If you could start all over again as a young virgin, but know what you know now, what would your sexual choices be?

Contributor: VeganChick (is Gone) VeganChick (is Gone)
I wouldn't have changed a thing! Everything was perfect for me.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'd change how we had sex sooner.
02/14/2013
Contributor: purpledesert purpledesert
I AM a young virgin.
02/15/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Wouldn't really change a thing, but then again, I'm still young!
02/15/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I'd just omit a couple of partners and I'd be cool with everything else.
02/15/2013
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
sooner
02/15/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
I'd have more sex.
02/16/2013
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
Toys sooner. SO much fun.
05/24/2013
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I'd have realised I was normal a heck of a lot earlier than I did!!!!
05/24/2013
Contributor: Experiment Experiment
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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I regret waiting as long as I did. I would, if I could, go back and sleep with more people. I just always over thought it.

But hey, there's still time!
05/25/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
There are about 7 more girls I would've slept with.
05/25/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
i would have been a bit choosier with my hookups
05/25/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I would have definitely joined EF sooner! Going on two years now, nowhere long enough : )
05/26/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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I have no regrets besides the age at which I found out about toys! I wish I could have found them sooner.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I would've waited a lot longer to lose my virginity... To someone who means something to me... & I wish I would've found out about sex toys a whole lot sooner... I'd also choose better partners... again.. ones that actually mean something...
05/26/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Very glad that between the two of us there is not much of a sexual past with prior partners. I don't think I would change a thing.
05/26/2013
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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I don't think I would have changed anything except using sex toys more in the relationship(s)(confus e) !
05/27/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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maybe experience more men before getting married
05/27/2013
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
I'd not be having sex for the reasons I'd had sex for, but I'd still be trying to get into everyone's pants.
05/27/2013
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Eden sooner for sure. Haha. And better partners.
05/27/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by skeeterlynn
Eden sooner for sure. Haha. And better partners.
I would not have waited until I was almost 30 years old to lose my virgin status.
As a guy, I was not comfortable talking about it with my peers for risk of being ridiculed, and most everyone I knew was getting it on with their girlfriends which made it even more strange for me.
Besides that, if I did become sexual earlier, I would have had more partners to get experience for my spouse, not going into marriage blindly though I definitely would not want to be risky either.
Getting married and BOTH being virgins is a nice I dream, but in reality, not so good !
05/28/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I would not have had sex with my first partner for many reasons.

My husband and I dated in HS and he played hard to get and we never had sex. Had I known how amazing he was or that he was holding me off because he really loved me, I would have never broken up with him. He was quite the player back then, so I thought he didn't like me that much because he always held back. In reality he held back because he really cared about me and did not want our relationship just to be about sex. It took me a while but I finally got my man.
06/02/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
More sex, more partners, found EF sooner & definitely started using sex toys sooner!
06/02/2013
Contributor: Catan Catan
If we knew then what we know now, my partner and I would have had an easier time getting into anal play! Silicone lube, syringe to get lube on the inside, toys to warm up with.
06/02/2013
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
I waited to have sex with someone I really wanted to have sex with, and we've done all the fun sorts of things I wanted to. I wouldn't change anything.
06/02/2013
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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I would have waited for someone different for a first time
06/02/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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Let me explain...I'd stay a virgin longer, but then when I did start having sex, I'd have more of it. Those few first years were sparse.
06/04/2013
Contributor: Bunny183 Bunny183
I would have dumped my abusive ex earlier, I would have chosen better partners, and I would have made sure to enjoy myself more.
06/08/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Just curious how you would do it differently if you could do it again with the knowledge you have now.

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There are a few things that I might have liked to have changed, but they've helped to make me who I am today, so I wouldn't change them. One thing that I'd do if I'd had more knowledge was sign up to EF sooner, though!
06/08/2013
Contributor: never shy never shy
I would masterbate until I got married then have sex me and my husband have the best sex I have ever had and I'm not the proudest of my past sexual partners so I would have not given up my virginity to any of my exes knowing what I know now
06/08/2013