unbelievable. When I put my hand around it, there were a couple of inches between my thumb and my fingers where they didn't meet. After I got home later I put my hand around my arm to try to figure out what his measurement was, and I figure diameter was about 2.5 to 3 inches. I'm not joking!!! I wasn't sure if I could even take it. He seemed to be expecting my reaction and told me, laughingly, he'd never had a girl that couldn't take it. I've always been very tight so he had to work it in REAL slow, but he finally got it in fully.
07/02/2009
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
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Now, of course a
duh
09/10/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
gotta say i cant choose
11/08/2010
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I agree...its hard to choose. However, sometimes, I think it depends on mood I am in. But most of the time, it doesnt matter becaust my husband satifies me in both ways.
11/14/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
Definitely girth for me.
11/16/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Girth for me.
12/08/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
Oh so definitely length for me. Girth is nice, but length is what really gets in deep, and that's what I like. Plus a longer length makes pretty much any sex position feasible. Nothing more annoying than a penis that keeps slipping out because of the position you're doing.
12/12/2010
Contributor: null null
Girth is the best...
Length can hurt
01/03/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Girth. Definitely girth.
01/28/2011
Contributor: SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
You can't have one without the other!!!
That's like an oreo, the cookie without the creme.
01/28/2011
Contributor: clp clp
I'm going girth. Length without girth doesn't do for me as much as girth without length.

Not that I'm talking about any soda-can monstrosities, either, just a little bit! I think I'm easy to please.
01/29/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Girth is the best because that is what gives the real feeling.
03/12/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
length and girth
03/12/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
length and girth are also nice for me
04/07/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
length and girth are also nice for me
04/07/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
When I was younger, length was what we thought was the best. However, after my experiences, girth determines the thrill.
05/04/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
I want both girth and lenghth
10/04/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Girth, to be sure.
11/10/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
Shucks... sorry for the skinny guys. Its a runaway.
11/18/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I prefer length
12/10/2011
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
They are both important to me. I know this is probably mean and shallow but I was dating a guy once and we started to mess around, I put my hand in his pants and OMG thin! I broke up with him two days later and nothing further came of that situation. I don't like monster thick, I tend to get thin toys but I like an actual penis to be 4-5.5 inches in girth. I'm weird my toys are below what I want in a man's actual penis. All I know is I'm happy with my fiance and sometimes it still even hurts a little. But I need atleast 5 in length.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Angel Baby Angel Baby
Girth!!! Thats important. It is only 3 1/2 inches till you reach a womans cervix so anything past that is a waste. It can be 10 inches long and as big around as a pencil it wont get you anywhere. You cant row a yacht with a canoa oar. You will get nowhere. That being said I love a girthy guy.
02/24/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
girth matters to me, and hubby is just perfect. i dont want nothing too tiny, but i dont want anything that feels that it will rip me the heck apart
04/27/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
girth!
04/29/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Both but as long as they know how to use it. I have been with a couple of people who were small but knew what they were doing.
04/29/2012
Contributor: ginas ginas
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
Girth is definitely more important.
04/29/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I have a low, sensitive cervix, so I'm not that into big dicks. My man now is about 6 inches and medium-to-thick and he feels like the absolutely perfect size for me.
04/30/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I would choose more girth over more length.
05/01/2012
Contributor: MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
I never really paid much attention to this matter until I had kids. After that is has been all GIRTH for me. I don't know if childbirth had something to do with this or not but I sure do enjoy that full feeling. Not soda can monstrosity though LOL
05/10/2012
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
girth.
07/19/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
all of it really depends for me.
07/30/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
For me girth, but length is nice too.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
I'm a size queen so I want them HUGE in all aspects!!
08/25/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
id rather have the girth. I love that full feeling
01/13/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
Girth is fine, but I really do prefer legnth. That "pokey" feeling some don't like is my absolute favorite.
01/25/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
Girth wins for me
02/18/2013
Contributor: elli elli
Girth, but mainly because too wide is painful for me. I really prefer average sizes.
03/14/2013
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
I love both. But for Anal a longer penis is better than one that is too wide.
10/01/2015
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
  •   (1)
    I am personally offended by this
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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
05/21/2009
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
You would think so, but from my observation, bigger men tend to be more into doing all they can to please you. I'm not sure why. At least that's my experience. And I said 'tend to' not 'always.' There are plenty of exceptions.

Another thing I've noticed is that the better a man cooks, the better he is in bed. Maybe its all about attention to detail.
05/21/2009
Contributor: bodymodboy bodymodboy
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
I agree. I don't think penis size determines performance. Steph is not big, mostly average, but ze knows what to do to get my rocks off.
05/22/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Quote:
Originally posted by bodymodboy
I agree. I don't think penis size determines performance. Steph is not big, mostly average, but ze knows what to do to get my rocks off.
Yeah, while it's true that SOME guys with big dicks feel they don't need to perform (same with SOME really good looking guys), most of the guys who were good in bed either had experience and/or were open to communication. Their penis size had little to do with it.
05/22/2009
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
I don't really know what constitutes "average" size.
05/22/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Yeah, size is not the issue for me, I want a guy who knows how to use what he has. Visually a larger penis, over six inches, looks v. erotic but if he doesn't use it for my satisfaction what's the use?
I have been with "performers" that were so totally shallow!
Also, I am a girl who does enjoy girth....
05/22/2009
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
"Visually a larger penis, over six inches, looks v. erotic but if he doesn't use it for my satisfaction what's the use?" - Liz2

This is so true!

The best advantage, I think, to having a longer penis is being able to have sex in the spooning position. This is not possible with a shorter length penis.

However, in the missionary position or doggie position, I have found I like a shorter length better so that you can get the "slapping effect" going on without fear for your cervix!
08/30/2010
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
this one is different. i never took a look back at them. but i think i found in my case the bigger ones did better
09/10/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
I would say average guys seem to be better lovers but then again they are the average length and girth so there are more of them to judge by...if that makes sense.
12/08/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I would say average guys seem to be better lovers but then again they are the average length and girth so there are more of them to judge by...if that makes sense.
What she said!
01/02/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Well, it's kind of difficult to say which part of performance is performance alone and which is dependable on the size.
01/28/2011
Contributor: SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
Yeah I think you are right, Naughty Student...the particular person, just has to know how to use it. It can be any size...well maybe not any size, lol.
01/28/2011
Contributor: SiNSaNiTy SiNSaNiTy
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
You would think so, but from my observation, bigger men tend to be more into doing all they can to please you. I'm not sure why. At least that's my experience. And I said 'tend to' not 'always.' There are plenty of ... more
That's kind of what I was thinking, but littler man, I mean how much can they really do??
01/28/2011
Contributor: KikiChrome KikiChrome
It's a bit sad, because I actually strongly prefer the "feel" of a smaller guy, but I'm voting for "average-sized" on this one. This is only because the smaller guys that I've been with (4" or less) felt great to me but they had such major issues with insecurity that they never believed my encouragement, and it ended up ruining our sex life.

I honestly think the best guy is the one who's confident in what he's got and knows how to wield it well.
02/06/2011
Contributor: starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
for me the bigger than average guys weren't the best in bed because they acted like the size of their dick was the only factor in getting me off......and I feel like the average/smaller guys try harder
05/07/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I've only had two partners but the one with the smaller penis (roughly 6") "performed" better.
08/07/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
bigger doenst always mean better and smaller doenst a lways mean notgood j ust depends on whos doing what
10/04/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
To #6, i didn't answer because none of those statements reflect my experience. For me, size has basically in now way affected performance on a generalizable level. Some smaller guys were totally horrible, some performed extremely well and enthusiastically, perhaps in an effort to make up for their smaller size. "Average" sized guys are all over the map for every reason imaginable. Larger guys were also totally mixed but for basically opposite reasons as the small guys. Even if they had a glorious 8 incher, it meant nothing when they didn't know how to use it or didn't bother to put effort into using it well. In a couple cases, the guys seemed to think that being big was good enough. Tip, it's not. You can still suck at sex even if you have a big dick.

So yeah. It depends on the guy, not the penis.
10/29/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Between 7.5 - 8.5 inches in length is best.
10/29/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
But it definitely depends on how well they use it too!
10/29/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
To #6, i didn't answer because none of those statements reflect my experience. For me, size has basically in now way affected performance on a generalizable level. Some smaller guys were totally horrible, some performed extremely well and ... more
"You can still suck at sex even if you have a big dick." Preach!

Those words are so damn true, and most people (guys specifically) seem to overlook it. If they are insecure about their size (average or less) they sometimes don't realize this and think "Bigger dick = Obviously perfect in bed, and they can make all the ladies get off every time just because they are so huge, and that is all ladies like anyway" (wrong!). And if they DO have a big dick, they think that's all they need and are often smug about it, and are blind to the fact that they don't get you off every time.

It's kind of silly.
10/29/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
honestly i think it all depends if the guy knows how to use it some men can have small cocks and be great in bed, some guys can have huge cocks and be great in bed. some guys can have big cocks and suck in bed and hurt you and not know how to use it, and some guys with small dicks can suck in bed and not get you off. so it all matters on if the guy knows how to work it.
11/10/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
Any and everyone brings it to somewhere interesting.
11/18/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by mistressg
But it definitely depends on how well they use it too!
Agreed
12/10/2011
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I don't think overall performance and penis size are closely correlated.
02/15/2012
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
Well hung men are sometimes the laziest lovers...
02/19/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
This is a question about all things considered.
Average or slightly bigger than average for me
02/23/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
average size!
04/29/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Average
04/29/2012
Contributor: Ashley B Ashley B
I've only been with one man so.. I can't answer. But he's average sized and fabulous.
07/12/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Little larger than normal with good girth and length is perfect for me and my man has that so I'm good to go
07/19/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Average sized.
08/12/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
average sized..
01/13/2013
Contributor: misskat misskat
I voted average size! I had one partner whose penis was much MUCH larger than average and he was much WORSE than average in bed! Yet some of my partners who have had average sized penises have been amazing.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
This question is a bit hard to grasp. I'm sure it's even spread but it just SEEMS like smaller guys try harder.
01/25/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
It depends on the person. A few of my friends think that their size directly correlates to how good women think they are in bed, and I don't really agree with that. How giving you are in bed is much more important than your size, in my opinion.
02/22/2013
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
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Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
9  (6%)
3  (2%)
3  (2%)
2  (1%)
13  (8%)
35  (22%)
52  (33%)
32  (20%)
5  (3%)
5  (3%)
Total votes: 159
Poll is open
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Contributor: trios trios
Whoo whoo! I start the bell curve!
08/21/2010
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
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Originally posted by trios
Whoo whoo! I start the bell curve!
Same here.
05/13/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
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im a size queen
10/04/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
My partner is 6 inches in diameter.
10/29/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Again...it changes.
11/10/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Again...it changes.
This is a good answer; it follows the bell shaped curve on the chart!!!
02/10/2012
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
This is very interesting that's too all those that voted
02/23/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
5 inches.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
i'm not very sure... I haven't been with a lot of people and I just started to get into toys... so far I dont like large in girth toys or really long ones...
08/25/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
5.5 inches for my lover..
01/13/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
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hey, i'm on the right side of average. alright!
01/27/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I'm a guy, so I answered my "penis size" too, although I don't really have one... ahaha I should have answered my strap-on size!
02/02/2013
Contributor: Jamin0557 Jamin0557
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
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I am blessed in this department, the head of my penis is as thick as my wrist (the best tease in the world) -8" around. the shaft is 6" around. I am only 6.5" long. There are some downsides to bring this big around, no anal sex only one girl ever deep throated me, but i wouldn't change a thing
06/27/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
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Wow... Well that data kind of proves what I have always thought. Size does matter but sometimes big is not a good thing.

I am 7.5 inches long, 6 inches diameter, 7.5 on the head.

I am not saying I am big but what I am saying is that there has been times that I have hurt a girl from being too big and that is not cool at all. (Some sex toys are also waaaaaay to small) And this again is going to be something I am going to get an eye roll about.. when your girthy... condoms not only hurt but they are hard (forgive the non intentional pun) to get into.

It is funny because the guys that brag aren't packing anything. The guys that are, know that its not always great to be that big. And what I mean is the guys that tell you how big they are and how girls love it have usually never had a girl turn you down because they think your going to hurt them without lube or being super turned on. (That feeling sucks BTW)

I have some lady friends who have told me its great to be pounded by a big guy but thats only every once in a while. They have told me that they would rather be with someone who is average and knows how to use it for every day sex. (Which kinda bugged me! Does that mean you want to sneak out and get pounded by a monster on me every once in a while???? LOL!)
02/15/2015
Contributor: Svenson Svenson
Interesting that the average on this site is almost a full inch above the normal average.

Personally I'm about 5.25" around for the first third of my length, then gradually increases to at least 5.5" near the base. So I chose 5.5 as it was the closest to mine overall.
03/09/2015
Contributor: laxplaya18 laxplaya18
I'm spot on average! woooohoooo
04/08/2015
Contributor: NJ casanova NJ casanova
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
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Should have a poll for base girth? Is the head/middle or base girth the most important for you women? I gradually get thicker, 7.25-7.5" long, 5.7 tip - 6-6.2 base...depending on how hard;-)
10/21/2015