The New Intimacy

Does the idea or fantasy of being a submissive sex slave 24/7 to your lover turn you on?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
For those who are not currently living this lifestyle, does the idea or fantasy of being fully controlled and sexually dominated by your lover turn you on? I'm talking about living it 24/7, not just for playtime.
02/03/2013
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Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
No!
02/03/2013
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Not really.
02/03/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I really couldn't do that, I am a control freak.
02/03/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Maybe for a whole day and only then once in a blue moon. Does sound like it would be interesting though and I'd absolutely be down to try it if my man was up for it as well. But that sort of thing isn't his cup of tea.
02/03/2013
Contributor: palindromic palindromic
24/7 really isn't my thing. I have a life to live outside of BDSM.
02/03/2013
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
No. I'm an egalitarian masochist.
02/04/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
Yes and no. My Master and I have discussed how this would be a possibility if we ever got married, but he wouldn't enforce it most of the time because it's too tiring for the both of us and I need a lot of compassion and care or I break easily. It would be more of a 24/7 permission for him to call on me to perform my slave duties whether I'm in the mood or not, but I would have a fulltime job and I wouldn't have to be naked and in chains the whole time at home or anything.
02/04/2013
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
Being the dominant side of our relationship, no I wouldn't want to be a 24/7 slave. On the other hand, I wouldn't mind my wife being the sub, though I don't think 24/7 would be practical. I think that what Bellefleur said would be best. But, alas, my wife probably wouldn't go for more than our occasional outings into BDSM.
02/04/2013
Contributor: QSBybakd QSBybakd
Depends on how you mean it. I could quite happily be a perma-sub, but I know my partner wouldn't be taking advantage of that 24/7, so my daily life wouldn't really be compromised. I find dominance and discipline to be very intimate things beyond just sex, and I love doing things to please him.
02/06/2013
Contributor: butts butts
Absolutely not, I don't like being submissive. There's a FEW things that I like my partner to do that count as me being submissive, but for the most part I'm dominant. I'm usually bottom too, but very dom/power bottom.
02/07/2013