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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
People always say make-up sex is amazing. For the most part, I have to agree.

Does anyone intentionally have a mild+ argument just to have make-up sex?
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Oh course, it's ah-mazing!
SexyySarah , Passionate Pastor , deadpoet , newbern2004 , MasterBlaster , UnknownGirl , CanMan , Bsgentry , gwenevieve , Robespierrethecat , ginnyluvspotter
11  (12%)
No way, I like the peace we have in and out of the bedroom.
Dusk , sexysweetieshan , 00 , Lady Venus , Kindred , PassionQT , sexyhellokitty , Alicia , SydVicious , NymphetamineKiss , removedacnt , Envy , Rayne Millaray , Tori Rebel , P'Gell , Coralbell , Brandiewhy , MuffysPinguLove , Waterfall , beautifulpierced , Gunsmoke , onehotmomma , Dame Saphir , Blow Baby , Rossie , Alegria , Airen Wolf , usmcwife99 , Blinker , Sera , BethanyLynn , mrs.mckrakn , TiffyPixie , lamira , Miss Cinnamon , SexyTabby , ZenaidaMacroura , darkkitty , OhMy! , pfoof , LavenderSkies , sasweetheart89 , Illusional , married with children , C4ss , leatherlover , misslady , Selective Sensualist , angel142stx , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , toxie m , dawnkye , potstickers , Joie de Cherresse , aliceinthehole , gehuwd , Bignuf , Eugler , minstrel69 , Martiniman , Alyona
61  (65%)
I'm a lover not a fighter.
ToyTimeTim , Carrie Ann , MrsS , Pleasure Piratess , Annemarie , Naughty Student , Sammi , Jul!a , AU , Madeira , tits only , CS2012 , Latsyrc728 , Sweet-Justice , Darling Jen , Beaners , Sohotdinosaur , darthkitt3n , The Curious Couple , Sunshineamine , CSEA , MR Chickhabit
22  (23%)
Total votes: 94
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Contributor: sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
My relationship must be different, because even after making up after an argument, I'm still upset or whatever and don't even care about sex at that point.
08/08/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
After twenty years we do not have much to argue about.

Make love not war!
08/08/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I suppose it would depend on the circumstances. We don't argue much either, but I wouldn't intentionally pick a fight to have great sex, although I do see how it could get elevate certain brain chemicals
08/08/2010
Contributor: NymphetamineKiss NymphetamineKiss
I'm quite similar to Shannon, because after a row, even a minor one, I don't tend to want sex. I feel more 'shaken' than anything else - not in a big dramatic way, I just don't like arguing with him. Anyone else I can handle, but not him - he's my partner, my lover and my best friend.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
No, the normal fighting was bad enough - picking a fight to get sex in a celibate marriage would have been counter-intuitive.

How does your man feel about it when he realizes you do this just to get sex?
08/08/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I just want the arguing to stop not think about sex after, I'd be too upset.
08/08/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
We almost never fight. And on the rare occasion when we have, I don't remember having makeup sex.
08/08/2010
Contributor: sandblastedskin sandblastedskin
I never have intentionally started an argument for the sake of having hot makeup sex.. but if it happens I do enjoy it!
08/08/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I agree with you, our sex it amazing after we fight, though we don't fight that often, it's just when we do, our sex life amps up a few degrees! But for the most part we have a pretty have relationship.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Make-up sex rocks, but not enough to fight just to have it.
08/08/2010
Contributor: sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Quote:
Originally posted by NymphetamineKiss
I'm quite similar to Shannon, because after a row, even a minor one, I don't tend to want sex. I feel more 'shaken' than anything else - not in a big dramatic way, I just don't like arguing with him. Anyone else I can handle, but ... more
It's nice to see someone who feels the same way as me. I thought I was weird for not really wanting sex after an argument. Even a little one.
08/08/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
We have amazing sex no matter what. I would never start an argument just to have "make up sex." From where I see it, "make up" sex us usually lower key, and almost apologetic in our house. Not the raunchy, racy, wild, heavy stuff we usually do.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Make up sex is great, especially if you've had a heated, insane argument. BUT, the fighting can do damage to the relationship so to start a fight of that magnitude on purpose? No thanks.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Make up sex is great, especially if you've had a heated, insane argument. BUT, the fighting can do damage to the relationship so to start a fight of that magnitude on purpose? No thanks.
Copycat.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Copycat.
Nuh uh! We are just twinsies! Or, you know, something.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Make-up sex rocks, but not enough to fight just to have it.
Agreed.

I'd rather just have sex and not have an argument.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have no complaints about my sex life - why would I start a fight? Anyone hear of the law of unintended consequences?
08/08/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have had make up sex with my boyfriend only once and it was so intense, it felt like we were doing it for the first time again.

We never since then have had make up sex which is fine bcs as others have mentionned, after an argument my mind is very far from being in the mood to get down.
08/08/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
No, the normal fighting was bad enough - picking a fight to get sex in a celibate marriage would have been counter-intuitive.

How does your man feel about it when he realizes you do this just to get sex?
I don't pick fights to have make-up sex. It just happens that way 2/3 times.
08/09/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Make up sex is great, especially if you've had a heated, insane argument. BUT, the fighting can do damage to the relationship so to start a fight of that magnitude on purpose? No thanks.
Haha, I agree. Especially when the level of the argument goes up.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
I've never had make-up sex. Probably because I hold grudges way too long and am not interested in contact like that at all. I need to be in a good mood to have sex, I guess. Wish I could though, pretty much everyone posting makes it sound amazing haha
08/09/2010
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
Never a major fight but just enough to get the blood pumping...
08/09/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by deltalima
People always say make-up sex is amazing. For the most part, I have to agree.

Does anyone intentionally have a mild+ argument just to have make-up sex?
I don't intentionally have arguments but we do tend to make up with sex. It's very intimate and is a great way to reconnect after saying hurtful things to each other.
08/09/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Chances are if we do argue it leads to a big arguemnt. Theres no such thing as a small one. Its rare thought it happens. Like maybe every year lol. But one of us will be sleeping on the couch for a week.

I rember the one time I didnt have sex with him for almost a month, and he slept on the couch for a week
08/14/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I've never had makeup sex.
08/14/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by deltalima
People always say make-up sex is amazing. For the most part, I have to agree.

Does anyone intentionally have a mild+ argument just to have make-up sex?
I don't really believe in make up sex. We like to settle our arguements before even beginning, or it's just not enjoyable. He doesn't really like angry sex, and neither do I. Good question!
08/14/2010
Contributor: AU AU
I don't think we've ever had make-up sex. We don't fight at all, we very rarely have heated discussions. When we disagree, we usually get sad and pout on the opposite sides of the house for a few hours. The few times when we were a little angry, again, we got over things pretty quickly. But in either kind of situation, it might take a day or so to feel bold enough to initiate anything sexual. By then, we have kind of forgotten what upset us.
08/14/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by AU
I don't think we've ever had make-up sex. We don't fight at all, we very rarely have heated discussions. When we disagree, we usually get sad and pout on the opposite sides of the house for a few hours. The few times when we were a ... more
That's interesting - you describe how my wife and I handle the few disagreements that pop up.
08/14/2010
Contributor: AU AU
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
That's interesting - you describe how my wife and I handle the few disagreements that pop up.
Pretty rare! People don't believe us when we say we don't fight!!
08/15/2010