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A question about piercings in your nipples, clitoris or labia and your modesty?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
In the past I've had several women show me their piercings on body parts I'm sure they would not have normally shown me. These were just friends, acquaintances, and co-workers mind you. One co-worker took her top off and stood before me topless so I could admire her double nipple piercings, and a college friend who I only saw and talked to between classes my first two years of college (I was 27 and she was 19), showed me her pussy. She had got a clit ring recently and was talking about it when I simply said, "really". She took me to her car after class and gave me a long and full view of her pussy while she proudly showed off her piercing. I've had other similar experiences that I'll spare you, but this led me to my question...

If you have your nipples, clit or labia pierced, do you feel differently about exposing yourself to others to proudly show them off than before you had piercings?

If you don't have piercings in these places or you plan on getting one or more of them, would you or will you be proudly showing them off to others?

Multiple answers are possible so please select all that apply.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I have one pierced nipple.
I have two pierced nipples.
LikeSunshineDust , melissa1973
2
I have a pierced clit.
melissa1973
1
I have a pierced labia.
Nobody sees them but me.
Nobody sees them but my lover.
I show them off proudly and freely, but only to the same sex as me.
I show them off proudly and freely, but only to the opposite sex.
I show them off proudly and freely to both sexes, but only friends.
LikeSunshineDust
1
I show them off proudly and freely to anyone who wants to see.
Yes, I expose myself to show off my piercings, but never would have before I got them.
LikeSunshineDust
1
Yes, I expose myself, but my piercings didn't influence it.
G.L. Morrison
1
Having piercings changed my thoughts about exposing myself.
I've never really thought about this, I just like showing off my bling!
I enjoy showing off my piercings to shock others!
I have piercings in my pussy and nipples, but will only show my nipples.
I have piercings in my pussy and nipples and I'll proudly show both.
I do NOT have nipple, clit or labia piercings.
naturegirl , CountryPrincess , Rory , MissCandyland , Afotog , Terri69 , lainebug , GONE! , Passion plum , PropertyOfPotter , padmeamidala , ShadowedSeductress , damnbul12 , ChubbyNerd , hillys , BrittaniMaree , SecretKinksters , tortilla , jr2012 , Bethy Cassatt , Catan , karenm
22
If I had them, I would NOT show anybody!
If I had them, I'd only show my lover.
CountryPrincess , MissCandyland , Afotog , GONE! , 783883877299373783 , Passion plum , PropertyOfPotter , padmeamidala , jr2012
9
If I had them, I'd only show the same sex as me.
If I had them, I'd show only the opposite sex.
If I had them, I'd show both sexes, but only friends.
G.L. Morrison , hillys , BrittaniMaree , SecretKinksters , Bethy Cassatt
5
If I had them, I'd show anyone who wants to see.
I've never exposed myself, but I think having piercings might change that.
I expose myself now, so piercings wouldn't change me.
G.L. Morrison
1
I want piercings, but I've really never thought about this before.
tortilla
1
Having piercings and shocking others by showing them would be fun!
naturegirl
1
If I had my pussy and nipples pierced, I'd only show my nipples.
BrittaniMaree
1
If I had my pussy and nipples pierced, I'd proudly show both.
I want to get one nipple pierced.
I want to get both nipples pierced.
BrittaniMaree , SecretKinksters , tortilla
3
I want to get my clit pierced.
BrittaniMaree , SecretKinksters , tortilla
3
I want to get my labia pierced.
Other...because I know I missed something. Please explain.
CountryPrincess , JoshJosh123 , gwenevieve , ShadowedSeductress , SMichelle
5
Total votes: 57 (29 voters)
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Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
I don't have any piercings (other than ears) and don't plan to have any! But let's be hypothetical....if I had some intimate piercings I would probably be willing to show them to very close friends if they asked, but I'm an exhibitionist anyway, so I'd probably show them to anyone!
02/07/2013
Contributor: CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
I have honestly never had any sort of inkling to get anything like that pierced but my bf wants me to get my nipples pierced SOOOOO bad. I told him that I'm holding out till I have a ring on my finger because he is the ONLY reason I'd get them done. And if I do get them done he and MAYBE one or two CLOSE female friends of mine would see them, that's it! I'm very old fashioned and I think that's why I don't even really want to get them done
02/07/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
I don't even have my ears pierced!!
02/07/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
I don't even have my ears pierced!!
Me either!! No piercings...not even in my ears.
02/08/2013
Contributor: Afotog Afotog
I don't have any piercings and I don't want any. If I did have any, only my lover would see them.
02/08/2013
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
In the past I've had several women show me their piercings on body parts I'm sure they would not have normally shown me. These were just friends, acquaintances, and co-workers mind you. One co-worker took her top off and stood before me ... more
nope have non and will never get any of them
02/08/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
In the past I've had several women show me their piercings on body parts I'm sure they would not have normally shown me. These were just friends, acquaintances, and co-workers mind you. One co-worker took her top off and stood before me ... more
There's a thousand ways to go about this question!

I personally don't have any piercings down there (but i am modified), and married- if i weren't married and did have them, i'd probably show them off! actually, i definitely would. ;P

but seeing as im married, i wouldn't. and thats just because that's how my relationship works, but every one is different!

I see noooothing wrong with it at all. human bodies are nothing to be ashamed of and body modifications are essentially works of art.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
I personally would only show them to my significant other but to each their own.
02/09/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I want to get my nipples pierced eventually, the only thing stopping me would be the pain.

I would mostly only show my partner but possibly a close friend or two who was curious.
02/09/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
In the past I've had several women show me their piercings on body parts I'm sure they would not have normally shown me. These were just friends, acquaintances, and co-workers mind you. One co-worker took her top off and stood before me ... more
I do NOT have nipple, clit or labia piercings.
02/09/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
I only have my ears pierced but one of my friends has her clit pierced and says it's really nice. I'd be too scared to go through with it though.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
you were getting hit on by the way. i have noticed a similar phenomena with fake boobs. when ladies buy them.....they love to show them off. gettin' their moneys worth i guess.
02/09/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Don't have these piercings but would love to have nipps and clit done
02/09/2013
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Speaking from the past, since I did have both my nipples pierced but took them out because they wouldn't heal completely even after years and were painful sometimes. I would show any of my close friends who wanted to see, male or female.
02/09/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Dont have any, but would love to have my nipples and clit pierced.
02/09/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
would like to get some piercings, but not sure who I'd show them to
02/09/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Everything I've got in the general taboo areas are too sensitive to get pierced, but I am not afraid/ashamed of nudity. Honestly, I could walk a city street back and forth naked if it was legal, I don't care. But yeah, I'd probably show off my piercings to those who could deal with it. I wouldn't just flash my friends if they weren't comfortable with nudity. If I was in a comfortable place, then, yeah, I'm probably already half-naked by that point.
02/09/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I only have my ears pierced and don't intend to get any more piercings. But if I did have my nipples, labia or clit pierced then I would only show it to my partner, and not to any friends.
06/02/2013
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I have ear piercings, both nipples, the hood, and a California piercing at the bottom opening of my pussy (or did have). I showed them off in front of my girlfriend in California, several of my police fuck buddies. The California piercing was accidentally during sex ripped out a few years ago but it looked hot. Since I gained weight, I have taken them all out because my nipples were killing me on a daily basis. I can still put a ring in the hood if I want to.
06/02/2013