man here. please no penis shapes near my rear. i'm not all that comfortable around realistic penis toys for my wife's use either. it's not a homophobic thing or a comparison thing... i think it has something to do with it being a piece of a human body that is not attached to a body. i feel a little funny about head's that wigs go on also...or any other fake body part. the realistic pussy strokers...no thanks. not a stroker fan to begin with, but if i were, again, maybe something non-realistic. just gives me the willies...ha, willies!