I'm not insecure and I love having sex with lights on - but there's something mysterious, passionate, and dark about having sex with the lights off. It really does create an entirely different mood and feel for what is happening. What do you guys think?
Lights on or off?
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Does it make a difference?
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Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
11/14/2011
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For hubby.....FLOODLIGHTS. For me, dark, with candlelight. We do BOTH now and again to keep everyone happy.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
11/14/2011
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i can't do it with lights off. sexual trauma makes my lover turn into someone malicious.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
low lighting is fine.
11/14/2011
Neither of us particularly care. We can have sex with or without.
11/15/2011
I like dim lighting the best.
11/15/2011
Dim lighting for me too. I don't like complete dark, I like to see what's going on
11/15/2011
Definitely dim lighting
11/15/2011
I just want enough light to be able to see the sexiness of my wife
11/16/2011
I prefer dim lighting.
11/16/2011
Dim lighting is nice.
11/16/2011
i love lights on it´s better
11/16/2011
Any and all. Dim lighting is usual for us but I also sometimes like a scramble in the dark.
11/16/2011
I like having sex in the dark more.
I hate how I look.
I hate how I look.
11/17/2011
I don't mind when they're on, but feel more comfortable off. Enough that we can kind of see what we're doing is great, but it's just too bright with all of the lights on in the middle of the night sometimes.
11/17/2011
Turn them bitches on and put up the mirrors, I love to see us.
11/18/2011
Usually the lights are on and I'm wearing a blindfold so it doesn't really matter what the lighting is like because I won't see it anyway.
11/18/2011
I perfer them off...he likes them on occasionally.
11/19/2011
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Yup
Originally posted by
SMichelle
I prefer dim lighting.
12/03/2011
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I like being able to see everything. But I'm a guy, and I'm visual. Candlelight is okay, dim is okay. Zero lighting is kind of annoying.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
12/03/2011
Either one works for us.
12/03/2011
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not to me. i think its hot watching me go in and out lol
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
12/03/2011
Dosn't matter for us
01/14/2012
It's not a huge deal, but if we're trying to create an ambiance, we usually dim some of the lights.
01/14/2012
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I prefer the lights off. Candles always set the mood.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
01/14/2012
I like it both ways - it's the feeling that matters to me, and I usually close my eyes to feel the most.
05/12/2012
On!
05/12/2012
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I like dim or dark. Too many lights on makes me feel kinda exposed, but I don't mind so much if it's just natural light from the windows, which is really weird.
Originally posted by
OrangeKushBB
Does having the lights on or off really adjust the mood for you?
05/13/2012
I like it dim.
05/15/2012
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Unique posters: 28