Masturbation before marriage?????

Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
I know a lot of people believe you should abstain from sex until marriage. But what all does this include? Is the person (in your opinion) still able to have sex toys and be involved in websites such as EF? Can your significant other do anything to you? Is it wrong to touch and bite as long as it doesn't go into any penetration? Just want some opinions.....
08/31/2012
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Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by gorgeous
I know a lot of people believe you should abstain from sex until marriage. But what all does this include? Is the person (in your opinion) still able to have sex toys and be involved in websites such as EF? Can your significant other do anything to ... more
I masturbated before marriage LONG before I should have known what masturbation was, it really depends on the person and their beliefs. I had sex before marriage and what not so really depends on your views and thoughts everyone will have different answers.

If you are trying to abstain from sex masturbation would be the way to go and there is NOTHING wrong with pleasuring yourself before marriage. To me I think it is good that you want to so you can fulfill your needs.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Frankie Frankie
Masturbation can be beneficial. 1. When you do become intimate with someone (husband, bf, etc) you'll know your body and what you like so it will be easier to show your significant other how to please you. 2. It's a good stress relief and if you want to abstain from premarital sex it's helpful in keeping yourself satisfied.

Abstinence can be a few things. It can be complete lack of sex and sexual activity, from kissing to touching to penetration. Or it can be saying you won't go farther than "X". A lot of people seem to take abstinence as just stopping before genitals touch and penetrate.

You have to make your own decision about what you want to do with your body. If in doubt, waiting may be best for you. If you're happy having a life that includes masturbation and sex toys, and you want to save yourself for someone special, more power to you!
09/14/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I masturbated for a very long time before I got married, but then again I'm not against sex before marriage.
09/16/2012