Hello all!! My husband and I are in need of new ideas to spice up our sex life. We enjoy using toys and ice and just being really freaky. We also enjoy BDSM also. Any ideas of what we can try now?
In need of new ideas to spice up our sex life
07/01/2019
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I guess the best way to spice up sex life is trying new things, what you've never tried before. Since I don't know what things you've been through already, it's hard to make specific suggestions.
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Thelovelysexxto1
Hello all!! My husband and I are in need of new ideas to spice up our sex life. We enjoy using toys and ice and just being really freaky. We also enjoy BDSM also. Any ideas of what we can try now?
Changing roles may be a wonderful experience. For example, if you used to be submissive, try to take control and be dominant.
From my experience, role play helps to diversify sex life a lot and make it more invigorating and fun
Also, sex in public places could bring a lot of excitement. Adding remote-controlled sex toys makes such dates really hot and unforgettable
07/02/2019
What sexual fantasies do each of you have? Have you talked about them to each other? Acting out a sexual fantasy can be really, very hot. Especially a fantasy you may be embarrassed to even admit having. Just talking about and sharing such fantasies with each other can be extremely exciting in itself, and may inspire either of you, the partner who is revealing a sexual fantasy, or the partner hearing about it, to explore as yet unthought of ways of acting the fantasy out in almost endless variation. Explore your secret sexual fantasies with each other. But each must respect the other’s fantasies unjudgmentally and with respect, or this exercise will turn into lost possibilities and failed understanding of one another, and failed acceptance of each other’s full, complex, sexual nature, needs, and desires.
07/03/2019
Pajodin
Do you and your husband often talk about your sexual fantasies? My wife and I constantly talk about it. If you do not have new feelings and you have already tried a lot, you can contact an escort agency and try a threesome. Israeli girls will bring you back the passion for sex and fill your life with new feelings.
07/08/2019
Hi guys,
I need your help.
I'm in a sexless marriage and about 2 years ago, after a slightly heated but constructive argument, my wife knowing that I enjoy/need sex and she has very low libido, she said I can find a woman to have sex with.
I was heavily against it.
Now we have decided to go Japan (where she is from) and she has gone ahead to set things up but it may take a while; 6 months to 1 year...the Japanese legal system is apparently more complicated and demanding for foreign spouses.
I am therefore tempted now to actually find a woman but with her understanding that I'm married and just appreciate a women's touch that I do so miss.
But all women online demand a verification card that I just can't find.
Any suggestions?
I need your help.
I'm in a sexless marriage and about 2 years ago, after a slightly heated but constructive argument, my wife knowing that I enjoy/need sex and she has very low libido, she said I can find a woman to have sex with.
I was heavily against it.
Now we have decided to go Japan (where she is from) and she has gone ahead to set things up but it may take a while; 6 months to 1 year...the Japanese legal system is apparently more complicated and demanding for foreign spouses.
I am therefore tempted now to actually find a woman but with her understanding that I'm married and just appreciate a women's touch that I do so miss.
But all women online demand a verification card that I just can't find.
Any suggestions?
07/08/2019
I'm sorry guys! I thought this was a fresh post!! please delete I don't know how.
07/08/2019
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Ummmm not sure on the verification card, which I assume is an ID but you can if your serious about this and still in the USA, try tinder. I am not even sure where to begin.
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Tasty Bulge
I'm sorry guys! I thought this was a fresh post!! please delete I don't know how.
07/08/2019
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Since you got an answer here, I guess it makes sense not to delete your post
Originally posted by
Tasty Bulge
I'm sorry guys! I thought this was a fresh post!! please delete I don't know how.
07/11/2019
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Hi Thelovelysexxto1,
Originally posted by
Thelovelysexxto1
Hello all!! My husband and I are in need of new ideas to spice up our sex life. We enjoy using toys and ice and just being really freaky. We also enjoy BDSM also. Any ideas of what we can try now?
That is a loaded question. I have plenty of ideas of things to try, but its hard to know what you guys have already added to spice things up to this point. For those spankos out there like me, one thing that my wife and I play around with is spanking her as a punishment for something she did that she wasn't suppose to do. The reason she is to be punished is totally fictional and is made up by her and I spank her for it. Of course she doesn't have any real rules and I don't actually punish her for any wrong doings. We have just found this role playing as a turn on. When I give her the fictional punishment spanking I don't just use my hand we have crops, canes, paddles, belts, leather paddles, wooden spoons, etc. But we always decide together what I should use and how hard and how many. Alright that is enough said about the role play; you guys get how all that works, just remember its fake and can be fun and most importantly pleasurable for both of you. Have her use a rabbit or a wand during the spanking at for at least us it spices things up and always ends with her have multiple amazing wet orgasms.
07/14/2019
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