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Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
Hi everyone.

I have a new man in my life who I am getting much closer to. He has a larger than average penis and has said that he has caused discomfort to some women in the past. I have not seen his penis yet, so I don't know how large it is. I am a user of large toys but the thought of discomfort during sex is a real turnoff. Does anyone have any suggestions or techniques they use with men who are larger than average?
12/21/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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12/21/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
If you use large toys, I'm guessing you should be okay. I don't think there are many men out there that can compare to a big toy in terms of size. However, the only suggestion I could think of was maybe have you on top? That way you are always in control in case it does become uncomfortable. I'm not sure if you're ready to share your toys either, but you could also try warming up with a largish toy first.
12/21/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by Kindred
If you use large toys, I'm guessing you should be okay. I don't think there are many men out there that can compare to a big toy in terms of size. However, the only suggestion I could think of was maybe have you on top? That way you are ... more
Good suggestions. Thanks.
12/21/2010
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Yes, be willing to try different positions, keep good lube near by and also: don't get frustrated or blame him or anything like that. *Communicate* and if it's getting tough as for a change of positions.

Oh, also make sure to have a good lot of foreplay before hand as orgasms will loosen your muscles which will aid you in accepting him. Remember; the vagina was built to stretch!
12/21/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
I would say break out the lube also. Just to avoid any possible, uncomfortable chaffing.
12/21/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
I would say break out the lube also. Just to avoid any possible, uncomfortable chaffing.
Jessica Elizabeth, good advice. I don't always climax easily but I'm sure a good amount of foreplay will loosen me up.

Jobthingy, yes lube lube lube in this case. Thanks to Eden, I have a ton!
12/21/2010
Contributor: V.T.T V.T.T
Ditto to the lube! Plus there are definitely positions that can make things less deep or intense. If you do 'missionary' with your legs closed, and his legs on the outside of yours, and he penetrates you from between your thighs it can make the cock in question feel WAY shorter. Just a thought
12/21/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by V.T.T
Ditto to the lube! Plus there are definitely positions that can make things less deep or intense. If you do 'missionary' with your legs closed, and his legs on the outside of yours, and he penetrates you from between your thighs it can make ... more
VTT I'll keep that in mind. Thanks.
12/21/2010
Contributor: nyc cpl nyc cpl
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Originally posted by Heartthrob
Hi everyone.

I have a new man in my life who I am getting much closer to. He has a larger than average penis and has said that he has caused discomfort to some women in the past. I have not seen his penis yet, so I don't know how large it ... more
get him to have sex with you in doggy style
12/21/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by nyc cpl
get him to have sex with you in doggy style
Thanks NYC CPL
12/22/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Make sure to have a big ol' bottle of lube within reach.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
It also depends if larger means thicker, or longer. If he is thicker, then getting warmed up and plenty of lube is your best friend. If he is longer, it is all about position. Longer guys can send a gal jumping out of bed if they penetrate too deep. You on top will allow you to control things. If you try doggy style and he is longer, be careful; that is where your cervix can take a pounding.
12/22/2010
Contributor: firekitten firekitten
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Originally posted by Tidwtrguy
It also depends if larger means thicker, or longer. If he is thicker, then getting warmed up and plenty of lube is your best friend. If he is longer, it is all about position. Longer guys can send a gal jumping out of bed if they penetrate too ... more
And good grief that hurts like no other. Yikes. In my experience it's easier and more enjoyable to get used to a thicker large penis. Lube is your friend, as is foreplay.
12/23/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Tidwtrguy
It also depends if larger means thicker, or longer. If he is thicker, then getting warmed up and plenty of lube is your best friend. If he is longer, it is all about position. Longer guys can send a gal jumping out of bed if they penetrate too ... more
Another trick with the reverse-entry positions is that the depth of penetration can be somewhat varied by the amount of "bending over" you do. Doggie tends to have you bent over more, spooning less.
12/23/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Tidwtrguy
It also depends if larger means thicker, or longer. If he is thicker, then getting warmed up and plenty of lube is your best friend. If he is longer, it is all about position. Longer guys can send a gal jumping out of bed if they penetrate too ... more
Yep, the only time I've ever experienced discomfort during sex, even with a man with a larger penis, is during doggy style sex.
12/23/2010
Contributor: Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by Alicia
Yep, the only time I've ever experienced discomfort during sex, even with a man with a larger penis, is during doggy style sex.
Hi everyone. Thanks for the tips. It went great. I did get a little discomfort on the cervix but nothing major at all thanks to all your advice!
12/23/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Heartthrob
Hi everyone.

I have a new man in my life who I am getting much closer to. He has a larger than average penis and has said that he has caused discomfort to some women in the past. I have not seen his penis yet, so I don't know how large it ... more
Be very excited and well lubricated before you try penetration. You might need more lube than you normally do as well. Try positions that don't allow deep uncontrolled penetration such as side lying or female superior. With you on top you can control how deeply you are penetrated as well as the thrust strength.
If you simply must use the missionary position then position your fingers with the penis sliding between them restiong up against your labia. This way you can tighten up your hand if it gets to be too much and he can slow down.

The best advice I can offer is calm down and go slow...you will be able to take him eventually. Use lots of breast/nipple manipulation as that releases chemicals in your bloodstream that will make our vaginal canal much more flexible.

Above all else have fun!
12/23/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I agree with what everyone else has said. If you're a user of large toys I think you should be fine. And use lots of lube!
12/24/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Heartthrob
Hi everyone. Thanks for the tips. It went great. I did get a little discomfort on the cervix but nothing major at all thanks to all your advice!
I'm glad it all worked out.
12/24/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Just make sure he doesn't try to surprise-anal sex you. My last high school boyfriend tried doing that. He was hung like a horse and even regular sex could be a discomfort. One time he was feeling particularly bold while fucking me from behind. He popped his cock out of me and tried to make a quick play for my ass. I was like "Uh, what the fuck do you think you're doing?" I was actually pretty funny, but there was no way in hell he was getting that monstrosity in my ass. Didn't have successful anal until many years (and a much less intimidating cock) later.
12/24/2010
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
Plenty of lube and foreplay.
-And start out easy.
12/23/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Heartthrob
Hi everyone.

I have a new man in my life who I am getting much closer to. He has a larger than average penis and has said that he has caused discomfort to some women in the past. I have not seen his penis yet, so I don't know how large it ... more
o my..my new partner is the largest ive been with and even though my toys arent small he seemed to make me bleed everytime we had sex.it was because he was irrating my cervix.so i would recommend a position thats not where he can deeply penetrate..atleast until your body gets use to him.
12/29/2011
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
how did this work out?
01/16/2013