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Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
How many times will you have sex because you call it an official relationship?
09/04/2012
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
If I'm looking for long term: not at all.

Everyone's different, but for me, I'm not willing to be intimate until I have some commitment.

When I'm in a new, unofficial relationship, I try to think "will I regret doing x with this individual if it turns out he isn't interested in something long term?" If I get to feeling that I will be upset/too attached if I do something without the commitment, I won't do it.

I know I will want commitment and other things, because I'm not strong (or insert proper adjective) enough to separate sex from it.
09/04/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by chelly411
How many times will you have sex because you call it an official relationship?
Hmm I'm not sure. More than 10 would be a relationship for me.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
For me it's not about the number of times.
09/05/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Sera26
For me it's not about the number of times.
Ditto, it's about the feelings that accompany the intimate acts. I personally don't think I'm capable of not developing feelings for someone I've slept with more than twice. If I go back for a second time, there's a reason.
09/05/2012