I would LOVE this to happen...if I had a partner *sob*. However, you are NOT strange for thinking this was hot! I think it's hot just hearing about it, for goodness' sake! It's so hot because you didn't catch him, rather he's doing it from the start for you to watch. (And here is something new, even though you're married, so that had to play a part in the titillation. You are learning something sexual about him that you didn't quite know before and who wouldn't be excited by that?) You are involved, even without touching him. It's like the best performance, just for you and he is showing you, so you are surely who he's thinking of.

I love, love, love watching guys masturbate! Especially if I'm watching live or masturbating with them. You get to see so much more than when you're involved in the action "working" on each other. You see their face a LOT more which rocks and you learn how they like to be touched, etc. Not too long ago, I was watching an online friend perform for me on webcam fairly regularly and I couldn't believe what fun it was! Naturally, I eventually got in on the action and we did it together (I only did it by myself once and unfortunately, he never wanted to play again after that. Ouch!). I never thought I'd ever be on webcam with someone, but in person, I will masturbate in front of anyone I am sexually involved with in any capacity, no problem. I just haven't met anyone else in real life who is that comfortable with it.

There is nothing taboo or unusual about masturbation to me. I think it's the most natural, healthy thing to do and it's certainly safe from STI's! I think if more people were encouraged to do it and it was fully accepted to masturbate, perhaps young people would wait longer before jumping into sexual intercourse too early. If you can take care of your own needs, you are at least a little less likely to need someone else to "assist" you with your urges. (I also think if it was thought normal to mutually masturbate and have oral sex when younger, that might help kids wait until they are more ready for intercourse. I know it's what let me hold out until 24 before having intercourse for the first time! And having my partners know that that was off the table, but that other things were OK, actually led to some excellent exploration and increasing our skills doing other things. We became creative and in the end, it made us better and more well-rounded lovers (IMHO). less

Last night my hubby was in the mood and I of course wasn't because I was on my period. So the thought of anything sexual coming from me was out of the question. Hubby asked for the normal blow job or hand job, which I will normally do during this week of my period. But last night I wasn't up to it. He seemed ok with it and I made a joke about not wanting the bed to shake tonight ( this happens usually when he jerks off at night while I am sleeping, it wakes me up which pisses me off but I know he has needs) he responded well then don't fall a sleep yet. And he then started to mastebate right in front of me. Oh my gosh I had never seen him be so open to do this. I mean we have done things like this before but normally do it together. This was the first time he did it in front of me and was like he didn't care what I said he was going to cum. All I know was it a huge turn on and If I wasn't on my period I may joined him!! So my question is this, ladies have you ever seen this and I'm strange for thinking how hot this was. I mean I've caught him jerking off before, and wasn't as turn on as I was last night!! Thanks and I can't wait to hear from all of you less

We are so strange and in the minority on this one. Since being married I never really masturbate and he says he doesn't either. No need. Both of us are totally "available" to the other, if the urge strikes. I simply have never "not been in the mood", to the point of saying "not tonight". Even if I am preoccupied or something, I have no issue letting him please himself in me. He has walked in while I am cooking dinner and had a major hard on, and I will simply bend over, hike my skirt, or drop my jeans and say "have at it, but don't take too long, I have to pull stuff out of the oven in ten minutes". We don't have to make it a huge sex fest (although we often do), but if it is just "relieving sexual tension", why bother with his hand, if my hand, my mouth, my vagina and my tush are immediately available for his thrusting pleasure, anytime, with no reservations needed??? It's why I really don't get the idea of married people masturbating? I have pleasured myself with a finger or toy, if he is away on business (and usually, I am letting him watch, via a secure online connection), but other then that, if we are together, I would much rather have his tongue on my clit then my own finger. I don't see how any lady wouldn't. I know I am odd that way. I get it. All I have to do is read all the blogs here.
In fact, last Sunday I took a nap while my hubby was busy paying bills. I woke up feeling very "needy" sexually. I knew he was still up to his ears in bills and paperwork for home and his business, but I sauntered into the home office and hiked my leg up on the office chair, basically putting my girlie parts right in his face, and said "Honey, do you have a moment to get me off"? He smiled, said "sure", turned his head and worked my clit into a wonderful orgasm right then and there. At that point I was soaked and hot, but knew he had to work. I said, "I am going back to bed, feel free to join me anytime you can". I went back to the bedroom, watched a sappy Hallmark love movie and finally, my dear guy joined me, already hard as a rock from thinking about me, no doubt, and rode me like a bronco for the next hour. Would I have gotten all that from my finger??? (or even my Hitachi). Nope, no way, no how. At least for me, sex is a "team sport", and it works well that way.
Basically, back to the original question, since we don't masturbate, we don't watch each other do it. If we are going to play with our parts, we want to be playing with each others parts, not watching. That's just us. Glad others find what works for them. less

Last night my hubby was in the mood and I of course wasn't because I was on my period. So the thought of anything sexual coming from me was out of the question. Hubby asked for the normal blow job or hand job, which I will normally do during this week of my period. But last night I wasn't up to it. He seemed ok with it and I made a joke about not wanting the bed to shake tonight ( this happens usually when he jerks off at night while I am sleeping, it wakes me up which pisses me off but I know he has needs) he responded well then don't fall a sleep yet. And he then started to mastebate right in front of me. Oh my gosh I had never seen him be so open to do this. I mean we have done things like this before but normally do it together. This was the first time he did it in front of me and was like he didn't care what I said he was going to cum. All I know was it a huge turn on and If I wasn't on my period I may joined him!! So my question is this, ladies have you ever seen this and I'm strange for thinking how hot this was. I mean I've caught him jerking off before, and wasn't as turn on as I was last night!! Thanks and I can't wait to hear from all of you less

Last night my hubby was in the mood and I of course wasn't because I was on my period. So the thought of anything sexual coming from me was out of the question. Hubby asked for the normal blow job or hand job, which I will normally do during this week of my period. But last night I wasn't up to it. He seemed ok with it and I made a joke about not wanting the bed to shake tonight ( this happens usually when he jerks off at night while I am sleeping, it wakes me up which pisses me off but I know he has needs) he responded well then don't fall a sleep yet. And he then started to mastebate right in front of me. Oh my gosh I had never seen him be so open to do this. I mean we have done things like this before but normally do it together. This was the first time he did it in front of me and was like he didn't care what I said he was going to cum. All I know was it a huge turn on and If I wasn't on my period I may joined him!! So my question is this, ladies have you ever seen this and I'm strange for thinking how hot this was. I mean I've caught him jerking off before, and wasn't as turn on as I was last night!! Thanks and I can't wait to hear from all of you less

Last night my hubby was in the mood and I of course wasn't because I was on my period. So the thought of anything sexual coming from me was out of the question. Hubby asked for the normal blow job or hand job, which I will normally do during this week of my period. But last night I wasn't up to it. He seemed ok with it and I made a joke about not wanting the bed to shake tonight ( this happens usually when he jerks off at night while I am sleeping, it wakes me up which pisses me off but I know he has needs) he responded well then don't fall a sleep yet. And he then started to mastebate right in front of me. Oh my gosh I had never seen him be so open to do this. I mean we have done things like this before but normally do it together. This was the first time he did it in front of me and was like he didn't care what I said he was going to cum. All I know was it a huge turn on and If I wasn't on my period I may joined him!! So my question is this, ladies have you ever seen this and I'm strange for thinking how hot this was. I mean I've caught him jerking off before, and wasn't as turn on as I was last night!! Thanks and I can't wait to hear from all of you less