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Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Lights on or off? What do you prefer and why? I really like a soft glow, I like to know what I'm doing.. however, I had mind blowing sex once where it was pitch black and absolutely silent... all my senses were heightened.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
MR Chickhabit , Blooddragon , Kilgorescowboy
3  (11%)
No
Cwhitten006
1  (4%)
Other?
FemmeFlo , spunkmonkey , Daemonin , Princess-Kayla ♥ , ViVix , Eliyahu , Teacookie , Tork48309 , Ilovelingerie , sexystuffeve , dbm6907 , MaryExy , joja , Eliza , Ciao. , eggiweg , calliope , Harpina is gone , BlooJay , DiamondKoala , indiglo , Do emu , potstickers
23  (85%)
Total votes: 27
Poll is closed
02/13/2012
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Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Um... you offer yes and no as answers to an either/or question. I can't really answer by voting, so I'll answer here. Lights on. I like to see my lover's hot body, and I like him to be able to see what he's doing.
02/13/2012
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Both are good.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
Either on or off for me.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I prefer to have them off, but we do it with the light on sometimes too.
02/14/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I can't answer the poll, as the answer wasn't a yes or no. I love the lights off.
02/14/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
yes.
02/14/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by EdenJP
Lights on or off? What do you prefer and why? I really like a soft glow, I like to know what I'm doing.. however, I had mind blowing sex once where it was pitch black and absolutely silent... all my senses were heightened.
Lights on...if he wants to do it with the lights off, I tend to think he doesn't find me that attractive!
02/14/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
Either/or...like anything, it depends in my mood.
02/14/2012
Contributor: nakedbear nakedbear
I prefer off. More relaxing.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
off if it's on the ceiling so I don't go blind
02/14/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Candle light is the BEST! The flicker can be erotic if the candle is influenced by the movement of the event.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
I am a lights on kind of girl. I like to see and be seen. The only time I want it dark is if it is part of some form of sensory deprivation play.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Either, a light glow is nice though ... I like to be able to see whats going on.
02/15/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I don't think I've ever had sex completely in the dark... hmmmmmm.
02/15/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
This is an either/or question. I can't very well answer yes/no. But I like the lights on. I like to see his face.
02/15/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by Ilovelingerie
Either, a light glow is nice though ... I like to be able to see whats going on.
Same here, but I like to switch it up sometimes... pitch black can highten the already amazing feelings
02/16/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
I really enjoy the glow from a candle. I think it makes things a lot more sensual.
02/16/2012
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I don't typically have a preference. If I want it dark, I can wear a blindfold
02/16/2012
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
Quote:
Originally posted by EdenJP
Lights on or off? What do you prefer and why? I really like a soft glow, I like to know what I'm doing.. however, I had mind blowing sex once where it was pitch black and absolutely silent... all my senses were heightened.
ON ON ON!!!@!!
02/16/2012
Contributor: Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
lights on
02/16/2012
Contributor: joja joja
I always used to like it lights on, but my current SO has turned me on to doing it in the dark or in soft light. I like both *shrug*
02/16/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I like both, just depends on the mood.
02/16/2012
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I really like soft light. It seems more romantic and sensual to me. We do it in any lighting, though. Usually depends on how the lights are before things get started.
02/16/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
ummm we keep them off. I think it's more of the privacy thing than anything. Our apartment bedrooom window faces the parking lot and our building group if right at the entrance by a pretty busy road.
02/16/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
It depends on my mood.
03/14/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
On.
03/14/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Hopefully on, but on occasion lights off is fine too.
03/14/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I kinda prefer them on. I like to see what's going on, I'm visual that way!
03/14/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Depends. Sometimes I prefer the dark...sometimes I want to see it all!
03/30/2012