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Ladies...A masturbation question dealing with which hands and fingers you use?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I know me personally, I masturbate with my left hand until its time to cum and then I switch to my right hand. I enjoy watching my wife and she switches it up, although I do see her use her right hand more often. So this leads me to my questions...

When you masturbate...

Which hand do you predominantly use to finger yourself?

Which hand do you predominantly use when you hold a vibrator or dildo during masturbation?

When you finger yourself, and once you're warmed up and wet, how many fingers do you most often use?


Multiple answers are available for selection so please choose all that apply.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Right Hand - I use my right hand most often when I finger myself.
leanright69 , SecretKinksters , Bignuf
3
Left Hand - I use my left hand most often when I finger myself.
Both Hands - I use both hands together & equally when I finger myself.
Right Hand - I use my right hand most often to hold my vibrator or dildo when I masturbate.
Wicked Wahine , MsCinnamonSpice , Rossie , leanright69 , Cindi025 , deltalima , pcv , SecretKinksters , LoneOokami
9
Left Hand - I use my left hand most often to hold my vibrator or dildo when I masturbate.
kitty1949
1
Both Hands - I use both hands, switching them up equally when I hold my vibrator or dildo when I masturbate.
Gone (LD29) , K101 , kitty1949 , MissCandyland
4
1 Finger - I use one finger most often when I finger myself.
MsCinnamonSpice , Rossie , Bignuf
3
2 Fingers - I use two fingers most often when I finger myself.
leanright69 , SecretKinksters
2
3 Fingers - I use three fingers most often when I finger myself.
4 Fingers - I use four fingers most often when I finger myself.
Fist - I prefer to use my fist most often when I finger myself.
Other...because I know you like this choice. Please leave details.
Septimus
1
Total votes: 23 (15 voters)
Poll is closed
02/09/2013
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Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I alternate which hand I use for vibrators/dildos, and the sensation is different for each I think because of the angle and amount of pressure I can give. It's interesting.

As for the rest of it, I'm the queen of irrational hangups. I try to avoid touching myself with my fingers at all if I can help it.
02/09/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I know me personally, I masturbate with my left hand until its time to cum and then I switch to my right hand. I enjoy watching my wife and she switches it up, although I do see her use her right hand more often. So this leads me to my ... more
I don't really masturbate, but when I do it's mostly just both hands, applying pressure clitorally. Usually I just use toys for foreplay & my partner uses his fingers for me, which is better than if I tried myself.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I forgot to select for the fingering vote, but it would have been "other". I don't, and never have, liked the feel of any fingers inside me, it's always uncomfortable.

I usually hold the vibe or dildo with my right hand, but sometimes I use the left for the toy when I need the right hand to rub my clit. Other times, when I use separate devices, the left hand holds the external vibe & the right holds the internal vibe.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Right hand holding the dildo or vibrator, and two fingers on my left hand rubbing my clit. Only time I finger myself is to apply lube inside my vag, and I'll be using my right middle finger for that.
02/09/2013
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
I'm left handed, but I can use my toys with either hand.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
I'm right handed and I use that hand for everything. I think typing is the only thing that my left hand really helps out with.
I don't tend to finger myself when I masturbate though, so I don't know if it counts for this poll.
02/09/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I use both hands for clitoral stimulation. I don't ever put fingers in myself.
02/10/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I know me personally, I masturbate with my left hand until its time to cum and then I switch to my right hand. I enjoy watching my wife and she switches it up, although I do see her use her right hand more often. So this leads me to my ... more
I don't masturbate often at all. No need to. I want some, my hubby is happy to oblige. However, if I do, it is one finger right on my clit, and bam...I am "good to go". (Right hand, since you asked. Index finger, in fact).
02/10/2013