Name calling in bed who likes it?

Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this outside of the bedroom to any women) I told him personally I think that is digusting and degaurding to women even during sex but I do know some are okay with this kinda talk while having sex. What is everyones opinion on this.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I wouldn't mind it / Ive called someone a name in bed
DeliciousSurprise , TitsMcScandal , Sammi , pootpootpoot , scaredlittleboy , BobbiJay , SMichelle , prettynpink , Jake'n'bake , jeangel246 , JessCee , sexykiss , SecretKinksters , WhoopieDoo , deltalima , minstrel69 , woodsdragon , table38792 , hhh , BrittaniMaree , shorejen9 , evie.amor , lainebug , sillylilkitten
24
Thats degrading no matter what
freda , married with children , Bignuf , souviet , Beautiful-Disaster
5
Im a women
DeliciousSurprise , TitsMcScandal , Sammi , pootpootpoot , Missmarc , BobbiJay , SMichelle , MissCandyland , Jake'n'bake , JessCee , Bignuf , potstickers , sexykiss , SecretKinksters , souviet , woodsdragon , BrittaniMaree , shorejen9 , evie.amor , lainebug , Beautiful-Disaster , sillylilkitten , ginnyluvspotter
23
Im a male
scaredlittleboy , jeangel246 , Sir , married with children , minstrel69 , table38792 , hhh
7
Total votes: 59 (34 voters)
Poll is closed
03/02/2012
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Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I like it. Dirty talk is like the cherry on the sundae of sex.
03/02/2012
Contributor: freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this ... more
Thats degrading
03/02/2012
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I like it. Dirty talk is like the cherry on the sundae of sex.
I like that description
03/02/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this ... more
Well, I don't mind it, but I've never been called a name in bed yet... Weird right? Either all the guys I've slept were gentlemen, or something's wrong with me.
03/02/2012
Contributor: scaredlittleboy scaredlittleboy
If she likes it, then it's fine. It's all about consent. I personally love it.
03/02/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
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Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I like it. Dirty talk is like the cherry on the sundae of sex.
What a great way to describe it. I like it during sex but any other time no way.
03/02/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
There's no option for liking it. I really like it.
03/03/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I don't like it.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
I dig dirty talk. It's... I love it.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
I enjoy being on the giving end of such terms. If someone called me that, I'd more than likely get up and walk out of the room. Or tell them to get the hell out of my house.
03/04/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
not our thing.
03/04/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this ... more
I'm with you. I find NOTHING sexually exciting or stimulating about being called a degrading name or word. My husband agrees. We both find it horrible that they feel compelled to use this kind of trash talk during any good, hard core porn. We find it a TURN OFF....and actually turn off the sound because of it.

We are NOT prudes in any way, just don't like insulting terms in any way associated with our sex lives. Too many COMPLIMENTARY terms out there we can use instead!!!
03/04/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by married with children
not our thing.
Once again, seems we have SO much in common. Ha, Ha.
03/04/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
I dig dirty talk. It's... I love it.
I just don't get it.
03/04/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i love dirty talk call me a bitch or slut idc
06/28/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We love dirty talk during sex. I love when he calls me his little slut / whore in the bedroom, I'm not sure what it is but it really turns me on!
06/28/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this ... more
I'm not a fan of it though.
02/02/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this ... more
name calling is an immediate turn off no matter what
02/02/2013
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I like it. Dirty talk is like the cherry on the sundae of sex.
Great way of putting it!
02/02/2013
Contributor: MrWood MrWood
I love to talk dirty during sex,but choose my words carefully. I'd never call any one a whore or slut, etc... More like what... I love to F..k you, and your pussy is so hot. It just depends on the partner and what I feel like they like. All women are different. some like it really hardcore and some not at all.
02/02/2013
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
I am a girl and I like it when my husband calls me names and he likes it too. Now, if we are making love we stay way from that
02/02/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I am a women and love it
02/02/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
If a woman asks you to call her a whore or a bitch, it's not degrading.
That said, I wouldn't like to be called names in bed or anywhere. It's just not my thing.
02/02/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I like it. Dirty talk is like the cherry on the sundae of sex.
I have to agree. I love it.
02/02/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
It turns me on. Some people are comfortable with dirty talk and some aren't, I don't find it degrading when a guy calls me something like that if I'm in a serious, committed, trusting relationship with him.
02/02/2013
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Secret Pleasure
So I was having this convo with a guy friend earlier and he told me that sometimes when he has sex with a girl he will say things like take it you dirty whore ect with his g/f and she likes him tralking like that during sex. (He would never say this ... more
i am married and my hubby talks dirty to me like this sometimes in the bed room. I don't find it degrading it turns me on. It works because I know he respects me and loves me. It depends on the mood we r in when we make love/ have sex.
02/02/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
i wouldnt want to be called a dirty lil whore.. or anythin like that.. id be so offended.
02/02/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I'm not into it talking during sex is just wrong I want to pay attention to the pleasure not try and carry a convo.
02/02/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
Why is there no poll option for people who love it? I can't get turned on without it! Haha.
If the people involved enjoy it and it's consensual, there's nothing wrong or degrading about it. Shaming informed consenting adults for what they choose to do in the privacy of their own bedrooms is pretty wrong and degrading though.
02/02/2013