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Masturbating alone or with a friend: Which gives you better orgasms?

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Contributor: Rollmeover Rollmeover
My orgasms are different when I masturbate than when I'm playing with a partner. What makes them different (or the same) for you? Why do you like one better than the other? How satisfying are they comparatively?
The positive part about masturbating is that I can orgasm many times and quickly each time if I want. It's never as easy with a partner, but I definitely find my orgasms to be more intense with someone. For me, I think part of it is the touch I get from a partner adds a greater level of stimulation, as well as delicious comfort and warmth, and makes my nerves happy all over. What about you?
01/20/2014
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Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by Rollmeover
My orgasms are different when I masturbate than when I'm playing with a partner. What makes them different (or the same) for you? Why do you like one better than the other? How satisfying are they comparatively?
The positive part about ... more
I can usually have satisfying and quick orgasms when alone, but they last a lot longer when I masturbate with my fiance. It's more fun and satisfying knowing that the other is getting off on the fact that the other is touching themself.
01/20/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I admit that it is satisfying masturbating with an "audience", but, I prefer masturbating alone. Then again, I only masturbate alone after the partner turns me down for sex.

What makes them different? Honestly, I'd have to say that I don't feel that I have to perform in any way to please myself. I feel more relaxed when I'm alone. On the two occasions I have allowed the partner to watch, I didn't feel comfortable about it even though she asked me to do it. Not to mention, I can draw out the session as long as I want to.
11/28/2014