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Contributor: penny12 penny12
Recently having some conversations with friends, everyone was incredibly 'shocked' at some of the time-span each other have gone without sex; now I'm intrigued on what a EF 'average' might be.

After losing your virginity, what's the longest you've gone without having sex (define sex how you may; solo use with toys not included).

If voting 'other' feel free to explain/post.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
A day or two
Less than a week
1  (2%)
2-4 Weeks
4  (9%)
1-3 Months
9  (20%)
3-6 Months
1  (2%)
6-12 Months
9  (20%)
Over a year
14  (31%)
Other
7  (16%)
Total votes: 45
Poll is closed
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by penny12
Recently having some conversations with friends, everyone was incredibly 'shocked' at some of the time-span each other have gone without sex; now I'm intrigued on what a EF 'average' might be.

After losing your virginity, ... more
Oops, I meant 3 years.
09/03/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I'm a virgin.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Just over a decade - eleven years. When first I met my husband to the day we separated. The Legendary Celibate Marriage from Hell. Don't ever believe them when they say they have a libido - test drive before you buy.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Almost 20 years...I'm a virgin T_T
09/04/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I never kept track, more than 3 months, MAYBE less than 6.
09/04/2012
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I've gone 7 months thanks to my long distance relationship, but it wasn't all bad because it led me to Eden.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
2 years after a breakup with my first serious girlfriend.
09/04/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Two or three weeks. You could say it has been pretty constant...
09/04/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
4-6 weeks after the birth of my children.
09/04/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
Since I've started having sex the longest I've gone without sex was 8a months and that was because I was pbysically seperated from my wife and unable to see her during that period of time.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Somewhere between 6 months to a year. My fiance and I were in a long distance relationship but we never went more than a year apart.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
The longest was a year and a half.
09/04/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Just over a decade - eleven years. When first I met my husband to the day we separated. The Legendary Celibate Marriage from Hell. Don't ever believe them when they say they have a libido - test drive before you buy.
What...the...fuck. You guys didn't have sex at ALL for 11 years?! God bless you sweetheart! I'd a been outta there LONG before 11 years.

In answer to the OP, I think it was about a year, give or take...between my first relationship and my current one.
09/05/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
when we were in college, it was about 6 months. but we where 1000's of miles apart, so sex on the weekend was not an option.
09/06/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by penny12
Recently having some conversations with friends, everyone was incredibly 'shocked' at some of the time-span each other have gone without sex; now I'm intrigued on what a EF 'average' might be.

After losing your virginity, ... more
Over a year..
09/06/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by penny12
Recently having some conversations with friends, everyone was incredibly 'shocked' at some of the time-span each other have gone without sex; now I'm intrigued on what a EF 'average' might be.

After losing your virginity, ... more
6 months..after my sons father past away.(not counting masturbation) then i couldnt take and found a fuck friend
09/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I was having complications in my pregnancy so we had to do without for several months, but that's been the longest for us.
09/08/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by penny12
Recently having some conversations with friends, everyone was incredibly 'shocked' at some of the time-span each other have gone without sex; now I'm intrigued on what a EF 'average' might be.

After losing your virginity, ... more
We have sex every couple days, or every day at stretches, since being married...unless one is out of town on business. Since losing my virinity, however, there were months without steady boyfriends so there was no sex (I was never into masturbation alone...strange but true). That, however, was LONG, LONG ago. Now it's much more like "how many HOURS have gone by since having sex"???
09/08/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I've been in a relationship with the same person ever since I lost my virginity to him and now it's evened out to some sort of sex act about once a month but I think the longest was three months without
09/08/2012
Contributor: TWE112 TWE112
maybe two months.
09/11/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I lost my virginity in high school and had to wait after that to get steady sex until college so well over a year
09/11/2012
Contributor: loveme9 loveme9
one month
09/11/2012