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Ladies could I please ask for some strap-on advice?

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Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Obviously if you have read any of the stuff I post you can probably see through the lines I have some experiences with cool freaky sex. That being said, and having been with four women over time in sexual encounters I have never used a strap-on or had one used on me... Lots of licking, kissing, fingering and dildo/vibrator play but no double headed or strap-on play.

So for those who have please tell me your likes and dislikes, how well these damn things work and stay on and which ones are worth it. I am kind of considering trying one with a girl friend of mine - and also maybe trying it on my husband ( Shhh don't tell him yet )

Also.... double headed dildos???? Really??? How and do those really work? And the strap-on with an outie for her/him and an innie for me at the same time???

Thanks all! XOX. Creamy
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I have used a strap-on and liked it
10
I have had a strap-on used on me and liked it
6
Not worth it either way
1
I have used a double-headed dildo on me and another person
2
Other. Please please more info is better.
4
Total votes: 23 (18 voters)
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10/21/2011
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Contributor: Tart Tart
I have used the Diva strap on harness by Sportsheets, and I love it! I'm a female and I use my strap on with a female, and she has used it on me as well. It is really fun, and totally worth it.

I would suggest you get a silicone strap on dildo, or harness kit, because silicone is a bit more still than jelly/etc. and easier to control.
10/21/2011
Contributor: kingofthevampires kingofthevampires
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Obviously if you have read any of the stuff I post you can probably see through the lines I have some experiences with cool freaky sex. That being said, and having been with four women over time in sexual encounters I have never used a strap-on or ... more
I'm male and been fucked by a woman with a strap-on and it is one of the best experiences I have ever had, and I fully recommend trying it.
10/22/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I have never used a strap-on for sex with a woman. However my boyfriend and I engage in pegging (woman-on-top anal sex with man as receiver) and what we used until recently was the Feeldoe Violet , though now we actually have and prefer the Realdoe Feeldoe . These are considered "strapless" strap-on dildoes because the short bulb is held in the giver's vagina or anus and the cock end us used to penetrate a partner. We, however, use a harness anyway because the anus holds on much tighter than the vagina, and ultimately without a harness one of us ends up holding the dildo inside me by hand.

I've had some women say they need a harness to use it on another woman, and others say they don't. Either way I highly recommend this line of toys (or their cousin the Funfactory Share ), despite the possible need for a harness, because it feels very good inside, both to use and have it used on you. I've heard the Share is easier to hold on to without a harness.

Hope this was helpful! ~Pixie
10/30/2011