I have DEFINITELY  broken out of my shell lol.  My friends  aren't quite sure who I am now and my husband  doesn't know if he should fear me or bow down to me!! Lol  
As for toys...well, there are a few in our arsenal  now. I had to just have a locking toy chest made to hold my treasures. That might be why my husband shows a little bit of fear and excitement.  I'm a bolder version of the woman he married lol.
Lots of helpful tips have been thrown our way. Like I said, I've become a bit more bold so I ask and say exactly  what is on my mind now.  If I want to know how something  feels that I haven't  experienced, I have no qualms asking the group. I'm pretty much an open book lol. After all, we are all here to help, right!
Favorite  purchases at the moment: Our Under The Bed Restraint   System. LOVE it.  2nd favorite, a wedge that's no longer carried.  Eden really needs more  positioning aides.