Ladies: How long does it take you to get off when you masterbate using just your hand?

Contributor: Mr. Poopy Pants Mr. Poopy Pants
I thought I would ask this question because it only takes my lover 2-3 minutes tops to have a orgasam by just rubbing her clit with her hand. After that she's done and perfectly content. She never goes for that second or third that I think most women do. It seems so uneventful to me, but I guess that is all she needs?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
1 Minute or Less
3  (6%)
2-3 Minutes
6  (11%)
5 Minutes
6  (11%)
7-10 Minutes
6  (11%)
10-15 Minutes
4  (8%)
20-30 Minutes
15  (28%)
30+ Minutes
6  (11%)
Other
7  (13%)
Total votes: 53
Poll is closed
04/21/2011
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Contributor: indiglo indiglo
It takes me a LOT longer when I use my hand instead of a toy.
04/21/2011
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
Just being honest, if I just want a jack-off quickie... it only takes about a minute. I get my hand right where I need it and get to the point. I get my orgasm and release and I feel better. Usually, I only use my hand if I really want to orgasm super fast. All other times I use toys and take my time and enjoy every minute. But ya know, sometimes a quick jerk is necessary.
04/21/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never been able to get off using just my hand. I've always needed toys or some other help.
04/21/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I have carpal tunnel. It takes at least 5 minutes. If my wrists didn't hurt I'm sure I could manage a lot faster.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
Too long! I rarely use my hands because it's much easier and faster for me with toys.
04/21/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
For me it doesn't matter if it's with a toy or my hand, it will usually take somewhere around half an hour.
04/21/2011
Contributor: sassyNsensual sassyNsensual
I feel like toys take me longer because I want it to last as long as possible....but if I'm using my hands its usually just because I want to get off quickly
04/21/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
A while. 7-10 min on average. I can't get off with toys at all though.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Gatita Gatita
I use to be a master at letting my fingers do the walking, but once I discovered vibrators, my hand just doesn't cut it anymore.
04/21/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
2-3 minutes? wow!
takes me about 10-20 mins.
04/22/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I can't. I need other stimulation to get there.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
It varies. But usually around the 5 minute mark.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Its interesting to me that some women have trouble getting off with their hand. For me, the sensation is quite different, but its as fast to get off with my hand as with the Magic Wand. There's less effort involved using the Magic Wand though.
04/22/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
No matter what I use, it takes 20 minutes for me to get off, almost exactly. For the first 5-10 minutes it's sort of idle while I get my thoughts in order (ever start fantasizing but suddenly you realize you've veered off to thinking about something totally unsexy and nothing's happening? Happens almost every time, I'm so scatter-brained) and then 10 minutes to really get down to business.
04/22/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: We're still working on that one. My best guess is I'd be in the 30+ range.
04/22/2011
Contributor: TheTwoRegularFolks TheTwoRegularFolks
it varies, but a good estimate would be...forever.
04/23/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I've never been able to get off using only my hands. Lord knows I've tried!
04/23/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
For me it doesn't matter if it's with a toy or my hand, it will usually take somewhere around half an hour.
Same for myself, as well.
04/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Only had the patience to get all the way there twice because it takes friggin FOREVER! 30-45 minutes minimum.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Usually 2 - 3 mins with or without a toy. Sometimes if I'm really horny, it can take me just under 1 min.
It's rare for me to have less than 3 orgasms in a play.... 5 - 6 mins and I'm triple happy!

I have always been quick - I can't imagine it taking up to 30 mins
04/23/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
It takes me at least 20 minutes with my hands, but it sometimes only takes a minute or 2 with a vibrator.
04/23/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
for solo play i like it quick, and only go for one orgasm
04/23/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I cant get myself off with just my hand. I have tried and tried. I cant even reach my g-spot with my fingers. But for me, I have to have penetration in order get off, so I have to use toys. When I use toys it depends on how horny and in the mood I am. It can be 5 min or anywhere between 20-30min.
04/24/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I always use a vibrator in conjunction to my hand when masturbating, it'll take forever to just use my hand only.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Mr. Poopy Pants Mr. Poopy Pants
Thanks for all of the votes and comments, keep them coming!!
04/25/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I can't even remember the last time I used just my hand to get myself off. It's seriously probably been 5 or more years.
10/06/2011
Contributor: TheBadHobbit TheBadHobbit
It takes me a long time to warm up to the point where I'm ready to masturbate - I've got a pretty low libido and I'm easily distracted. Usually I'm only interested if I've just spent the last hour or two reading erotic fanfic >.> <.<

Once I'm ready, though, it only takes me about five minutes I'd guess. I'll usually keep going for one or two 'aftershocks' but all in all I'm in, out, and exhausted in fifteen minutes max.

Oh, and I use both hands, my dominant hand for control and my off-hand on top of that for added pressure. I have NO idea how long it'd take me with just one hand, I really like having something pressing into my whole crotch, not just working the clit or canal. I ish weird o.o
10/06/2011
Contributor: Jobo Jobo
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Poopy Pants
I thought I would ask this question because it only takes my lover 2-3 minutes tops to have a orgasam by just rubbing her clit with her hand. After that she's done and perfectly content. She never goes for that second or third that I think most ... more
I love me a woman who can use her hand to masterbate
10/06/2011
Contributor: Geography Geography
Ugh. I wish. I have to have a toy.
02/12/2013