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Is there anyone else here who does NOT like cum?

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Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
Hi Friends!

I was surfing around the web today and it seemed like everyone was worshiping cum. Not that there's anything wrong with that, and I totally endorse anything that turns your crank....but I am starting to feel like a weirdo for disliking cum!

I gag at cumshots in porn, I secretly gag during cleanup time (never in front of the partner of course), I gag at random pics that include cum. I hope to NOT have a squirting orgasm one day. I actually do swallow during oral, because somehow that's easier for me to deal with than depositing it somewhere else!

I am a little glad I'm not single, because I feel like it would be a major sexual turnoff if a new partner learned this about me.

Is there anyone else in the no-cum camp? Or anyone that would like to reassure me that this is normal (I hope)?

Has anyone ever gotten over a cum gag-reflex, or any tips on how to deal with it? Thank you so much everyone!
03/15/2013
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife use to feel that way - but I've turned her to the dark side. Now she's disappointed if I don't cum during oral. It's all about frame of mind:

Decide you hate it and you'll gag.

Decide you like it and you will.
03/16/2013
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
It gives me heart burn if I swallow on an empty stomach and I don't like the texture, does that count? While it's not a turn on, it's not a turn off. It's a necessary evil, I suppose!
03/16/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I basically hate it. I wish I loved it. Oh well. Just something about the texture and temperature that I just can't get over.
03/16/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
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Originally posted by jr2012
Hi Friends!

I was surfing around the web today and it seemed like everyone was worshiping cum. Not that there's anything wrong with that, and I totally endorse anything that turns your crank....but I am starting to feel like a weirdo ... more
You're not alone. I've got a lot of hangups, and you just hit on one of them. I don't think it's weird at all.
03/16/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife doesn't like it, either. She says she actually likes the taste, and that it turns her on when I cum in her mouth, but cum still nauseates her. Which is a real shame, but c'est la vie!
03/16/2013
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i dont like it
03/16/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
You're not alone, I don't like cum either.
03/16/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
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Originally posted by Rossie
You're not alone, I don't like cum either.
Its a little gross, but I'm not repulsed by it
03/17/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
There is NO cumming in my mouth! Ever!! YUCK!!!
03/17/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by jr2012
Hi Friends!

I was surfing around the web today and it seemed like everyone was worshiping cum. Not that there's anything wrong with that, and I totally endorse anything that turns your crank....but I am starting to feel like a weirdo ... more
You are far from a weirdo. While I myself enjoy cum I know of a few of my female friends who do not. Most of them are turned off by the texture and a few even said that for them the taste was nasty. And almost all them who don't like it also hate seeing the cumshots in porns too. So don't fear, you are normal You just have different tastes is all.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
I really want to like it, because my boyfriend loves it when he gets to finish in my mouth, but right now, just the thought of cum in my mouth makes me want to vomit. Fortunately for him, in the heat of the moment, I can be convinced to do damn near anything xD
03/18/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
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Originally posted by jr2012
Hi Friends!

I was surfing around the web today and it seemed like everyone was worshiping cum. Not that there's anything wrong with that, and I totally endorse anything that turns your crank....but I am starting to feel like a weirdo ... more
I just have an issue with the taste
03/18/2013
Contributor: Apate Apate
Sometimes the sight of it makes me gag. All depends on what kind of mood I'm in. As for my own cum, I love my cum lol
03/18/2013
Contributor: butts butts
I love it, but I don't swallow because I always get a weird upset stomach from it. I have no idea why and I wish I could!
03/18/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I actually enjoy cum. I have now issue with it.
03/18/2013
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
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Originally posted by jr2012
Hi Friends!

I was surfing around the web today and it seemed like everyone was worshiping cum. Not that there's anything wrong with that, and I totally endorse anything that turns your crank....but I am starting to feel like a weirdo ... more
I don't have a gag reflex about it, but I'm not into cum shots etc in porn. I don't swallow or like the taste of a male's cum. Occasionally I will ask my husband to cum on my clit or something.
03/21/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
(Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
Hi Friends!

I was surfing around the web today and it seemed like everyone was worshiping cum. Not that there's anything wrong with that, and I totally endorse anything that turns your crank....but I am starting to feel like a weirdo ... more
My best friend in high school actually hated cum to a point where she wouldn't even give head. She never really got past it, so I unfortunately don't have any tips for you, but I definitely don't think that you're a weirdo!
03/21/2013
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Nope... certainly not a weirdo!!!

Some people like things and some people don't. Makes that phrase, "it's just not my cup of tea" make a heck of a lot more sense.

I don't mind cum. And if my partner expects me to swallow... he better eat properly. I gag and sometimes hurl from wretched tasting things.
03/21/2013
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I don't like it. I don't mean to hurt his feelings, but having it anywhere outside my body makes me cringe. Just the texture.....color...wa rmth...GAG. I don't go all girly on him and freak out (only in my head), I just say "grab a tissue/wipe". He's asked and I've been honest, I don't like it.
03/22/2013