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Contributor: Sex Guy Sex Guy
My girlfriend and I have had very replete sex, but now we have to live in different cities and won’t be seeing each other often. I don’t wanna lose the drive that we have and I’m really afraid of losing that spark. After all, I know all the stuff they say about long-distance. But I’m adamant about it.

Has anybody been in a successful long-distance? Are there any tips or advice on how to keep things hot & sexy while we’re apart? I heard there are some toys for long-distance couples, but I’m not familiar. Really really waiting for your input. Thanks!
05/03/2019
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Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Sorry, you have to live separately. There is a huge amount of different messengers, so you can use one of them for provocative texting, sending erotic photos and even to make sexy and sultry video sessions This really may help to keep things between you hot and passionate
05/07/2019
Contributor: Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
My husband and I have been together 10 years and we have lived 3/4 of our marriage in a long distance relationship. We we're bound to make it work because we have kids together, so we knew we had to find ways to help with the spark.

We sent videos, we sent photos, and it was all at surprise moments. So neither knew when one would come in, which I think helps. App based toys we're just starting to roll out and they are quiet pricey, so we never bothered with them, but the thought of them had us both intreguied.

Obviously it's not easy, lots of communication and trust and not what, but just make sure you keep the intamacy fun when you're separated. My husband would occasionally order me toys and have them delivered to our house as a surprise and it was always interesting. It always made me want to jump his bones when he got to come home for a weekend.
05/13/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
I agree with O&P here - communication is key when you're going through a time like that in your relationship. And I don't mean only sexual communication - you have to make each other feel like you're still there, right by each other's side. Pics and sexts flame up the passion, they surely do, but I would give app-based toys a try - after all, that's why they make them - for us to feel closer
05/14/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by Orgasms & Pearls
My husband and I have been together 10 years and we have lived 3/4 of our marriage in a long distance relationship. We we're bound to make it work because we have kids together, so we knew we had to find ways to help with the spark.

We ... more
10 years is an impressive term! I'm happy that you managed to keep the passion in the relationship despite years of long-distance.
And I love your idea of sending sex toys as a surprise!

On the bright side of long-distance love, you don't have time to bother each other and always can't wait to meet!
05/16/2019
Contributor: Sex Guy Sex Guy
Thank you all for the input! I've never heard about app-based toys before! I think it is an amazing idea to use them! Could somebody tell me more about them?
05/22/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by Sex Guy
Thank you all for the input! I've never heard about app-based toys before! I think it is an amazing idea to use them! Could somebody tell me more about them?
App-based toys are fantastic devices! And for those who are in LDR, I guess, they are saving. At the same time, they have a minus- their price, but these toys are worth it!

These are the toys which have your phone as a remote controller. All you need is to download an app, and you are ready to control sex toy and your partner's pleasure which is miles away from you.

These toys can definitely make your virtual dates much hotter!

Here are a few options which may be interesting for you We-Vibe Sync, Vibratissimo Quattro, We-Vibe Ditto
Go ahead and spice up your LDR! And don't forget to share your experience with us!
06/18/2019
Contributor: Thelovelysexxto1 Thelovelysexxto1
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Originally posted by Sex Guy
My girlfriend and I have had very replete sex, but now we have to live in different cities and won’t be seeing each other often. I don’t wanna lose the drive that we have and I’m really afraid of losing that spark. After all, I know all the stuff ... more
There are long distance toys that you can use and it remote control via Bluetooth and wifi which lets you control your partner and just have fun with them. I am sorry you guys live so far apart hopefully one day soon you can be back together!
06/28/2019
Contributor: Sex Guy Sex Guy
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Originally posted by Thelovelysexxto1
There are long distance toys that you can use and it remote control via Bluetooth and wifi which lets you control your partner and just have fun with them. I am sorry you guys live so far apart hopefully one day soon you can be back together!
Thanks for your support!

Actually, we've tried recently one of the remote control toys, and you're right, it was fun! It was so exciting, that we use this toy almost every our date
07/26/2019