Are you jealous of masturbation?

Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Does it bother you when your significant other masturbates or watches porn? (they may do it occasionally or obsesively)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
doesnt bother me that they masterbate
captainsgirl , tortilla , TheirPet , laflauta , Septimus , Ansley , DigitalSweety , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , mpfm , js250 , nikki0668 , Bubba29 , Trysexual , FLIPxMODE , Missmarc , Pandwhora , ChubbyNerd , Martiniman , Terri69 , Breas , solitudinarian , jr2012 , big b , Gone (LD29) , minstrel69 , ScorpioCurves , tequilafish , Genderfree , jake0530
29
sometimes it does when they masterbate
hillys , lainebug
2
yes it bothers me when they masterbate
funluvinmama
1
other (masterbation)
ginnyluvspotter , shorejen9
2
doesnt bother me that they watch porn
Septimus , Ansley , shorejen9 , DigitalSweety , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , mpfm , js250 , Bubba29 , Trysexual , Pandwhora , solitudinarian , Gone (LD29) , minstrel69 , ScorpioCurves , tequilafish , jake0530
16
sometimes it bothers me when they watch porn
captainsgirl , tortilla , funluvinmama , laflauta , nikki0668 , lainebug , Shade
7
yes it bothers me when they watch porn
other (please specify)
*Camoprincess* , falalena , Martiniman , leanright69
4
Total votes: 61 (38 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
I don't have a problem with hubby watching porn, when we watch it together.

I do have a problem with him watching it without me and masterbating. Why should he please himself when he rarely has sex with me.
02/07/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Doesn't bother me.
02/07/2013
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
Watching porn only bothers me if he is addicted to it or if it is replacing me.
02/07/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
He can watch as much porn and jerk off as much as he wants to - it's his body. He feels the same when it comes to my own indulgences.
02/07/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Depends on if they would rather do that and not have sex as much.
02/07/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
We only watch porn together and he doesn't masturbate so I have nothing to be bothered by. He says he has no need for self pleasure since I take care of his every whim. As far as porn goes, I pick out the porn. We only watch it once or twice a month.
However if he felt the need to take matters into his own hands I would only be bothered if it was a replacement to me or he was hiding it. I prefer honesty and openness.
02/07/2013
Contributor: DigitalSweety DigitalSweety
Sometimes someone just wants to rub one off without worrying about pleasing their partner. I can understand that. I really don't care if my partner masturbates to porn as long as they're still having sex with me.

Now, if they AREN'T... well then, there's a problem. But that's probably an indicator of something else wrong with the relationship, and not the fault of the porn.
02/07/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Nope it does not bother me at all.
02/07/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
It doesn't bother me at all. It has never affected our time together so it's no big deal.
02/07/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
Nope. I have strong feelings about this--let them watch porn and masturbate, it keeps them from making it a reality elsewhere.
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Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
doesnt bother me
02/07/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does it bother you when your significant other masturbates or watches porn? (they may do it occasionally or obsesively)
doesnt bother me that they masturbate
02/07/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by funluvinmama
I don't have a problem with hubby watching porn, when we watch it together.

I do have a problem with him watching it without me and masterbating. Why should he please himself when he rarely has sex with me.
To me that is kinda wrong to feel that way whether you have sex all the time or very little due to jobs and whatnot if he wants to self pleasure he should be able to.


I don't care if my partner masturbates just as well as he doesn't care that I do We usually do it together and have phone sex when he is away working. When he is home it is all sex together from oral,hand jobs,toys and sex we enjoy it either way.

I think the ONLY way I would get jealous is if he came home from being away for a bit an only wanted to self pleasure an do nothing with me.
02/07/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does it bother you when your significant other masturbates or watches porn? (they may do it occasionally or obsesively)
let me say first, i do not have a problem with my fiance masturbating and watching porn. but right now, i would have a problem with it since we have been unable to have sex as often as i like. it would be very annoying, have sex with me instead!
02/07/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Her masturbating is a turn on. As for porn, she really isn't into watching it.
02/08/2013
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does it bother you when your significant other masturbates or watches porn? (they may do it occasionally or obsesively)
sometimes to both especially if I want sex and they did n aren't in the mood
02/08/2013
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
nope neither of them does not bother me in general! I admit to doing it on my own, and I have no ulterior motives (as in, less attracted to my so, which I am definitely not!)...it would be so hypocritical for me to not let him do it too!
02/09/2013
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
Masturation, not a problem, porn bugs me.
02/09/2013
Contributor: big b big b
like to watch her or here about it later
02/09/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Why would it bother me? I do these things as well, so it would be a strange double standard.
02/09/2013