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If you had to give one up for a year, which would it be?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Just curious as to which you enjoy better...on both sides. So here's my question and its for both sexes, just asked differently.

Gentlemen: If you had to give up receiving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the other, which would you choose to keep receiving...blowjobs or handjobs?

Gentlemen: If you had to give up giving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the other, which would you choose to keep giving...cunnilingus or fingering?

Gentlemen: If you had to give up giving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the other, which would you choose to keep giving...blowjobs or handjobs?

Ladies: If you had to give up receiving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the other, which would you choose to keep receiving...cunnilingu s or being fingered?

Ladies: If you had to give up giving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the other, which would you choose to keep giving...blowjobs or handjobs?

Ladies: If you had to give up giving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the other, which would you choose to keep giving...cunnilingus or fingering?


Multiple answers are possible...please select all that apply.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Gentleman...keep receiving blowjobs.
CollegeFun2014 , Stagger13 , FLIPxMODE , Missmarc , Kissaki , TheDP , Skindiver , spiced , meitman , John E W , Mr. E , SecretKinksters , minstrel69 , hhh , C&K0143 , TransMarc , konicaguy , nichole413 , jake53 , Thong man , wicked weasel , Ly-Ra
22
Gentlemen...keep receiving handjobs.
Martiniman , nichole413
2
Gentlemen...keep giving cunnilingus.
Martiniman , Kirill1171 , CollegeFun2014 , Kissaki , TheDP , Skindiver , spiced , John E W , Mr. E , SecretKinksters , minstrel69 , C&K0143 , TransMarc , Ly-Ra
14
Gentlemen...keep fingering my girl.
meitman , Hallmar82 , hhh , konicaguy , jake53 , Thong man
6
Gentlemen...keep giving blowjobs.
spiced , TransMarc , jake53
3
Gentlemen...keep giving handjobs.
Lady...keep receiving cunnilingus.
Lickable Lollie , GirlOnGirl , K101 , shorejen9 , FemmeFlo , PropertyOfPotter , Rossie , SydVicious , WhoopieDoo , Terri69 , RedKyuubi , Kitka , joiedejouets , SecretKinksters , captainsgirl , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Love Lula , happywaffle34 , edeneve , C&K0143 , wicked48 , Klynn4splat13 , XxFallenAngelxX , mailroomorder , konicaguy , WanderlustinGypsy , HisLittleFiend , Terra Fae , Qozt , Lupe L , cagypsy , Happy Kupple , kozykitten65 , RTC
34
Lady...keep being fingered.
Katelyn , Lildrummrgurl7 , solitudinarian , BrittaniMaree , TheirPet , Nora , tovehunter , Sera26 , mpfm , Curiouscat , noway , Bethy Cassatt , Robespierrethecat , novanilla , Tibby , null , edeneve , lilyflower , gothicwhispers , BlackCherry , mailroomorder , Cinnyree , underHim , Red Vinyl Kitty , 02022013 , charmedtomeetyou , Isola , pirata , MastersXKittenXSlave
29
Lady...keep giving blowjobs.
Lildrummrgurl7 , solitudinarian , shorejen9 , FemmeFlo , PropertyOfPotter , BrittaniMaree , TheirPet , Beautiful-Disaster , chicmichiw , WhoopieDoo , tovehunter , Terri69 , RedKyuubi , Kitka , joiedejouets , noway , SecretKinksters , Robespierrethecat , Love Lula , happywaffle34 , null , C&K0143 , wicked48 , Klynn4splat13 , Cinnyree , underHim , Red Vinyl Kitty , WanderlustinGypsy , Qozt , pirata , cagypsy , MastersXKittenXSlave , RTC
33
Lady...keep giving handjobs.
Lickable Lollie , K101 , Rossie , SydVicious , Nora , Sera26 , Curiouscat , lilyflower , gothicwhispers , BlackCherry , 02022013 , charmedtomeetyou , HisLittleFiend , Babylove09 , Terra Fae , Isola
16
Lady...keep giving cunnilingus.
Katelyn , souviet , GirlOnGirl , FemmeFlo , WhoopieDoo , chantalgiardina , noway , novanilla , gothicwhispers , BlackCherry , Klynn4splat13 , Red Vinyl Kitty , Terra Fae , Isola , Qozt , MastersXKittenXSlave
16
Lady...keep fingering my girl.
Katelyn , BrittaniMaree , Nora , 02022013 , MastersXKittenXSlave
5
Other...please leave details.
Bignuf , Gone (LD29) , TransMarc , Terra Fae
4
Total votes: 184 (90 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
haha, i'm not a very fair person, am i?
01/16/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I just couldn't decide... Jeez this is a hard one.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I personally love my wife's handjobs and I couldn't possibly give up licking her delicious kitty.
01/16/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious as to which you enjoy better...on both sides. So here's my question and its for both sexes, just asked differently.

Gentlemen: If you had to give up receiving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the ... more
Hmm.. I'm a female & I would NOT want to give up getting cunnilingus, but I do love how my man's fingers do wonders for my g-spot (nothing else works like it!) I'd keep the oral though. It's amazing and a big part of our foreplay.

I'd be okay only giving oral or only giving hand jobs. In fact, my partner never lets me do either of those for long before he's snatching me up and putting me on the bed for sex. Says it just doesn't cut it. It's fine for foreplay, but he always wants to "finish" with sex.
01/16/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Keep giving cunnilingus and keep receiving cunnilingus. I think it would be easier to find a toy to use in place of fingers but for me personally, no toy can do what someone's mouth can do so I'm keeping that!!
01/16/2013
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Oooh. This is really a good thread. GirlonGirl has a good point that mouths can do special things.
01/16/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We'd stick with the oral sex. Fingering doesn't do much for me, and I would much rather have my mouth on my husband than my hands.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Gentlemen...keep giving cunnilingus.
01/16/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Keep giving blow jobs!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
haha, i'm not a very fair person, am i?
So am I!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Keep giving blow jobs i guess
01/16/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious as to which you enjoy better...on both sides. So here's my question and its for both sexes, just asked differently.

Gentlemen: If you had to give up receiving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the ... more
I could live without the BJ...
01/16/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
keep receiving blowjobs
01/16/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
I could keep giving blowjobs. Honestly, there's so much to choose from, losing just one option isn't so bad.
01/16/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I am pretty orally fixated....I like using my hands okay but I LOVE using my mouth.
01/16/2013
Contributor: tovehunter tovehunter
I would give up getting eaten out and handjobs. Oh, and I'm a female, obvs
01/16/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Tough call.

I would give up being fingered though.
01/16/2013
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious as to which you enjoy better...on both sides. So here's my question and its for both sexes, just asked differently.

Gentlemen: If you had to give up receiving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the ... more
OMG I couldn't give up head- thats a MUST!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Continue giving and receiving oral.
01/16/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
I'd continue getting eaten out and continue sucking
01/16/2013
Contributor: noway noway
I'd prefer to give up none of these!
01/18/2013
Contributor: John E W John E W
I have to go with what Noway said. To give up none of the above. But to have to choose. I'd have to go with keeping bj's and cunnilingus! I've always loved giving and receiving oral! I think it's knots the better part of sex if done properly
01/19/2013
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
For us they usually go together. It's very rarely just one or the other.
01/19/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We are both VERY oral people, blowjobs are a must and so is eating pussy.
01/19/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife doesn't really like being fingered very much anyway so it wouldn't be much of a sacrifice.
01/19/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I definitely enjoy fingering more than oral, but I would miss it a whole lot anyways.
01/19/2013
Contributor: Love Lula Love Lula
Quote:
Originally posted by GirlOnGirl
Keep giving cunnilingus and keep receiving cunnilingus. I think it would be easier to find a toy to use in place of fingers but for me personally, no toy can do what someone's mouth can do so I'm keeping that!!
Agreed.
01/21/2013
Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious as to which you enjoy better...on both sides. So here's my question and its for both sexes, just asked differently.

Gentlemen: If you had to give up receiving one of these two for a whole year while getting to enjoy the ... more
whoa i love giving bjs lol can't give that up!
01/22/2013
Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
great poll
03/02/2013