Let's talk about sex

Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
How open are your conversations with friend about sex and your sex life? For me it seem like details of my sex life was open casual conversation with my friends when I was dating but hasn't been an area of discussion for years and years. Just wondering if others still talk about sex.
02/13/2013
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My sex life has never been a topic for day-to-day conversation. Men who engaged in 'locker-room' exchanges were derided as kiss-and-tell types. It seems that that attitude was accepted by my friends - so sex was not discussed. Nothing much has changed, the only person I talk to about sex is my wife - and a 'pen pal' from EF. We exchange experiences and ideas about what works with our spouses. This 'relationship' was completely unexpected - but has been very helpful to expanding my relationship with my wife.
02/13/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
once in awhile w/ 1 friend at a time, the topic briefly comes up. sadly, nothing's changed for any of us.
02/13/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I keep most things to just between my wife and I. General stuff I dont mind talking about with friends.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My sex life has never been a topic for day-to-day conversation. Men who engaged in 'locker-room' exchanges were derided as kiss-and-tell types. It seems that that attitude was accepted by my friends - so sex was not discussed. Nothing much ... more
That's awesome that you have an EF pen pals. So very cool.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
pretty much just discussed with hubby. Nobody else asks or cares since we have been married for 29 years. Guess they think we don't have sex anymore!
02/13/2013
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
Oh my good friends and I have detailed discussions about our sex lives all the time!
02/13/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I only discuss sex-related topics with one close friend.
02/13/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
I'm pretty open when talking about sex, but I just don't have anyone who ever wants to actually talk about it. (besides my partner)
Every once and a while my mom and I will get talking and she'll confide something in me about her sex life, but we don't usually talk about mine ever. That's about it though.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I have no one in my life to talk about sex with except my partner so I have a couple of EF friends I communicate with via email but if I need a wide range of opinions to see more sides I post a forum question. I find the community here is very dependable at telling their honest opinion. The responses to questions I've posted have always come back frank and honest and I value each one. They ground me back to the reality of the outcome on a topic I'm questioning.

I would also suggest searching through the various forums, your question might have already been asked and answered. The community forum is well organized and categorized.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
We're pretty private about our sex life.
02/14/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Missy27
How open are your conversations with friend about sex and your sex life? For me it seem like details of my sex life was open casual conversation with my friends when I was dating but hasn't been an area of discussion for years and years. Just ... more
i keep it private
02/14/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I don't go around just telling everyone things, but I'm not totally closed off about it either.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Nova146 Nova146
I occasionally talk to my best friend about my sex life in general, but specifics are private.
02/14/2013
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Missy27
How open are your conversations with friend about sex and your sex life? For me it seem like details of my sex life was open casual conversation with my friends when I was dating but hasn't been an area of discussion for years and years. Just ... more
I'm very open with certain friends
10/02/2020
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
Most of my friends and coworkers are pretty close minded when it comes to sex. That is where places like Eden are great to discuss things.
10/03/2020