I've been experimenting with role playing with my guy. I've always been a kind of shy type and need advice on some role playing ideas and how did you get over being shy?
Ladies I need advice
08/10/2014
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The best way to get over being shy is to be confident and secure in yourself. So what if you are not perfect in your role play? Your partner already knows you aren't the part you are playing. Read some erotica based on the characters you plan to use to get some ideas. I would suggest starting your role play at home before taking it on the road. Lots of variables out in public. For example what happens if a bystander tries to join in? Talk to your partner about what their fantasy is for the role play. Push your limits slowly so you don't get overwhelmed and shut down. There are some standards, pick-up the stuck-up at the bar, you and the prostitute, the cheerleader and the ball player, farm girl and traveling salesman, if you are into a particular TV show or anime, you can dress as characters. It can be simple or elaborate. Just based on your budget and imagination.
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I've been experimenting with role playing with my guy. I've always been a kind of shy type and need advice on some role playing ideas and how did you get over being shy?
08/11/2014
I has a similar issue, but then I realized that my partner doesn't see me the same way that I see myself. While to me all of my faults are visible, to him they aren't even remotely noticeable... Especially in the bedroom. Most partners will be the same way. Try to get that into your mindset.... Or, alternatively, buy some sexy lingerie that feels like you.
I recommend just talking to your partner about both of your fantasies. Some are really, really simple. If the role play isn't perfect... Well, it's play. Unless you're an actual cop, I doubt you'll get the cop role perfect, you know? It doesn't matter, though, because it's a game. As long as the two of you are having fun (I'm assuming twos because there was no mention of a third), how accurate it is doesn't matter.
It's all about fun. If you're really really worried, get your partner and yourself aroused before starting. Your brains work a little differently when aroused, and you should feel less self conscious.
I recommend just talking to your partner about both of your fantasies. Some are really, really simple. If the role play isn't perfect... Well, it's play. Unless you're an actual cop, I doubt you'll get the cop role perfect, you know? It doesn't matter, though, because it's a game. As long as the two of you are having fun (I'm assuming twos because there was no mention of a third), how accurate it is doesn't matter.
It's all about fun. If you're really really worried, get your partner and yourself aroused before starting. Your brains work a little differently when aroused, and you should feel less self conscious.
08/12/2014
If you are completely comfortable with the person and the idea of roleplay it will come with time, its a trial/error deal, you learn as you go as with anything.
08/24/2014
The best thing you can do is communicate. As a previous poster said, you must be comfortable with the person and know they won't tell anyone else about your desires if you don't want them to.
09/22/2014
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