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Masturbating alone or with a friend: Which gives you better orgasms?

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Contributor: Rollmeover Rollmeover
My orgasms are different when I masturbate than when I'm playing with a partner. What makes them different (or the same) for you? Why do you like one better than the other? How satisfying are they comparatively?
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Equally satisfying in either scenario but in markedly different ways. Solo, I can rush and just worry about me getting off but with a partner, I am interacting and aiming for their orgasm -- not just my own.
01/20/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
no "other" option to choose. you have a link for further discussion so I will share the why of my "other" there.
01/20/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
I have yet todo it with someone but that might change soon
01/24/2014
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Rollmeover
My orgasms are different when I masturbate than when I'm playing with a partner. What makes them different (or the same) for you? Why do you like one better than the other? How satisfying are they comparatively?
Discuss it further here. ... more
I need an "other". I don't believe I have ever masturbated with a partner there. It would be like playing solitaire, while another person is there with their own deck of cards. I don't get it. Sex is a multi player sport, in my book.
02/09/2014
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
I believe its kinda exciting for both to watch each other
07/08/2014
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
Eh, I just prefer to be in my own zone.
07/23/2014
Contributor: SailorJulyxo SailorJulyxo
Quote:
Originally posted by Rollmeover
My orgasms are different when I masturbate than when I'm playing with a partner. What makes them different (or the same) for you? Why do you like one better than the other? How satisfying are they comparatively?
Discuss it further here. ... more
Equally satisfying. Sometimes one of us will be in the middle of doing something, so we masturbate alone and sometimes we'll join the other; sometimes it's for watching and sometimes watching + teasing.
08/26/2014
Contributor: motorcycle rider motorcycle rider
haven't done it in front of someone
08/29/2014
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
with someone is more fun for me. Seems to give me better orgasms.
09/22/2014
Contributor: couples1 couples1
With my husband no..he is very conservative and has a low sex drive. I do masturbate with male friend. I love watching a guy jerk off and it does give me a very intense orgasm.
11/28/2014
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
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Originally posted by couples1
With my husband no..he is very conservative and has a low sex drive. I do masturbate with male friend. I love watching a guy jerk off and it does give me a very intense orgasm.
Does your husband know you do this with a male friend? If he doesn't know then you are cheating on him.
11/28/2014
Contributor: couples1 couples1
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Originally posted by CS2012
Does your husband know you do this with a male friend? If he doesn't know then you are cheating on him.
He does know, it was his suggestion that I stretch my sexual boundaries so to speak.
11/30/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I need an "other". I don't believe I have ever masturbated with a partner there. It would be like playing solitaire, while another person is there with their own deck of cards. I don't get it. Sex is a multi player sport, in my book.
"Sex is a multi player sport, in my book." Does this mean the more the merrier? Just Kidding

With all seriousness, Both situations have their merits. When alone, one can tailor their fantasies however they see fit with no judgement from anyone. With a partner, one can share your intimacy with someone or several others (whichever floats your boat). These two situations might account for the difference in the strength or preference of one's orgasm.

Finally, getting to the original questions, personally I like both.
03/21/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I've only ever masturbated alone, unless with a sex partner counts as "a friend". Although as a bi guy I wouldn't have a problem masturbating with a friend, male or female, if the situation arose. Indeed, that does sound like fun to perhaps turn a friend into a friend with benefits!
03/22/2015