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Contributor: rigg rigg
This question is mostly directed towards females. So, when having an orgasm, do you like to kiss your partner while having the orgasm, or is it better to cuddle and kiss after the orgasm has happened? I ask because I am sort of obsessed with being able to have the ultimate intimate moment with my (future) partner, where I can give her a g spot orgasm through PIV sex and at the same time have the option of kissing her face to face if that's what she's into. BUT, I have a straight (noncurved) penis (within average sizes), which I understand isn't as good and can't hit the g spot as well in missionary and so I can't have this ultimate intimate moment. Ladies, all other things equal, would this be a downside, or is it just as romantic to be able to kiss after the orgasm?

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12/26/2010
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12/26/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I personally love being kissed afterwards, during orgasm I wrap my arms around him. Sometimes he kisses me, but usually we kiss afterwards.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Because of being loud, I've had two guys (at separate times) latch their mouths over mine to muffle my screams. They both rather liked feeling my reaction by mouth. Just try it and see what you think.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Because of being loud, I've had two guys (at separate times) latch their mouths over mine to muffle my screams. They both rather liked feeling my reaction by mouth. Just try it and see what you think.
I'm vocal sometimes. Teehee
12/26/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I love being kissed during orgasm, but I've never had a g-spot orgasm, so I wouldn't know about that, specifically.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Kissing distracts me from being able to orgasm so it's a one or the other deal for me.
12/26/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
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Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Kissing distracts me from being able to orgasm so it's a one or the other deal for me.
Ditto. I can't focus on orgasming if I'm busy kissing. I love kissing a few moments after, though.
12/26/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Yeah, not a fan of being kissed during orgasm. I do like a finger in my ass during orgasm, though.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I think sometimes it's great and sometimes it doesn't fit. It depends on the mood and the kind of sex happening. But it can definitely be quite a turn on and/or romantic.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Because of being loud, I've had two guys (at separate times) latch their mouths over mine to muffle my screams. They both rather liked feeling my reaction by mouth. Just try it and see what you think.
This is how things usually play out with my partner and I and I love it.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Kissing distracts me from being able to orgasm so it's a one or the other deal for me.
Ditto. While I can manage to walk and chew gum ( ), I just can't seem to enjoy intense sensation and do anything else other than just, well, ENJOY it. If I am expected to do anything else, other than lay there moaning in a bliss-induced stupor, I don't enjoy it NEARLY as much and can't reach orgasm.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I DO love to kiss right when I orgasm - it's wild. But it's not a must and afterwards is perfect too!
12/27/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by rigg
This question is mostly directed towards females. So, when having an orgasm, do you like to kiss your partner while having the orgasm, or is it better to cuddle and kiss after the orgasm has happened? I ask because I am sort of obsessed with being ... more
I am a screamer so as long as my partners don't mind me performing modified rescue breathing on them then I'm up for it. I prefer kissing before and then after though if I had to choose.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Because of being loud, I've had two guys (at separate times) latch their mouths over mine to muffle my screams. They both rather liked feeling my reaction by mouth. Just try it and see what you think.
My guys will place their hands over my mouth which kind of intensifies the orgasm for me. It's best when one guy is doing the orgam giving and the other is making sure I am quiet....soooo good.
12/27/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
I prefer kissing after the orgasm, although, I don't really mind being kissed during.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I can't focus on kissing properly when I'm having an orgams - but trying is fun
12/27/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I suppose anything's possible - but in 40 years of having sex with a fair number of women I've never kissed one during her orgasm.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Occasionally, I do love to kiss during an orgasm. If I can focus enough on it, it can ramp things up significantly. That said, I LOVE kissing. Kissing alone is a major turn on to me, so it is only natural that it would intensify things. I can see that it wouldn't be for everyone all the time.
12/27/2010
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I think sometimes it's great and sometimes it doesn't fit. It depends on the mood and the kind of sex happening. But it can definitely be quite a turn on and/or romantic.
I agree with this for sure. There are times when I definitely wouldn't want to be kissed, but there have been other times when him leaning over to kiss me was the thing that put me over the edge. That's always been when he's using toys on me, though - during PIV it's somehow a little harder to coordinate
12/27/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I tend not to be able to focus on kissing during an orgasm. I have had guys try to kiss me to be quiet when we needed to, but it doesn't always work lol. I do enjoy kissing after though.
12/27/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I Really enjoy kissing her when she orgasms! That seems to make the whole thing that much more intimate. With PIV sex, it is a little more dificult just because of logistics. (That and I'm afraid of chipping one of our teeth. LOL) But with finger/toy sex, it is a huge turn on for me, although sometimes she will say no.
12/27/2010
Contributor: northstar northstar
I love looking directly into his eyes and/or kissing him, though it doesn't happen that often because it's such a physical peak that it's hard to focus on passion/love as well as the sheer release. I prefer kissing afterwards during the 'comedown', so to speak.
07/17/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I think kissing during orgasm is great!
07/17/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
I'm not really into kissing during an orgasm. I'd rather be completely focused on one or the other.
07/25/2011